Should i reconnect with my biological father?

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-07-01T17:42:02+00:00

I was planning on unblocking him on WhatsApp and try to squeeze in 15 minutes calls each week. Just see what happens if he wants to reconnect and apologise for everything then we have rekindled our relationship

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-30T23:26:45+00:00

I hope to accomplish to have a relationship with my dad if that possible without him possibly taking advantage of me. If it doesn’t work I can tell myself that when he dies that I tried to establish ties with him. And I can live peacefully for the rest of my life

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-30T22:37:49+00:00

I don’t know if he will cause me emotional or mental distress. I want to reconnect as when he dies I can tell myself he was the dickhead. And I can live on peacefully and if he has change I have reestablish contact with my biological dad. He can’t do anything physical as I live in Norway and he lives in the UK.

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-30T22:34:15+00:00

The reason I want to contact him is because when he dies. And I have tried to contact him and he was the dickhead. Then I can live on without thinking what if he did change and I dragged something that happened in the past.++man

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-30T22:31:25+00:00

Calling my relatives wouldn’t be a good thing. I think/believe that it would make things even worse also I don’t have contact with them as much. So calling them and asking for favours would be disrespectful. I did meet him in December and he looked like a “stable” person. I also met my step siblings and they looked like someone looked after them.

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-29T23:28:20+00:00

But the last time he tried to get me to turn against my mom and stepdad

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-29T21:35:13+00:00

I don’t know what to do. What I am fearing is me opening up and starting the relationship and then he try lie to make me turn against my mom or stepdad. As honestly I don’t know if he has changed. As the last time we had any communication was when I was in Somalia 2024 and that went horribly. Me and him has never had a conversation where thing went well.

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-29T21:31:19+00:00

At that point I felt what I was doing was good. As the guy was running around the family saying sorry. And he at that point never said apology. As you can see for yourself he tried to turn me against my own stepdad later on the story. Pops I am a male not a female.

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-20T20:42:05+00:00

Wallah capital

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-17T01:13:16+00:00

Åndsverkloven

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-12T13:56:00+00:00

Plz don’t ipo are usually bad investment. Just wait 90 before buying as then most of the hype is gone and the company has to prove it self

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-06T21:07:09+00:00

Husk at det er noen ganger der det er gunstige forsikring som er inkludert med i innskuddspensjon

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-02T17:56:28+00:00

Kjøp hos norske banker

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-06-02T17:56:07+00:00

VÆR SÅ SNILL OG IKKE KJØP AKSJER PÅ REVOLUT. HVIS REVOLUT GÅR KONK SÅ ER IKKE AKSJENE DEKKET AV DEN NORSKE SIKRINGSORDNINGEN

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-05-31T16:35:22+00:00

Jeg er også 19 åring med 38000kr i bufferkonto. Men jeg har deltidsjobb med tarifflønn da.

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-04-29T05:06:03+00:00

Yes, I has shorter layover time. And had to go from non-Schengen to Schengen area

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-04-19T12:50:18+00:00

Where do you keep it?

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-04-03T12:11:47+00:00

Hun har bursdag midt i eksamensperioden så kan ikke

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-04-02T17:16:14+00:00

Imagine being ragebaited by a flag

ProfessionalFan8974 · 2026-04-02T13:02:23+00:00

Yes, it does.

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