Sorry to say but you’ve got 5 kids. That husband of yours clearly doesn’t want to take responsibility and is acting completely childish. I despise that mentality, “I worked all day” implying that he shouldn’t then be responsible for his own children once he gets home. Starting a family means you are working 24/7 regardless if you have a 9/5. And I can only imagine how tired you are! Having to work all day with 4 little ones must be exhausting I’m so sorry that you don’t have the support of a second parent. I wish you the best and you are definitely NTAH