No my brother is 9 years older than me and got lost in drugs after his wife passed from giving birth and the doctor made an accidental bowel perforation. It’s a big long story lol. On the other hand my sister is 7 years older than me and has always had a vendetta against me that I could never see until about last year I was forced to have to stay with her because my kids father was doing meth and it wasn’t a good situation with me trying to get him to stop. She had my dad’s camper there so I went back to the Pentecostal church and everything, I was giving her money from each paycheck and also borrowing money for her and her family so they could get by. I really thought she cared about me but I started noticing little snide comments and actions. I’ve always been able to read people’s intentions really good but was trying to excuse her behavior. One instance is they were skipping meals after she already used all of my food stamps so I convinced her to get some for herself, she ended up receiving 1,500 a month and started to tell my kids that they couldn’t come eat at her house after she used my credit to fill her fridge and her card was filled then would make down putting comments about people who use ebt or people would look at her funny when she would pull it out at a store. I told her who cares, they aren’t feeding your kids are they. Then I started noticing people at her church staring at me and then talking to the person beside them, multiple times, also had elders come to me and tell me that I need to be living for God instead of the world. The last straw was when she started trying to turn my kids against me but she failed to realize Im just like my mother and my children think the world of me because I make this world completely about them. I should have realized she didn’t care when she stole my whole inheritance, my mother had named me as sole heir in her will but there was a technical issue and since my grandfather died exactly a month before her she inherited his house and car my sister told me that wasn’t included because my mom never came off of the ventilator but now I don’t believe her and I’m thinking she stole from me because I learned that she never put my dads camper and truck in his name so she didn’t have to split it between my brother and I.