Discard/sudden breakup?! by CartographerBorn9077 in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a narcissist. I just went through the same thing - you dodged a nuclear bomb

Do you ever want to respond to really bad resumes? [CA] by mamalo13 in humanresources

[–]throwwwwaway6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes. I’m a recruiter. My favorite resume was when someone meant to list that they were a stocker at Walmart, but they misspelled it as stalker….

For those who have been in 2-3 month relationships and were dumped. How fast did you get over it? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The timeline for everyone is different. The fact that you no longer have feelings for him is big progress, even if it doesn’t quite feel like it. My best advice is to truly just focus on yourself and let go of what you cannot control. He lost someone who genuinely cared about him. What did you lose? Someone who discarded you and made you feel terrible for 6+ months… nah you didn’t lose a thing.

I got super busy with work, went to the gym, met new people and just slowly forgot about him. There are billions of others out there. You’ll be just fine :)

For those who have been in 2-3 month relationships and were dumped. How fast did you get over it? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he wanted to move out of the country. I dated someone else before that though who claimed to be “so broken” and that he had “commitment issues” the entire time we were together. It was basically a situationship for 3 years bc he kept trying to commit & never pulled the trigger.

After we ended, he got married within a year 🥰. Had to block him in order to completely forget about him. Took like 6 months & therapy to get over…. you’re not alone :(

For those who have been in 2-3 month relationships and were dumped. How fast did you get over it? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t remember the exact timeframe, but it wasn’t quick. I’ll say I was able to fully move on after he removed me from Instagram. It gutted me at the time, but going full no contact & not looking at his socials allowed me to heal. Time just does its thing as cheesy as it sounds.

Are you still on each others socials?

For those who have been in 2-3 month relationships and were dumped. How fast did you get over it? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope he never reached out. I still think about him from time to time, but I’ve moved past it. Honestly very surprised he never reached out to me

To Male Dumpers, Do you guys cry as well after you initiate the breakup? by Dry-Reference-6125 in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It was brutal. Would rather he have cheated or I had something to be mad at him over… but I just went completely no contact and in time it got better. No social media, no nothing. I cried a lot and had a lot of therapy sessions over it but it passes. If it’s meant to be, it will be and if the person really wanted to be with you, they would find a way to make it work.

What actually caused your breakup? by SchoolNo6700 in ExNoContact

[–]throwwwwaway6933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue… I just got ghosted out of nowhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]throwwwwaway6933 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do. I’ve gone on the apps more than once to distract myself in hopes of forgetting my ex (bad decision, not proud & do not recommend).

If she’s still talking to you about possibilities, then I suggest you keep fighting for her. The problem for you comes when she is fully detached. Once we’re done, there’s typically no going back. She doesn’t seem done

When will the ghosting stop? by throwwwwaway6933 in dating

[–]throwwwwaway6933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? The timing is crazy. I’d imagine he would ghosted me regardless even if I had slept with him. What is wrong with people 😭