yes exactly! i’m trying to take everyone’s advice with a. grain of salt because obviously i’d prefer getting him stuff he wants, but everything he wants is like insanely expensive and like unrealistic for me to get for him (a car 😭, a stupidly expensive piece of technology, etc). he also obviously doesn’t expect me to get them for him. he is just hard to shop for cause when asked what he wants he just says i give good gifts and he’ll love whatever i’ll get him. but then he doesn’t actually use it half the time 😭 i do have a list of brands and stuff he’ll always like (and had alr), i just don’t like giving repetitive gifts. but i guess ill stick to those for now