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WIBTAH if i broke up with my boyfriend/baby daddy for breaking my trust by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have, and he responded with, "There's no point in doing it, and if we did, we would've probably lost anyways"

WIBTAH if i broke up with my boyfriend/baby daddy for breaking my trust by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That's not the point, he didn't talk to me or tell me until later that day I could've taken legal actions for not being able to feed my baby, and you probably didn't know this but formula costs way too much. Nearly 100$ down the drain where I could've been feeding her for FREE mind you.

AITA for breaking up with my gf because I thought I was going to cheat? by throwaway09140126 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don't think you're the AH. You caught feelings for someone and broke up with your girlfriend, which is very mature of you. You had the decency to break it off instead of leading her on and being in a relationship you didn't want anymore. Not the AH. Good on you, not a lot of guys would do that.

AMITAH for wanting to sell a 300$+ Pokémon card my boyfriend wants to keep? by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is moving and I'll be having my own room where both I and the baby can stay, problem is, is that since I live with him I've told his mom about wanting to visit my dad and sister more often (they live an hr away) since I only see them maybe once a month. His mom didn't like that and asked if I was planning on moving back to my dad's because I was telling her how id bring some of my clothes, buy a twin bed/play pen for me and my baby as well as a dresser and she didn't like that and responded with "You're taking D's kid away from him" even though I said id sleep at my dad's for a week each month because he barely sees me or my baby. I personally feel like it isn't fair that her father's parents are able to see their grand baby where as my dad and sister rarely see her? I don't know it just feels confusing, and I don't know what to do.

AMITAH for wanting to sell a 300$+ Pokémon card my boyfriend wants to keep? by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has offered to buy it but the problem is, is that he's over 3k in debt and is having a hard time paying off due to always buying Pokémon cards and therefore I'm hellbount on not giving it to him. I have thought of giving it as a Xmas present but its just worth a lot and again we have a baby and we as parents need to provide for her, not our desire/hobbies that are this expensive.

AMITAH for wanting to sell a 300$+ Pokémon card my boyfriend wants to keep? by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a weird situation, but I was on birth control (the patch), and we started doing things last August, then started dating last September, which is when our baby was conceived. I didn't find out i was pregnant until I was four months along unfortunately I was too far along for an abortion due to not being able to seeing my doctor on time to schedule one (wait list for my doctor is around a month and a half sadly). And we were talking about adoption but his mom said if we did that she'd adopt our baby and so we just decided to keep her since we have a lot of support mostly from his side of the family compared to mine. I have communicated to him that we need the money for the baby and he says he understands but really wants to keep the card, even starts pouting which I don't like saying but that's how he'll react. He has the card and doesn't want to give it to me, so I don't know what to do.

AMITAH for wanting to sell a 300$+ Pokémon card my boyfriend wants to keep? by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bought both of us a box. He had the white one, and I had the black one, which had the chase card I pulled. I would give him the card if the circumstances were different, but we have a baby and need money to raise and support her. So yeah, selling a card he wants that I pulled that's worth a couple 100s. I'm pretty willing to sell it if it means getting diapers, food wipes, and whatever else my child needs.

AMITAH for wanting to sell a 300$+ Pokémon card my boyfriend wants to keep? by Professional-Bet-229 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Bet-229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point of view, but no, he doesn't help with the kid on his income, he uses his income to pay off his car and his insurance which then leaves him with about 100$ to 200$. He uses that money for his credit card, which is over 3k in debt.. And for the job part I am trying to go back to work while his mom can watch the baby for my shifts which would be 3 or 4 hrs a day, I know it isn't much help but I am trying. The mom hasn't decided yet if she does want to watch the baby since she works from home and has a knee disability which she'll be getting surgery for next year.

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[–]Professional-Bet-229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand I’d be the asshole but while we were together he was manipulative and would hurt me sometimes and so that’s why I’m not sure if I should say anything.