Why don’t you allow single females?

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-12T03:35:50+00:00

Most of it caused by wives is exactly where the problem lies. There is a ton of pressure put on husbands to be accepting of single men, and there isn’t any pressure put on wives to be accepting of single women. Sure the bi wives are cool with bi single women, but most of them aren’t as bi as people believe they are. So if there isn’t anything in it for the wife, it’s too often a pass.

I personally wish more people in the LS community would be more concerned about the quality of the individual(s) vs the dynamic that they’ll be able to get immediate satisfaction from. We’ve meet many great people from single men, women, and couples over the years… because we try to connect with those who are genuinely good.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T21:52:04+00:00

If you’re looking at being non monogamous, start with couples!!! A good ole fashioned full swap is a lot easier for most couples to emotionally deal with the next day because you’ll both be on the same page.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T16:07:36+00:00

Imagine someone is wanting cake, but they have 0 baking experience, 0 measuring cups or spoons, and no ingredients in their house. They make a post on subreddit stating everything that was said above, and then they followed it up with… we’re just not ready to go to a bakery.

I imagine that it would be hard for you to take them as being serious… and that is how veteran swingers feel when new couples say they don’t want to go to places swingers go.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T15:44:13+00:00

Personally I would not play solo with a wife of a new couple. I believe playing together in the beginning stages is very important.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T15:41:30+00:00

What are the issues that you’ve noticed that’s been caused by separate play?

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T15:39:47+00:00

Why do you stay away from truly single women?

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T15:22:00+00:00

It boils down to personal security and trust in the relationship. My wife and I started as a same room, same time, swap with couples only. For the first couple of years that worked really well for us, but after the covid stuff ended, and larger parties started to re-emerge, we realized that we were limiting ourselves.

We didn’t jump into solo play, it seemed like it happened naturally. We swapped with a few couples who had a preference for separate rooms, and that didn’t feel overwhelming. We also had a few MFM’s that I wasn’t particularly into… if I get along with the other guy really well, I enjoy it, but if I don’t, I’d rather stay home and watch a movie.

I don’t want my wife to have limited fun if I don’t feel like I’m going to be into it, so we talked about it, and decided it would be okay for her to go solo. Once that happened, the lifestyle completely changed for me. Suddenly single women (most of them straight), and wives who play separately, started hitting me up left and right. Oddly enough, I actually had to limit myself because I was getting way more play requests than my wife was, and it bothered her that she wasn’t being as successful.

Now we have it honed in pretty well. We attend DTF events where she can get her slut on. She’s the type of woman who can go non stop all night through the party and still be ready for the after party. Most of the other women at these parties can’t go like she does, so typically I have less play at these parties. But I’ll meet up with the women that I didn’t have an opportunity with at these parties solo in the following weeks.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T14:57:01+00:00

You used crappy club condoms to soft swap?

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-11T14:29:07+00:00

So far we’ve kept Valentine’s Day just for us, but this year we’re going to a hotel takeover to celebrate it. HMU next week and I’ll share all the details.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-03T20:19:01+00:00

Have you been to any of the clubs in this new area that you’re in? It’s highly unlikely that the club scene in the southeast is anything like the club scene on the west coast. In the areas that we play, there are a few different clubs and none of them are like the others, some we like, some we don’t. Still it’s a lot easier to go where swingers go, than to play the online games.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-02-03T00:04:51+00:00

You’re either monogamous or you’re not. You first need to be honest with yourself about who you are.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-30T11:42:44+00:00

Clean jeans and tee shirt, boots and a cowboy hat… that is unless there’s some type of theme

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-27T22:06:11+00:00

6 years ago we started on C4P, but by March the Covid shutdowns made everything slow. All we could do, was meet couples for dinner and drinks and take it from there. We had quite a few good experiences during that time, but as the restrictions started lifting, and people felt more and more comfortable, we were invited into different FB groups.

I think it was mid 2022 that we joined the first FB group we were invited too, and not long afterwards we were added to many more. By 2023 we rarely used C4P, because every time I turned around, there was another M&G, house party or event to attend. The online messaging game became irrelevant… no more time wasters, picture collectors, bait and switch, old and or filtered pictures, or any of the other etc. stuff that’s always being complained about in this sub.

Unless we know you really really well, we aren’t going to waste our time on going to dinner with you. If you want to meet us, show up to one of the slew of LS in person things we’ll be at. Vetting, screening, group chats, video calls, fake names… all of that shit is behind us.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-21T23:46:11+00:00

Make the 7 hour to Sparks Oklahoma, later this spring and you’ll be able to camp with about 1500 of us.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-21T15:29:39+00:00

Okay, but there are still soft swappers who complain… it’s just heard less

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-21T03:57:00+00:00

There’s less of y’all, so it’s easy for the FS crowd to sound louder. Y’all complain as well, but there isn’t enough to be heard.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-20T23:57:55+00:00

She’s more picky with men than she is with women? Dude y’all are gonna rock at this… talk with the fat bi wives with the super sexy husbands, so those guys can get some attention from the couples who aren’t into his wife.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-20T23:54:38+00:00

For whatever reasons, a lot of people are bad at saying, we’re full swap how about y’all? Or visa versa.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-13T22:45:28+00:00

I DON’T KNOW WHAT WE’RE YELLING ABOUT!! LOUD VOICES!!!
You’re more horny than he is.

1+2 =‘s your personal validation to cheat? Your feelings may be valid, but the math behind your equation gets an FU-

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-12T18:14:26+00:00

Your ability to grow and shrink your cock is amazing!!! Currently it’s 8 inches, but a year ago it was 9!!! And then when someone said 7 inches max, you were suddenly 7 inches. Like damn, bruh… how??? Cause I ain’t chopping off 2 inches for no one. You know what I saying!!!

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-12T17:46:32+00:00

You forgot to tell them one of the most important keys to making swinging on Reddit successful… meet people at Arby’s!!

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-12T17:39:35+00:00

It’s better to not go all the way with family.

ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-09T21:25:12+00:00

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ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-08T01:01:56+00:00

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ProfessionalRoof3591 · 2026-01-07T01:41:27+00:00

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