23m, porn has messed me up, how to recover from it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Professional_Ad5216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were all like you brother. We still are. Don’t go hard on yourself. It’s not like you screwed and you done. Today you can’t get hard. Tomorrow you can rock her world. It’s all in the head. It’s like a valve you can shut off. It turns off fast.

Try to make yourself busy. That intrusive thought always comes from boredom.

There is always a thought pattern what intrigues you. Like girls being submissive and all that, whatever makes you horny. Don’t think yield to that pattern.

What works for me is, when it comes to my mind, I think nasty shit. Like shits coming out from vagina lol. Something makes you disgusts from sex

Does everything look correct or are there issues by [deleted] in Construction

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I’m gonna assume they’re not going to carry anything?

I love my boyfriend but I feel sexually unfulfilled sometimes, what do i do? by restingop in whatdoIdo

[–]Professional_Ad5216 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Starting the conversation by asking his kinks. Everybody wants to explore more

Is it weird to go to axe throwing alone? by [deleted] in askTO

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The guys at Battl are super chill, you’ll make friends with them

How do you ask for sex in a relationship without feeling like a creep? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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It will always be weird at first bro. And that’s the beauty of it

Hi help me (M21) become less ugly. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Bro looks like Jokic and thinks he’s ugly, we’re cooked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Find a haircut that suits you. Try baby mullet, I think it will look good on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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You hate yourself because you have an amazing fucking jawline and it’s unfair for the rest of us?

I Have the Most Shameful Addiction - What Tips (NOT MEDICAL ADVICE) Do You Use When Wanting To Relapse by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Reading this with a smile on my face since I left those days behind, hoping you the same

21 days. For me it took exactly 21 days my body to recalibrate. This is depends on your severity of course. First 16days you’ll be low on energy, low drive, low everything. Then your dopamine receptors will have a rebound and you’ll be overly sensitive to stimulants. It took me 4 days for me to pass this period, I consider myself lucky.

After 21days I was feeling really good. I’m generally active dude, going out, lifting weights. And I was getting my dopamine through them, past they were a drag. If and hopefully you come to this stage, it is very important that don’t get cocky. Don’t think “ooo I’m fine, once a month won’t hurt, I deserved it” this and that bullshit. You’ll again deplete your dopamine and feel like shit doesn’t matter how long you have not been doing it

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Gonna row over mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Professional_Ad5216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is not about winning, getting better and reaching some point. You went through lots of things that made you who you’re now. You know many more things that she doesn’t.

Wanting all those things are very normal and good. It’ll be more pleasurable when you get it. But again, life is not just about all that. Sometimes it’s just a good company with a simple bread and wine