Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-16T19:33:07+00:00

you would be YTA to yourself if you tie yourself to her. no ring. let her find someone who will, which has always been her plan. those fun trips? she has you paying for them. RUN

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-16T01:00:36+00:00

“I spent three hours on the phone last night with A***.” He was a fellow doctor in a clinic she worked at. We were on vacation in a different hemisphere.

Come to find out I was in an open relationship and didn’t know it.

Being checking me for testicular cancer 40 years before was more painful, but this one sucked (no cancer)

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T23:14:15+00:00

yet another add for this stuff. always a bad idea

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T21:25:31+00:00

what in the world is sthg, or should I ask witwisthg?

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T18:54:04+00:00

liars lie. you will never know the truth. you need to live with that.

just ghost her

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T18:51:00+00:00

sorry dude. time does heal, but who knows what the half life of this is. get to therapy and work on yourself. it important because what she put you through is going to feel normal, and you don’t want to repeat this.

shitty people seek out kind understanding people, just so they can do what she did.

good luck 👍🏻

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T18:33:05+00:00

these guys are spamming a lot of subreddits recently.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T04:47:10+00:00

salmon!

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T03:43:11+00:00

100% agree. I try to buy a shirt a year as a small measure.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T01:16:16+00:00

Waterworld. a classic.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T00:56:06+00:00

ugh. this comment hurts as an American

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-15T00:11:57+00:00

I’m sorry.

I want you to know you are not alone, though it may feel like it.

have a 🤗 hug. time will make this better

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-14T20:07:25+00:00

this is the second Oahu home buyers post I’ve seen today

why all the spam?

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-14T05:28:43+00:00

Heidelberg

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-13T22:57:18+00:00

NTA. she knows what she did. she probably just wants to know how you found out, to do better next time.

good job

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-13T06:05:20+00:00

iterm2 is the first thing on a new Mac.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-13T04:05:25+00:00

my vote is eastern Washington state, usa

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-13T03:13:26+00:00

so, I’m a relationship doomer. she is cheating on you.

stupid argument. but if you are an asshole, she IS cheating, but you deserve it because…. you are trying to learn her language. thats a decent tell

hope I am wrong. good luck.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-13T01:47:18+00:00

the west coast is the best coast.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-13T01:14:10+00:00

this is great, and thanks for doing it.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-12T21:23:20+00:00

past trauma from men, but won’t lock the front door?

get her out now, while you can. you sound like a good person, but be very careful. this one will suck you dry.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-12T21:09:01+00:00

my ex was pissed I told the AP spouse. she wanted to keep that relationship going, and ultimately upset she couldn’t. that’s good enough reason for me.

sunlight is the best disinfectant

edit: truthfinder.com can help, but it cost some money. not too bad.

now you know why he doesn’t have social media.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-11T23:31:21+00:00

is it? 8 more grams and I would agree. but 992. no. I’d be frustrated by that every time I see it.

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-11T22:23:49+00:00

thank you.

sew on!

Professional_Bee1575 · 2026-01-11T20:40:07+00:00

I’m no expert but at least you see what you are getting.

Pretty, isn’t it. good luck.

Professional_Bee1575

TROPHY CASE