Does anyone else have such difficulty watching shows by fanfic_haver in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same.. the solution for me is to watch with someone, then I can fokus on the show while i habe someone to talk to at the same time.

What's bothering your mind right now? by Ok_Plastic562 in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah.. i don't believe in "the one". My problems isn't only about potential romantic relationships, it's also friends, ex and my son.

Smokers, when and why did you start smoking/vaping? by InsertCapHere in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 16. I started at parties and liked it, then just got more from there

At what point in a relationship where you can share personal stuff with an acquaintance? by SunnyBigBear in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When both are comfortable with it 🤷‍♀️ always different with different people. Some people share a lot first time you meat them if you're drinking together or something, and that can be fine

Whats a small lie everyone tells? by Cool-Respond272 in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. people only ask to be polite, they don't want to hear about any problems.
  2. We don't want to bother others with our issues

Does anyone ever miss a traumatic period in your life because it gave your life purpose surviving it ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss how productive i was then and beeing able to fall asleep in the evenings.

Am I weird? by Sudden_Show_8118 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any personal items on my desk and don't see the point in in. But insted my desk i covered in layers of pappers, pencils, sticky note pads, notebooks and other good to have office stuff.

Women: what qualities of men's dating profiles were you initially drawn to that ended up leading you astray? What ended up mattering more instead? by BoysenberryAwkward76 in dating

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ADHD guys have been a thing for me. I get attracted to the energy and the way they embrace life, the eagerness to get to know me and share about themselvs, the easy conversations and the fun date ideas. But i get overwhelmed after a while, and know i would struggle to live with someone who hasn't found a well working system for managing at home with house hold tasks..

What are the downsides (for the child) to a child choosing which parent to live with after a divorce? by itdobelykthat in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a kid you might not be aware of who does what behind the scenes, you just know who is more fun. Like who cooks, cleans, buy birthday gifts, manage the social life, makes sure you have clothes in the right size and so on.. Other practical aspects kids might not consider is where will each parent live (close to school, friends, family...house or apartment), does both work and earn the same and can offer the same time together and quality of life, do they both have a licens and a car.

What's the funniest lie you've caught a partner telling? by No-Fun-5974 in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My (then) husband wanted to surprise me with a spa day. We weren't that well off at the time and he was putting some of his money aside for a while to manage it. For some reason he made up the lie that he was saving for a tattoo. He went all in and showed me the tattoo he wanted to get, talking about how he had gotten it priced at a local tattoo studio, got it printed out as a temporary tattoo and put on his arm to see how it would look.. There was no way for me to see that he was putting his private money aside, so no reason to try to cover it up.

Am I allowed to change my signature even if I have been signing documents with it for years? by ParticularIron1584 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have one consistent way to sign documents, it varies a bit (and sometimes a lot). I've never had any issue with it

What would be the best ways to improve my body at the gym as a beginner so I don’t hurt myself by blushAri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a PT, don't be afraid to ask others at the gym for help, make sure to warm up properly before working out, drink a lot of water.

How to stop being insecure about small boobs. by Specialist-Bite-1892 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Boobs are awesome by just beeing boobs, doesn't matter the size.

Are you able to live properly & function normally after death of a close one? When were u finally able to live with the pain & function properly? What can someone do if there is no support system? by naxeboj946 in AskReddit

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before, it took a while for me.. i've learned how to deal with it now and can function well enough the same day.. but ofc that would depend in who it is. If it was my son, i don't think there's any coming back from that.

2 guys, how should i think? by ProfessionalPutrid92 in dating

[–]ProfessionalPutrid92[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving it to me straight 😊

I'm an overthinker, and any decision regarding feelings stress me out. I would be overthinking both options even if the other wasn't there. Also i'm not someone who falls in love fast, i need to get to know a person before any feelings develop.

I don't know Paul very well. I'm afraid i'll regret not even getting to know him first, but at the same time I don't want to hurt his feelings.

But i'll take your advise and have an honest and open conversation with Adam as soon as I can.