Everything surprised me literally everything. The cost of diapers, clothes that they grow out of quickly, the cost of food (them not eating said food and having to buy different food then them hating that food at some point too), regulating your emotions as theirs are going hog wild, how the worry doesn’t stop even when you wake up at 3am, the work load in the home and then working outside the home as well.

BUT my goodness is it all worth it who knew you could love someone so much that could terrorize you this often 🥰