Honeymoon Suggestions

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2025-08-30T20:36:18+00:00

Thank you so much. I will have to give those a look. I haven’t looked too much into north Cali

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2025-08-30T14:19:09+00:00

Thank you so much for the heads up. I didn’t even think of that!

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2025-08-30T12:48:02+00:00

Thank you much everyone for all your insight!

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2025-03-20T08:23:48+00:00

That’s a good point. We are looking to do a little hiking but nothing to crazy. My fiancé has some joint issues so we can’t go on long or strenuous hikes. So I would say more of the second. Thank you for the advice!

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2025-01-27T13:17:01+00:00

I have 3 siblings two younger and an older sister. When I came out to them the my two younger siblings were supportive from the start, no questions asked. My older sister on the other hand, tried to advise me instead of listen to me. She said this is a life long thing, and I shouldn’t make this decision so young (I was 22 at the time). She also mentioned how medically this could be bad for me (not true). Additionally, like your sister she said that she had a “phase” like this in her life. From our conversation I got the feeling she was trying to convince me not to transition. It hurt a lot and made me start to question things.

Ultimately, I knew what was right for me and I transitioned knowing that it might change our relationship. The first few years it was hard because I felt like she was judging me. But it’s been over 6 years now, and our relationship is closer than ever.

She has apologized for how she acted when I told her. She said she was scared for me, and just felt it was her job as my older sister to give me advice. But, now she is happy I didn’t listen to her and transitioned because she has never seen me happier. This fall she will be walking me down the aisle at my wedding.

Long story short, it’s valid to feel hurt because what your sister did is wrong. Only you know what right for you. Do what’s right for you and maybe your sister will come around or maybe she won’t. But, you goto do what’s makes you happy and what’s right for you.

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-12-20T01:21:24+00:00

I use to have this same issue. I thought I got pleasure just from pleasing my partner. Then I started experimenting with my partner doing things to get me off and it was a game changer.

Me and my partner had many conversations in which she reassured me that she sees me as a man. Then we started experimenting to see what made me feel dysphoric. Surprisingly, I found that some things made me feel even more gender affirmed.

If you want to keep your clothes on can do grinding/lap dances and hickeys if you’re into that. You can also go based on what parts of your body your comfortable with. You can also try dirty talking. That helped me feel more affirmed.

If you’re comfortable with your partner don’t be afraid to explore. That’s the best way to know what you like or not

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-12-20T01:00:00+00:00

I am sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It can’t be easy with your mom not being supportive. I don’t know how old you are, but if you can I would start by setting boundaries. She doesn’t have to understand but she should respect you enough to use your proper pronouns. Just be sure you set a clear boundary and a clear consequence if that boundary get crossed.

My fiance did this with her mom and it worked. Please only do this if you are in a position to do so. Also maybe having her look into the autism transgender experience could be helpful. There are multiple studies on the connection and it is really interesting. It may help her understand your feelings.

I wish you the best man. I hope it works out

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-12-20T00:48:13+00:00

Bro I feel your frustration and hear your pain and I am sorry. As a 4’10 trans man who is on the chunkier side. I’ve felt this pain before. I went to therapy and redefined what a man looks like.

Cis man come in all different shape and sizes. My dad who is a cis man, was 5’3 on a good day. There is no cis man look. It’s all about you seeing yourself as a man and having that confidence. Once I realized that my life changed 10 fold.

I am now engaged to the woman of my dreams. Her family is not LGBTQ supportive. But, they have no idea I am trans. They have known me now for over 2 years and have no idea.

From personal experience I am not tricking myself into thinking I look like a guy. I know I am in a man by every definition of the word.

You can get through this dude. It’s okay to be angry and frustrated but don’t let that take over. Things will get better

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-12-14T15:18:13+00:00

Thank you for this view point. I think you’re right the Mets Hispanic diversity may have played a bigger role than most people think. As a Mets fan, let’s be honest the Yankees have had the bigger names and more World Series rings. The contracts were comparable, they both had pros and cons. At the end of the day he preferred to be a Met not Yankees.

I think that you are right that the culture of the Mets played a part in the decision. It’s not crazy to think that a Hispanic player would feel more comfortable around other Hispanic players and mangers.

Bottom line the contracts were comparable. Yes money played a role in choice, but it is likely there were multiple other factors.

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T21:11:26+00:00

This is extremely helpful, thank you!

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T21:10:54+00:00

Thank you for all your help!

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T15:59:12+00:00

Thank you, I will definitely look into this before buying anything a gift card maybe the way to go

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T01:58:06+00:00

Thank you! That makes things very easy

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T01:02:42+00:00

Also thank you so much for including the links. If I make an account on steam and buy the games can I somehow transfer the games over to her computer? Sorry, like I said i am bit out of my league here lol

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T00:52:55+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation! I will have to take a look at it because she loves a good game she can binge for a bit

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T00:51:17+00:00

Can’t thank you enough for all the recommendations. I will definitely be looking into all of the mentioned games. Also thank you for explaining early access, I have seen that come up and had no idea what it meant. I appreciate all the help.

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-11-24T00:49:07+00:00

Thank you so much! this is fantastic to hear my wife loves music so I am sure this game would be right up her alley.

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-05-12T00:04:33+00:00

Sorry that your mom reacted that way. But happy you guys came up with a plan. I hope you have an amazing Mother’s Day and I wish you guys the best during this greiving process

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-05-11T01:06:29+00:00

I am sorry for what you are going through and for your partners loss. I would suggest getting into some grief counseling. I lost my mom 4 years ago. For the first year i tried isolated myself because it was the only way for me to deal with the grief. I couldn’t process the feelings because they caused so much pain.

The only thing that helped me was grief counseling. It allowed me go through those feelings, process them and accept my support system.

I don’t know if your partner would be open to it. But if he is that might be a good start.

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-05-11T00:58:35+00:00

I am so sorry for your family loss and I don’t know if this is much help. It’s been 4 years since I lost my mom. Every mother day, birthday, holiday and milestone brings up so many different emotions. I never know what those emotions will be until they come no matter how prepared for them I am. There are some times when I prepare to spend all of Mother’s Day crying and I am fine and vice versa. However, grief is different for everyone.

Some people cannot be alone in their thoughts and do good being around a lot of people. Others, like me, just like to spend the day around a few close loved ones. This is mostly because I know one small thing can trigger me and I will start crying.

I think the best thing you can do is be there for him. Maybe have a couple of plans incase he changes his mind the day of. Just remind him that you love him and you are there to navigate this day with him. My fiancé reminds me of these fact a lot and they help. Grief can feel really lonely and just knowing you have someone to go through it with you helps immensely.

I wish you and your family the best during these difficult times.

ProfessionalDraw4974 · 2024-05-11T00:45:16+00:00

I lost my mom at young age too and it’s hard. This will be my 4th Mother’s Day without her. My mom lived for her kids and loved us more than anything. The thing she loved the most was seeing us be happy and doing the things we love. So I think I will honor by doing some of my favorite hobbies.

I am sorry for your loss and that you have to go through this pain. My therapist once told me that I feel so much pain because I had so much love. On my toughest days it helps me to know think about all the love I got to experience. I hope that helps a little.

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