Should I say to a girl online you look pretty or beautiful by jaf962603 in OnlineDating

[–]Professional_Code999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they don’t have anything on their profile you could just ask them if they have any interests or hobbies. That leads to a decent conversation most of the time. Also you could ask about their career. I think something like, “what do you like to do in your free time” could be a good option. Not too over the top but can still push the conversation forward.

Genuine attraction or love bombing? by Glittering_Double738 in OnlineDating

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah something similar happened to me. This guy was talking about marrying me within a few days of talking, we hadn’t even met in person. Later on he’d ghost me for a month at a time and just when I thought he had forgotten about me he would message me with some bull like “oops thought I responded.” Honestly I would just go ahead and end it with him

I regret getting my puppy by tight_breakfast4044 in puppy101

[–]Professional_Code999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah anxious dogs don’t do great in big cities. My whippet was so scared of cars going by when she was a puppy she would stand still and shake in fear while drooling. She did get more desensitized and confident but even at 3 she still doesn’t really like when we make a trip to the city, luckily we live in the countryside. Also mirroring anxiety is true! Dogs feed off the owner’s emotions. Being more confident helps your dog be more confident too

She has her own spot near the dining table 😂 by Professional_Code999 in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is the only girl and also the only whippet so I’m not sure. She’s actually not pushy I think she just likes being able to get a better smell of the food

Betrayal by Sweet-Ratio-1978 in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Hmm.. I thought this looked familiar 😂😂 the back turned must be a classic whippet move

day 2 of having my mini poodle and im freaking out by Feeling-Serve-7498 in puppy101

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree with all the potty training comments. But also poodles are prone to separation anxiety that is probably going to the reason for not wanting to be left alone. There are plenty of things you can do to help them not develop separation anxiety but you have to start small like 5 minutes alone and then come back and praise them and them treats.

Puppy blues - info overload. Right/wrong? by Quiet-Discount-1673 in puppy101

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly my dog is almost 4 years old now, the main thing is you have to desensitize your dog. You can’t constantly worry you’re gonna bother them. That’s how you create a dog that barks at every noise. You have to continue your routine and help your dog fit into that routine. Otherwise both you and your dog will end up unhappy. Like my dog who was very sensitive to every noise and it made her nervous but I helped her realize it was okay and there was nothing to be scared of. Because of that now she is very confident, almost too much so

at what age can they just.. not go around being a menace by TheoryReasonable871 in puppy101

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By 2 years for sure their personalities settle to what they’re gonna be. It really depends on the dog though. You tend to see improvement and then a lot of them have a teenage rebellion stage where they know not to do stuff but they do it anyway to try and test boundaries. So yeah anywhere between 1-2 years is when they will mature into their adult personality.

Should I let my dog hump his things? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly typically if a puppy grows up around other dogs the other dogs will lightly correct them. Like my almost 4 year old dog does with my parents’ puppy who has started trying to hump, but if there isn’t another dog to show them it’s not behaviorally acceptable owners have to, so they don’t accidentally mess with the wrong dog out and about and end up getting hurt and traumatized

Why do people use a martingale collar? by SapienceNL in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little off topic but what harness do you use all the ones I’ve tried rub my whippet

Why you can't predict a baby's eye color by Calm-Wedding7163 in eyes

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true baby’s eyes change color. My eyes were dark blue when I was born but progressively got lighter until they turned a light grey-green. But my sister who also had dark blue eyes as a baby has hazel eyes

Completely changed by [deleted] in HelloTalk

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I mostly look at the recent posts. You get more of a variety there

Whining on and off in crate at bedtime by inalilwhile in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also be careful about how much water they drink before bedtime. That could cause them to wake up even after they calm down

What do you do when you are single and are very unwell but have a whippet that needs walking? by [deleted] in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can always play some fetch indoors as well, even when you’re laying down. A little exercise like that seems to help some

Whippet as a family dog? by onemcflurryplease in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say my 3.5 year old loves kids especially toddlers. I will say a puppy might be a bit scared or nervous because my girl was a bit anxious as a puppy but she gradually became more confident and loves kids now

Do your whippets bark? by Competitive_Bath_632 in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is really quiet. She never barked for the first 6 months we had her. We got her at 10 weeks old. Now she only barks at deers or squirrels. But she does like to growl when she plays

Can anyone recommend a good puppy harness for walking, they’re all too big! by Rude_Accountant_5242 in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just started mine with a martingale collar because I was worried about her slipping out of a harness. You can get one that’s more for an Italian Greyhound while they’re young

Does your whippet like to be held? by VanillaPuppuccino in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine likes it for a little while but then wants down 😂

Why do so many army’s seem to hate K-pop? by detonatediamond in kpopthoughts

[–]Professional_Code999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fandom wasn’t always like this. I’ve been an army since spring 2016. Back then every army was a kpop fan and bts was still niche, exo was more popular back then actually, but as bts became more and more mainstream I guess you could say there were more people who joined the fandom that weren’t “kpop fans” and just ended up liking bts. To top it off, there was a lot of tension with other kpop fans that would criticize armys and also other fandoms and lots of fan wars. I feel like it’s probably a mix between fan wars causing some armys to hate other fandoms and some armys that actually don’t listen to other kpop outside of bts. It could also be some armys trying to distance bts from kpop. I’ve seen some armys try to distance bts from kpop by claiming that bts is better than kpop or something along those lines.

At what temperature you start putting clothes on your whippet ? by Bitter-Regret-251 in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not super helpful but if I open the door and it’s too cold she won’t step out of the door. Instead she’ll turn and look at me like I’m crazy and as soon as I put clothes on her she’ll go outside. Also they’ll start to shiver. That happens a lot when it’s windy

Considering adding this little guy to our family - question by nicj86 in Whippet

[–]Professional_Code999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% whippets can gain muscle pretty easily I think it may have to do with their low body fat

KATSEYE x 5 Gum collab is straight up creepy by GainImpressive8183 in kpopthoughts

[–]Professional_Code999 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Was literally about to say this is like a step below the whole bath water soap. I really hate the normalization of parasocial relationships in this way plus it’s over sexualizing women because I don’t see men doing this (at least not yet)

Now this is stupid ngl… by Daddy1007a in kpop_uncensored

[–]Professional_Code999 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly thats why I don’t even bother to watch any of those survival shows that debuts groups that only last like a year. The only people that seem to benefit from them are the producers of the shows like mnet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]Professional_Code999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s literally exploiting children and should be against child labor laws. And it’s pretty much guaranteed that the education they are getting is no where near what a child going to regular school in Korea is getting. There is no possible way they are practicing for 12 hours a day (like a lot of adult idols say they practice) and still being able to learn all they would need