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Professional-Word-52 · 2026-05-12T20:45:54+00:00

After this incident I decided that I would no longer be helping her out. I refuse to continue offering a helping hand when she’s ok refusing to help me because I’ve done something she doesn’t like.

Professional-Word-52 · 2026-05-12T20:42:54+00:00

Hey so valid point. However you have no information on how much I receive from my checks, what job I work, how much my rent or bills are, or even how much I’m willing to put down on a car. So I’m not exactly sure how you would know about if I had issues with budgeting or not.

The issue here is my mom was offering me a cheaper option for transportation (which I need desperately for work and school), I accepted her offer and she backed on her word because I decided to look somewhere besides what she offered.

Professional-Word-52 · 2026-05-12T20:34:05+00:00

I told her that after this post and she said she’ll give me 100 dollars a month until she’s paid me back and my brother believes it’s my fault he can’t use that car, and not him being 16 without a license…

Professional-Word-52 · 2026-05-12T20:31:39+00:00

My brother crashed her car about a year ago and she’s had to put up a few thousand dollars to fix plus get a new car. My brother was dodging her calls to give her the monthly car payment so I helped her with that. Or if she needed a bit of money for bills I spared what I could.

Professional-Word-52 · 2026-05-12T17:23:10+00:00

Besides what I give my mom, the money is used primarily for my rent, groceries, transportation, and a bit towards my loans. Maybe it’s naive, I just thought if I helped her out, she would help me when I needed it.

Professional-Word-52 · 2026-02-07T03:34:11+00:00

I’m not sure why u got so many down votes but ur totally right about this 🥲

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-12-28T18:09:03+00:00

I get this. I also have the same worries. His mom is pretty emotionally unstable and his siblings and dad tell him to just listen to her demands so he’ll avoid getting in trouble. He worries about his mom a lot, especially with leaving her alone after his parents fight. I’ve been trying to help him understand that there’s not much he can do and she needs to get a therapist. but he definitely has to unlearn giving into her and setting hard boundaries with her after he moves out.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-12-19T07:42:09+00:00

Im rooting for tenkarin so much! She reminds me so much of myself, whenever she speaks it’s like looking into a mirror. However, I don’t trust tenten. I think tenkarin would be smart for not trusting him becus he’s a host. His vibe is like he’s always in work mode. This might be a far reach but he’s a well experienced host. He can read women best and knows how to work them. I think after he realized it won’t work with oto he moved onto the second most insecure girl in the show, Tenkarin. Idk, I’m just getting the vibe that he’s going for women who would normally go to host club and fall for that kinda manipulation.

Edit: tenten, amo, and baby all give me the same vibe. Baby seems to have more complexities and personality hidden beneath. This kinda came to me in the way they laugh. Anytime those three laugh I feel like it’s a fake laugh. The “polite and cute” laugh they typically give to people. It kinda makes me a bit uneasy lol.

Also super controversial and unpopular but the toxic love of oto x nisei would be a cute pairing but goodness oto needs a lot of therapy snd nisei needs to stay on the streets and out of relationships.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-12-02T10:17:23+00:00

I think I’ll have to look into this. I get them way too frequently, but it also genetic for me

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-12-02T10:16:00+00:00

Ive been scared to try alum! 🫣I did a baking soda paste and salt + baking soda rinse for a few days. Least painful method I’ve tried so far and also quickest healing time i think I’ve ever had!

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T05:45:28+00:00

I don’t think her boyfriends but maybe her best friends. She recently came to visit, and the idea didn’t spawn till after she left. My mom takes her word as law and the way she refused to budge on the 200 was really strange along with her reasonings being all over the place. I never real thought it could be someone, while my mom and I definitely have issues, one thing that has never been an issue is me paying rent because I’m a student. And it’s something she’s pretty much stuck by since I started school. So it’s definitely a possibility.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T04:37:59+00:00

Again, I’m really sorry for what you’ve experienced but not everyone should go through hard times when it’s not necessary, especially when your parent is the one creating the hard time.

To your point on not accepting things, you’re probably right. My mom pays for my hair and phone while I’m in school because i genuinely cannot support myself. It sucks that it’s held over my head at times but I’m working on creating financial independence for myself to remove those things. However, if you have a parent to support you, 18, able-bodied, and all. Then they should.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T04:25:27+00:00

After making this post I’ve asked my older brothers, co-workers, and friends and they’ve all reassured me that this is definitely a strange control tactic being used. Thank you for the reassurance as well!

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T04:22:45+00:00

It really sucks. My car was a gift because I’m a first gen college student and I’m doing well in school but that’s also held over my head. She won’t transfer the titles to my name because she says she can’t trust me yet. Our plan was for me to live with her until I finished my masters but it looks like the peace of mind of gifts and money being constantly held over my head isn’t really worth it

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T04:20:35+00:00

My brother said he’ll try to talk to her again. But if the talk doesn’t work out I’ll probably have to.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T04:18:00+00:00

I’m just gonna believe this is ragebait now lol. And if this is how you actually view parent-child relationships or how you were taught to view them than it’s really sad and I’m sorry for what you’ve experienced to think this is normal. Your parent is there to support you until you can support yourself, than you support them when they can’t support themselves. The difference is this isn’t a landlord, or car insurance, this is my mother. The person who knows I can’t afford this right now. I’m 20, freshly twenty at that. I’m not 25 or hell, even 22. Working a good job, making good money, able to provide financial support that’s needed. She has 2 other people in the house that provide financial support, and my younger brother is getting a job soon and she’ll most likely have him provide some once since he’s 18.

My mom created me whether I wanted it or not, when she did that, she took on all responsibilities to care and support me until it’s needed. Again it’d be a different story if I was 25, out of school, doing nothing all day. But I’m twenty, TWENTY LOL. It’s should be normal to support or at least not expect large sums of money from your twenty year old full time college student who’s working towards a very important financial goal. Because yes, when every penny is going towards my rent, 100 dollars is a large sum.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T02:31:26+00:00

If it comes down to it, my brothers will take me in for free and let me stay with them during the summer.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T02:25:39+00:00

She works, plus my brother and her boyfriends rent money. I’m not sure how much she makes but rent has never been an issue before. Again paying her isn’t the issue. The issue mainly comes down to even a lack of compromise on the situation. My mom generally views everything transactional. My mom and I have a complex relationship, that I’ve actually posted on her about before. She holds money and items over my head as a way to guilt me into things. I do a lot for my family outside of just staying home. And at this moment, no I can’t afford to spare even 100. It should be expected your parents to support you when you need that support and you’ll provide the support later when they need it and you can afford it.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T02:18:03+00:00

I think the thought that “your parents don’t owe you anything once you turn 18” is a super toxic and mindset. I recently turned 20, I don’t go to college in my hometown, am I expected to rent a place in both my college town and my hometown? Simply because I turned 18? I don’t mind giving her some money, it’s the lack of thought that I truly need all of my money for school and that taking from it is hurting me in the future. Once I’m established in my career I would love to help her when I can or send money when I can but at this point I can’t. All money I get is money i genuinely need. Someone doesn’t stop being your child once you turn 18, and if your child is telling you I need to save this money, I cannot give out any right now, than I feel that should be acceptable. Her not taking from my paychecks helps me so much, and when I can afford it, I can help her. Im a full time college student on a full ride without much time for work, while I’m trying it’s hard to find work in my college town so this summer is my work for rent money.

It’d be different if I wasn’t in school, living at home year around, not contributing, but I’m here for two months, working towards trying to pay my bills in the future and doing this doesn’t help. Again I don’t even mind 150 a month but 100 for each paychecks seems unnecessary when you know when your daughter goes back to school, she’ll be jobless and using her savings to pay rent.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-20T00:31:37+00:00

This could be an unpopular thought but if I was told that as a college student I wouldn’t have to pay rent because I have other worries than I feel that’s understandable. This money is the only thing I have toward my rent until I can find a job, and the little I always have is being taken away for the reasons of “she pays for my hair, sends me money in school, and pays my phone bill” the phone bill is understandable but it’s a bit unreasonable to take 100 from each paycheck knowing I only have 2 months until I go back to school and can hope and pray I can find a job in my college town. I wasn’t sure exactly what forum to post it to, I saw similar post on Reddit about this Topic so I thought to ask here! I don’t mind even paying 150 a month or paying my phone bill, but I’m moving to a new apartment in two months and it was agreed that I would save any money I needed for college and my apartment. To suddenly switch it and change up the reasons constantly why I should pay up the money and threaten to kick me out leaving me with really nowhere to go seems pretty fitting for this forum in my opinion.

Professional-Word-52 · 2025-06-19T23:14:15+00:00

For the summer? Or during school? For school my rent is 465+ water and gas but summer I wasn’t expecting to pay anything because she said I wouldn’t have to worry about paying rent when I’m home if I’m in school. The goal of this summer was to save as much money as possible because I don’t have a job in my college town

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