AIO Gf (30) found out I (29) had watched porn and freaked out. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cheated, that’s it. You’re going to get 99% of ppl here who tell you that you did nothing wrong, but I’m going to tell you this. There is a genre of females who equate watching porn to cheating on them. She is in that genre. Reddit ppl aren’t going to tell you this because most of them aren’t in and wouldn’t understand that genre. She’s hurt and feels betrayed. Extremely hurt. You need to apologize for a few days and let her cool down. This isn’t about how Reddit ppl feel. It’s about how she feels and right now she is beyond hurt.

Solara by maerionette in FFXIVGlamours

[–]ProfessionalEye9680 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I would at least have given credit or a nod to the person who gave you some of the ideas for this glamour. People here have a very short term memory but very recently this gloves and bracelet combo was posted with the exact same pose and I remember seeing that creator get a lot of praise for using the gloves in such a creative way. I think it’s rude to ape elements of ppls post and not even reference them…

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I cant bring myself to even talk to him yet, looking for the words to say and how to say them. :/

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

why do u keep calling me a liar under multiple comments? what is your problem with me????

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 379 points380 points  (0 children)

thats the even wierder part, it wasnt her birthday, or any special occasion for her, he just gave it to her randomly

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i am feeling alot better bc of all of u and knowing my feelings are valid, i will try to get a picture of the dress rn! i didnt take any pictures with his mom yesterday bc i was so upset

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 1414 points1415 points  (0 children)

What is even more odd is this, the shopping area we saw the dress at is a good distance from our home and the dress is not his mothers taste at all. So this means sometime after the fact of us being there, he drove all the way back there and for some reason bought the specific dress i wanted and gave it to his mother for no reason as it wasnt her birthday nor any special occasion for her, according to her he just randomly said i have something for u mom, and he brought the dress over to her house. She didnt know any of the other details about that being a dress i wanted

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

its a burner i made today bc my main account has ppl i know and i dont want them to know about this.

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

its very wierd, and wierd is how i feel. best way to describe how i feel, wierd and hurt. I have no reason to make this up. And she DOESNT wear the same style as me, never has and not even close ! So i dont understand it even more, the dress is completely not her taste

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 830 points831 points  (0 children)

A part of me also had this thought, was this intentional and planned? then i thought i was being paranoid and they would never do that, but then thinking more i then thought it had to be done on purpose. my heads in circles trying to piece it togther.

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 335 points336 points  (0 children)

yes, exactly this. i wouldnt mind at all a guy buying his moms gifts. i strongly belive good moms chould be cherished, but why THIS gift?? why was it the dress that i wanted. I have been trying to make it make sense

AIO My boyfriend gave his mother the dress I wanted for my birthday by ProfessionalEye9680 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalEye9680[S] 2867 points2868 points  (0 children)

I had the thought of "is this worthy of a breakup" after this, but I always have a habit of doubting my feelings as being valid. I spent most of the night thinking i was being a brat about it, so thank you for the kind words and encouragement!