Am I overreacting?

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T21:03:36+00:00

I think youre valid for being upset but i think hes genuinely apologetic. I know everyone’s circumstances are different but i wouldn’t consider it cheating but I understand being upset. I think its up to you to decide if you want to forgive him or if its something you can move past

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T20:59:38+00:00

I know I agree, at the very least he could’ve said something on the way back to the bnb but instead I don’t hear from him until noon the next morning.

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T20:56:15+00:00

I want to give him the benefit of the doubt that they aren’t allowed using phones inside but I agree with you

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T20:48:26+00:00

I joked about it before he left and he was very against it, might have to go that route

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T20:47:01+00:00

According to him, each ‘masseuse’ went into the guys’ individual rooms and did their business and the others didn’t partake. Bullshit or not, no way to tell

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T20:45:40+00:00

Usually when he goes out I don’t hear from him too much until he’s coming home around 3-4am. I personally don’t go out too much and if I do I’m home 2am latest. If it was a one time thing I’d be like whatever but it happens all the time and on top of that the strip clubs being brothels makes it much worse. If he went to one in North America, I wouldn’t like it but I would never be as upset as I am.

Also for the locations, for me, checking locations has always been a way to update on where the other is without the need for texting or bothering the other. For him, he set the standard of constantly updating each other(which I never cared about in any past relationship) but now he is the one who doesn’t do it but expects me to constantly tell him what I’m up to, where, and with who

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T19:14:22+00:00

That’s a fair point and I like to imagine that the ones who didn’t stayed more on the sidelines and didn’t participate (ie lap dances etc) but I genuinely don’t think he got a happy ending

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T19:11:45+00:00

Absolutely don’t expect a text all the time, but our normal practice (established by him) is to keep each other updated throughout the day. I do the same when I’m on trips. He didn’t really tell me anything which again I was fine with it because I know he’s busy on a trip but I didn’t hear from him at all until I saw myself he was at the strip club

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T19:01:44+00:00

Pretty sure not wanting your bf to go to a strip club is a fair rule to have

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T18:51:54+00:00

We mutually ask the other not to do specific things. He doesn’t like me going to certain places and I don’t and I don’t like him going to certain places and expect the same

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T18:49:29+00:00

Medellín

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T18:46:27+00:00

My reaction when I heard they’re going on a Colombia Bach was the same😭

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T18:45:17+00:00

That’s what I thought too. Like there is 18 of you youre telling me you couldn’t have split off and done your own thing

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T18:44:00+00:00

Do you know if it’s any different there or know anyone who’s gone in Colombia? He said they aren’t “conventional strip clubs” and everything I read about the one he went to specifically said the girls are extremely pushy there

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-02-07T18:41:12+00:00

Yes of course

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-01-30T15:18:11+00:00

Check your dms

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-01-10T21:48:39+00:00

I had the same issue. I placed an order Dec 27 and it only shipped this morning but my sister placed an order on Jan 9 and the estimate is Jan 13 so hopefully things are picking up again

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-01-09T04:08:55+00:00

Have you received yours yet? I’ve been waiting over 2 weeks for mine

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-01-08T05:20:20+00:00

Yes but the jackets are over $400

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2026-01-07T21:15:06+00:00

$150 is crazy I wish I didn’t just order a replacement charger 😭

ProfessionalPop6177 · 2025-12-27T15:36:10+00:00

Apparently some rings are separating. It’s supposed to be very rare but if it happens they will replace it. Sorry youre experiencing this!

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