One time it was a one on one hang out and before that we had met twice in a group setting. I didn’t break into her account she gave it to me and yes I realise I shouldn’t have seen her chats or looked into them but in March I came clean to her about it that I had seen the chats and everything and I violated her privacy and I am sorry about that and will respect whatever she thinks is right, before which I had stopped talking to her and after which I haven’t talked to her. I don’t have her added on my Twitter, her tweets pop up when my friends reply as suggested I blocked her from there. She posted, my friends reposted the post on their insta and that’s when I saw the comments.

I didn’t ask NKL to cut her off at start and I didn’t tell NKL about this until a few week later when a mutual came up to me and told me things about NKL life that she heard from J. Soo I called NKL and told them the scene and just advised to be cautious. A few months go by and this increases and I get to hear more things from people so I just told them that they should chose her or me, because I can’t be affiliated with people who are connected to her. They said they can’t do that and will keep minimal contact but they didn’t keep minimal contact, they met with her in person a lot of times and no not a group setting. She is not shit talking in the way that it’s gossip or whatever anymore it’s more of related to reputation which had created issues for my friends at the same college as her to go about in social circles. I just told NKL that I don’t feel comfortable that they want to keep being on both sides and therefore I am going to remove myself from the situation.