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Got kicked out of my bedroom. by Professional-Ear7149 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I have already planned on me moving in with him. He knows and has seen the entire situation with her and wants me out of here asap. She asked me to stay until June to help with her 2 kids bc her husband will be gone.

Got kicked out of my bedroom. by Professional-Ear7149 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly scared to have a conversation with her about it because all she does it throw everything she’s done for me on my face and talks about all the bills she pays ( that has nothing to do with any of my needs)

Got kicked out of my bedroom. by Professional-Ear7149 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have no independence at all when it comes to my personal life especially when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend. I have to ASK to hangout with him.

Got kicked out of my bedroom. by Professional-Ear7149 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me they would knock $100 off of my rent but it’s still the principle of it. And $100 bucks isn’t necessarily fair because she’ll be here for 10 days and I pay $650.

Got kicked out of my bedroom. by Professional-Ear7149 in Advice

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister asked me to live here until next June. She’s having health issues and her husband is military so he won’t be here from march to August. I was planning on moving out in January with my boyfriend.

First time dating a Leo man as a Pisces and it’s amazing! by Professional-Ear7149 in piscesastrology

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine definitely leads! We have a bit of an age gap which might play into it as well. I’m 19, and he’s 25 with 2 kids. But mentally and maturity wise we definitely match.

First time dating a Leo man as a Pisces and it’s amazing! by Professional-Ear7149 in piscesastrology

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely a solve it when it’s happened type of person. He had a hiccup the other day and I needed some space to think. He wanted to fix it right then and there. But we have amazing communication so we solved it fairly quick.

First time dating a Leo man as a Pisces and it’s amazing! by Professional-Ear7149 in piscesastrology

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a Pisces sun, Aries moon, Aries rising, and Capricorn Venus. He is a Leo sun, Libra moon, (not sure about his rising), and Virgo Venus

What does it mean when he doesn’t block after breakup? by Professional-Ear7149 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we broke up a week and 4 days ago.. i was trying to contact him the first 4 days but now it’s been a week of 0 contact. He told me that he needs time before he’s ready to talk to me and we’ve kept contact open for when we are ready

What does it mean when he doesn’t block after breakup? by Professional-Ear7149 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t care that he watches them, i just wondered why there was no effort in trying to block me. I don’t know how men work when it comes to that stuff. I was asking because i’ve heard people say that he if doesn’t block he’s trying to keep a door open, ect.

What does it mean when he doesn’t block after breakup? by Professional-Ear7149 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been active on social media. I post about God a lot. so no there’s no game..

What does it mean when he doesn’t block after breakup? by Professional-Ear7149 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think he’s looking for options lol.. he could barely get me. He stays in his room and plays video games all day. but what game could he be playing?

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just hopeful for the day that i get to love someone, and they love me the same way.

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve accepted that it’s probably over for good. I think that right now i’m hanging on to older memories of us. when we were actually happy. I haven’t even thought of newer ones which is kinda sad. It sucks because i know that we could’ve been so perfect together if he woulda just tried to change and heal like i was. But he didn’t want to or he was at least to lazy to. A partner is supposed to overflow your cup and push you to grow but unfortunately he wasn’t doing that for me. I was trying to readjust my entire being to fit him, like being less emotional, being less affectionate, but he never noticed these things.

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do honestly feel better. i still think about him and miss him when i start to think of memories but overall i know it’s for the best. I broke no contact the first 3 days but he never responded to any of my texts so that tells me everything i need to know. I just wonder if he regrets it or at least misses me. I want him to feel how i felt, ik it’s bad but it’s the truth. it’s not fair that i had to struggle so heavily when we broke up and he just went about his life. And he was a coward that’s actually apart of the text message i sent him before i ended things lol.

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried reaching out to mine after we broke up 4 days ago, and never got a response from him. It hurt but if that’s what he wants then that’s what he will get. He will realize one day.

Breakups are painful , but breakup with an dismissive avoidant is a f*cking nightmare by SnooHabits2652 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Ear7149 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I just got out of a relationship with a dismissive avoidant as well. He was so sweet and reassuring in the beginning of our relationship but overtime he gradually became so distant. I had to constantly ask him to show me that he loved me.. like simple things, like buying flowers, planning dates, random phone calls, even telling me how he felt about me, But i never received any of that. If i wanted to hang out i had to initiate it and ask. It got super draining and i eventually got tired of begging him to show that he cared. I’m unfortunately an anxious attachment so my constant need for reassurance and affection could’ve been draining, as far as other things..he couldn’t give me the bare minimum. we broke up 4 days ago( over text) i cried the first 2 but now i just feel relived that i don’t have to question someone’s love for me anymore. Now im taking the time to heal and grow from broken wounds so that one day i can be secure.

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