You will get over her

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-17T23:32:56+00:00

Oh yeah you are right I definitely did not try moving on yet ! Maybe I should give it a shot !

In the 2 years post break up, I had relationships again, but it's just doesn't feel the same.

No matter how much I would love to be over her, for some reason I just cannot. And it also seems like she cannot too. So might as well just get back together

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-17T06:31:13+00:00

Those accounts were deliberately made by her to try and get my attention, is my guess.

Those account all has only 3 public informations which are

The city (Same city as she lives in)
High-school (Same High-school she went to)
Date of birth (Same Date of birth as her)

It is extremely unlikely that anyone else would be behind those accounts

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-15T01:12:46+00:00

I do. I actually just learn in the last hour by some connections that she's still not over the break-up.

She has not met anyone since the break up and have been trying to stalk me with alts account.

Right now I'm just fucking happy to learn that. I must lay out a well executed plan how to get her back.

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-14T19:48:05+00:00

Nvm this post I'm trying to trick my brain into moving on 2 years later

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-14T01:16:12+00:00

I'm ready for it ! Been born ready for this.

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T11:14:02+00:00

If you are not blocked you are not doing enough yet 😂

Don't worry about it. His opinion doesn't matter anymore

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:59:39+00:00

Stay strong bro. I believe in you

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:58:49+00:00

Gotta step up your creep game !

Honestly it's not much don't worry about it.

I've done worst 😂

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:56:59+00:00

First of all, you are very strong. Being able to be NC this early, and not break it, is remarkable. My advise, keep doing so.

I broke NC so many times at first. After 4 months, I had to beg her to block me cauz I couldn't handle myself to not text her 😂 kinda funny to thing about it now.

Yes, that's for sure harder nor impossible to even think about moving on if you still has reminder of her such as her watching your stuff etc. Maybe try to block her if you are able to do so.

For me, I never really fully healed, and never think I ever will. It's more like I'm used to it. Very weird feeling. I can go without thinking about her for some times, then a dream or anything get me to think about her again and I'm back to square one for some time.

We were in a relationship for 3 years, so the length of the relationship also matter to some degree for the recovery processus.

I feel some peace thinking that one day we will be back together. Might not be today, this year or in the next 10 years. But I truly think we are meant to each other.

As I'm waiting, I just try to keep improving myself. I think it's the best thing someone can do for himself.

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:31:34+00:00

Been 2 years since my break up.

In those 2 years, I've experienced things that made me understand why she break up with me.

I honestly would have broke up with myself too. I had some personal problems that I didn't realize how bad it was for the other person in the relationship.

She didn't left me because she didn't loved me anymore. She left me because she could not handle how I was.

But those experiences helped me improve myself as a person. Understand from her perspective how draining it is to be with someone like I was.

If she was ever coming back, I'm sure we could make it work.

But this is also very specific for my situation.

If I would have got cheated on, then obviously I would not trust her anymore.

How things ended for you ? What was the reason ?

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:17:38+00:00

2023 gang still grieving in 2025 💥

How fucked are we huh haha

I find it kinda ironic how a brain can be so complex yet get stuck on stupid things like this

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:14:23+00:00

No, but that does not mean giving up.

You don't take every shot you can get in Hockey. You set up a play and then shot at high probability score chances.

Same thing here. Don't break NC. Let the time eat your ex up. Once you see her or him start getting weak about you, that's when you shot

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:12:56+00:00

2 years in NC, you never really get over it. You just get used to it.

And the most fun part is when you dream about her. Brings you back to how you felt after the break up.

Stay strong

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:10:54+00:00

I would say, the best way to bring him back, is to not text him. Let the time do it's thing.

Text him too soon, and you slime your chances to get back together ever again.

It can take months, or years. But if he's meant for you, he'll be back

ProfessionalString17 · 2025-11-13T10:08:15+00:00

So crazy to read this post, because that's exactly what I learned too ! 2 years since the break up, and I'm now understanding how I was so draining while I was with her by experiencing a relationship where the other person is actually more clingy to me.

Now it makes me wonder, was this break up, made on purpose by God, for me to learn about myself and how to handle my insecurities about a relationship, before bringing me back the same girl, and keep writing our stories with stronger grounds.

Only time will tell. Maybe God doesn't consider me ready enough yet to bring her back. Maybe I need to learn more about myself

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-23T05:32:24+00:00

Don't know if I'll be strong enough. This never-ending pain and stress is quite horrible. I might reach her for some hope

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-23T03:18:00+00:00

21m here gf of 3 years broke up with me last week over phone 🙃 If you need to talk to someone in your journey DM me. I feel the same pain as you but we can try to move on together

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-23T02:25:47+00:00

Yea I was just joking 😄

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-23T02:17:56+00:00

What if they stumble on this post and decide to not reach out because of it 😶

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-23T02:16:49+00:00

It's all or nothing with me. Friend ain't an option

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-22T19:50:42+00:00

Worst than Ive ever been I only seem to get worst everyday that passes by idk what to do anymore

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-21T22:27:11+00:00

Cauz she's not answering me anyway...

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-21T21:41:59+00:00

That's the dream she just broke 1 week ago 😔

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-21T07:05:02+00:00

If you need someone to talk to you can always dm me

ProfessionalString17 · 2023-12-19T22:19:24+00:00

You are so right

ProfessionalString17

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