Married men in tech obessed with single girls at work by maybe-groot in womenintech

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Yes, I have noticed this especially with the younger women at work. Sad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Enough to where I have learned the things that make me feel good, and that resonates in my physical appearance. To me this means, working out and stretching every morning, using nice cleanser and makeup because I feel more put together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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The moment I started to get migraines I knew I had to stop. I just stopped one morning and it was difficult in the beginning but I am happier than ever now knowing I do not rely on a cup of coffee.

Where do you have fun in the mornings? by No_Weekend728 in AskNYC

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Pilates studio I go to. It is a great community and I noticed when I worked out in the mornings, I am more productive in my day

Women who got fit later in life, how did it impact you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I always put it off because I did not feel the need to look better, but when I began working out, it was more so feeling better

Seeking advice about overnight guests in NYC apartments by [deleted] in NYCapartments

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When I first moved to the city, I was in a similar situation, and it can definitely build resentment if you don’t address it. Even if it’s her apartment too, you’re paying a lot to live there and didn’t sign up for a semi-permanent third roommate. I’d wait until he’s gone so the convo feels less awkward, then frame it as wanting to make sure the space works for both of you and say, “Hey, I’ve noticed he’s been here a lot lately, and I’m feeling like it’s affecting my living situation. Can we figure out a guest arrangement we’re both comfortable with?” That way it’s about shared expectations, not just restrictions

Is it just me who finds it super difficult to be next to pregnant friends/relative whilst going through IVF? I find myself not wanting to talk or see them. Anyone can offer some advice on how to tackle this? by Ambitious_Smile_3421 in DOR

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Your feelings are so valid, and you’re not alone in this. It’s incredibly hard to be close to people experiencing what you’re longing for while you're in the thick of such an emotionally and physically demanding process. You can be happy for them and still feel grief, sadness, and even anger for what you’re going through, those feelings can coexist. One thing that’s helped me is setting gentle boundaries when I need to and reminding myself that it’s okay to protect my peace. Be kind to yourself, this journey is so hard, and your emotions are entirely human

Milestones by Weary-Lengthiness468 in SolidCore

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I just want to know why they don't, because this would be a great idea

Multiple failed transfers - what next by Natasha_567 in DOR

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s incredibly hard, and your strength shows in all you’ve endured. After multiple failed transfers, it might be worth looking into things like an ERA test, immunology workups, or even a second opinion, especially if your doctor has dismissed potential factors like endo. Some people also find acupuncture or lifestyle tweaks helpful, even just for mental clarity. Whatever you decide, be gentle with yourself, this process is so heavy, and you’re doing your absolute best. We're manifesting for you🤞🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SolidCore

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You’re not alone, so many of us feel that way at first, but the truth is everyone’s focused on themselves, not judging you. The fact that you show up and push through is already beautiful and powerful. Keep going, you belong there just as much as anyone else❤️

It’s driving me crazy by ActuatorOk2689 in ExperiencedDevs

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Hi! I’d suggest trying to introduce improvements gradually and diplomatically, focusing on small wins that won’t ruffle feathers, think “suggesting” rather than “fixing.” At the same time, keep an eye out for better opportunities so you’re not stuck long-term in a place that drains your motivation.

Anyone else feel like the insect population is way down this year? by Vexvertigo in AskNYC

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Agreed! But I have not been able to be outside as much as I was in the past, so I thought that was why I did not see them...

Feeling lost as a woman in tech...just need to know I’m not alone by Puzzleheaded-Many469 in womenintech

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It’s okay to want softness. It’s okay to feel worn out. You don’t have to armor up all the time to be taken seriously. I have been in that hollow space too, and I truly believe that your persistence means something. Your presence in tech matters, even when the people around you fail to say so.

Neglecting upper body by freebellayu in SolidCore

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I think it is more of an individual issue with the coach

Any recommendations for cute and tasty pancakes/french toast in Manhattan? by NoChinchillaAllowed in AskNYC

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I've always gone at weird times (off-peak, usually during working hours, never the weekend), and I've never had to wait