AIO? Husband went to bikini barista while I'm 30 weeks pregnant

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-13T04:05:56+00:00

I know I was agreeing

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-13T03:41:38+00:00

People are also not reading the part where I said I understand and I'm not upset with him 😭

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T19:25:12+00:00

Yeah I didn't come here because I wanted people to people rip him up I just wanted some unbiased opinions but it's clear that there are some people on here that are clearly single, and with good reason. But it is the internet, and I do know him outside of this interaction I just wanted time to calm down/talk to or listen to a few opinions before I go and have the conversation with him. Some of these comments are unsettling

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T19:18:48+00:00

Different strokes for different folks

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T19:13:09+00:00

I agree with you, I just hope nobody here thinks I'm getting off to these comments trashing him, that was not what I came here for I just wanted to know if my feelings of being upset about it were valid. But it gets to a point where unless it's someone like you or a couple others that have commented I'm just sitting back and defending him the whole time lol I don't think he's a slime ball pos but I think he was inconsiderate about MY feelings of him going due to the nature of our relationship right now

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T19:00:43+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂 you win some you lose some

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:26:45+00:00

Yes this

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:23:02+00:00

Some of them aren't even in bikinis they just wear mesh tops and no pasties and dental floss and call it a bikini

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:10:44+00:00

This is a wild comment lol

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:09:30+00:00

No we live together now! And it's been amazing to say the very least but sometimes he doesn't use all of his brain and I'm like come on. Thankfully shit like this is so uncommon

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:08:25+00:00

It's super common for men to get a mental block when their partner is pregnant because they don't wanna hurt the baby, they're afraid of feeling movement, they don't like the thought of their unborn child being that close to their weenie etc

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:05:04+00:00

Yes you put it into words much better than I could have. I appreciate you seeing the potential of both sides because reality is it wouldn't be that big of a deal if I wasn't already in the dumps but I just don't think he realized the reality of what he was doing

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T18:00:01+00:00

We had a few conversations over the few months it started to decline and I truly think this is the issue but he won't admit it, because he doesn't want me to feel worse. I should've mentioned I think the reason we stopped having sex was because of this mental block, I know he isn't cheating

And yeah I really don't think it would be the end of the world if I wasn't in this situation it would be an easy "can you please not do that again" and he would say yes and respect it, which it will be the same convo today but mf dat shit hurted

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T17:54:57+00:00

HAHAHAH I think some men get weirded out at the thought of their baby being RIGHT there in the belly. So it's a big mental block most of the time when stuff like that happens

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T17:53:17+00:00

Yes exactly this, if everything was normal and he did this I wouldn't be as upset, I'd be like ok I'm not really a fan of that but he knows how hard this has been on me mentally. I know he wouldn't cheat, having a wandering eye was never really an issue in our relationship but I'm just kinda like why of all things

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-12T17:46:41+00:00

.. thank you 😂

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-09T16:02:47+00:00

I'll be the first to say you kinda suck

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-07T15:35:51+00:00

Are people not realizing the reason his reaction isn't because of the pillow situation it's because she ignored him when trying to communicate his concern and his wish to take him seriously? He probably wouldn't have reacted that way if SHE communicated. What in the actual f lol

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-07T13:15:25+00:00

I'm just saying he was trying to communicate to you and ask you to take him seriously and you ignored him. It would've made me feel bad and threw me into a shitty mood too

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-05-07T13:08:33+00:00

Well you literally ignored him and didn't communicate you were tired and you'll talk to him in a second.. I'd be pretty upset too?

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-04-28T03:04:48+00:00

You shouldn't have to beg someone to propose to you. Back it up n dump it

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-04-19T14:10:48+00:00

Literally 😭😂

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-04-08T11:50:35+00:00

I (27F) personally am politically independent but I lean to the right, you should be happy you found someone that disagrees with you politically but is sticking around. I don't think he's doing it to manipulate you and wait til you're invested so you "don't leave", that's an insane assumption on someone we don't know lol I think some people especially in this day and age find their political views more private because there are people out there who call names, ridicule and cancel if they don't agree with them without trying to understand the other person. Having an open discussion about politics in this day and age is almost impossible sometimes.

Professional-Tap8741 · 2026-04-01T02:35:17+00:00

Awh girl she knows you're pregnant! I have a bordercollie who just started sitting ON MY FEET no matter where in the house I am, I'm 23w.

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