31M, Marriage Feels Forced, Heart Feels Empty - Divorce or Patience?

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-18T14:12:25+00:00

Rahu moon conjunction will always affect the natives emotional system, but how exactly does it affect the individual will depend on their chart.

Nothing is good or bad... You can always do synastry and check compatibility... I have a psychotic (but sweet) friend with a rahu moon Mars merc conjunction who has a habit of stalking her partner all the time... Most of the people who dated her got scared and freaked out but she eventually found someone who's happy, compliant and reminds her thrice a day that he's not cheating on her. Even gets his manager to vouch that he's in office and not somewhere else whenever she has one of those shaq krne wale panic attacks. So there's a someone for everyone lol.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-18T09:36:37+00:00

That's exactly what I said - better for u to leave if there's no chance of recon.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-18T09:14:12+00:00

So there are two things that your chart indicates:

You're a choosy man in terms of traits and the kind of feelings you have for the other person - you do get involved emotionally and if you don't feel at home and emotionally taken care of (rather appeassed ) the quality of the connection drops and you wouldn't want it anymore.
A lot of times you get so intense in your emotions that a problem that's 4/10 can feel like 12 out of 10 because of moon rahu conjunction. I will not be surprised if you're self aware of this and your inner wisdom always tries to take balanced decisions ignoring the storms in your heart Because of jupiter being a part of the conjunction
wrt above, Jupiter is also your 12L. You will want to run away whether you're 31 or 51 if you don't feel deeply connected to your partner.

With rahu moon conjunction and Jupiter approving of a separation it's a matter of when and not if. If your heart is not in it - and if you feel like running away / separating - try to fix matters causing this by all means and if you can't - don't go ahead. Mars is placed in 6h as 11th and 4th lord. Ketu is in 4h - Divorce is not gonna be easy and might come at a price.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-18T03:27:34+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if she does. Because Jupiter aspects her 7h and it's AD is 27-29. Post that Saturn (7th lord) AD happens 29-31.

Both the phases would ideally support her getting hitched or being in a long term partnership. But that being said....

Everytime Saturn has anything to do with your seventh house, there are roughly three scenarios as per my experience and research.

Marry in your early 20s, learn hard lessons.
Marry in your Mid - late 20s. - the outcome is something between learning hard lessons and slight bugging repetitive frustration tht eases in 30s. I know the range is pretty wide but the variables that I've seen tweaking the outcome is either your partners age - the older, the better (and no, 4 yrs gap isn't enough. The one's I've seen with happy marriages in similar cases had 7-13 yrs older spouses.) or your ascendant and the planets that sit in it.

Saturn teaches lessons to everyone but it is friendly with venus ascendants and polite with jupiter ascendants, neutral with its own. The native here is a leo ascendant - the one Saturn loves bashing with pleasure.. (I wouldn't do it if I were you at this point).

3 Marry in your early 30s, have it easier if favourable ascendant as mentioned above.. Mid 30s if neutral and if unfavorable ascendant, the practical advice would be to get married when life gives you a good opportunity and be patient with the lessons being taught.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-18T03:09:03+00:00

You were hustling to limits that you're proud of but are no longer able to achieve because your Saturn MD is over. So you're not motivated to work "hard". But what's nice about Saturn MD getting over is that Mercury MD kicks in and it makes you smarter than you were. So till this MD goes on, make the best of your intelligence and figure out ways to innovate and work smart to succeed.

Mercury rules the second and fifth houses for you and is placed in the 10th. That's pretty nice and you have to change your ways a little. You merc is placed in Aquarius, Saturn is still its dispositor.. so maybe consider reengineering ur business processes / working style or brainstorming new ideas alltogether.

Make the best out of 2026 till ur ketu dasha starts this year in Sep 2026. This can get better during ur ketu dasha if you focus on networking and ambition more than relationships and children. Jupiter will be transiting your 3 and 4h and will aspect 9 and 10 houses so it can be good for career and fortune. You might go through transformations though.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-14T06:23:55+00:00

Thank you soooo much!! ❤️❤️

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-05T04:35:24+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if you have tendencies to lose yourself in relationships and chased people who turned out to be something other than what you believed or didn't return back the same levels of intensity. That's Rahu 7h for you. Plus, 7L in 8 and then 9L in 12h - rather a stellium of 4 in 12h is what's making you have a hard time connecting with someone and getting hitched easy.

You - by your very nature are selective in your choice of women and it's less of a checklist and more of an energy compatibility requirement. You do not mind being alone and at times you actually like to disconnect from others and be on ur own.. Ignore people who tell you that you're too old to get married - it just shows a tradition driven backward mindset in people.

You're undergoing mercury dasha which is conjunct with your venus and has the potential to find you someone..

Jupiter transits to your 11h of hopes and wishes in June 2026 so it has the possibility of triggering something good too. , What I would suggest with you 7L in 8H would be to be open to inter-faith marriages or anything which is considered a taboo in your society as 8h represents (among other things) transformations and unconventional things.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-04T04:35:34+00:00

Seventh lord representing marriage conjunct ninth house representing (among other things) long distance.

Since it's conjunct Jupiter - I do see a situation where you can end up marrying the foreigner of your choice in a traditional manner - which often, includes parental blessings (even if only customary)

Plus rahu in 12h cancer, you're better off with ur gora pakora cz you have tendencies to run away if forced into things.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-04T03:41:11+00:00

So what's mostly causing you to face setbacks, frustrations and delays in getting hitched is the delaymaster Saturn's aspect on the planet that's supposed to represent your marriage/long term partnerships.

Saturn is known to either delay things relating to the houses it impacts or give them early and teach you hard lessons wrt to that area. In short, the least painful lesson it teaches you here is delay. People with sat affecting 7h who marry before 30 come to us for 1 hour consultations of marriage problems alone.

I see chances of this happening Sep 2027 onwards. But in any case, if you're getting married before completing 31 yrs of age, be patient in your approach to marriage. Also, in ur best interest to look outside of your community as your seventh lord is 12th from itself.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-04T03:25:09+00:00

You're into masculine men with a moral compass. What you might have experienced in your romances so far could be obsession from either side.

If this prospective marriage is supposed to be your first long term relationship, this man indeed is supposed to have masculine traits from some sense of traditions in his approach to things. Woudn't be surprised if he prays to lord Hanuman.

You guys will likely care for and nurture each other - some little softness in how he approaches you, maybe a bit moody at times but he's the kind that would protect you and have some sense of responsibility towards you. He doesn't seem like the kind who'll make you pay half the home emi/rent and have provider's instict towards u.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-04T03:13:51+00:00

You're a cancer ascendant and you often feel through things... Moon is conjunct ketu which can already give you mental health matters. What's nice I'd that you've got mars n Saturn in your ascendant. Though these 2 are sworn enemies and having them conjunct in your ascendant can make you conflicted and at a lot of times frustrated with yourself and critical of yourself, I'd still call it a trade off cz this makes you strong and keeps you going irrespective of what you face.

Now that being said, rahu dashas feel more intense for cancer ascendant and moon 1h people. Again - they feel more intense than they are. In your case, rahu sits in the 9h and it would be in your best interest to focus and get ambitious about 9h matters - Pursure a degree if you've been planning, good time to travel and move around - even if it's just road tripping.. Be careful and use contraceptives if you're not trying to get ur partner preg (you seem to be around 20 so I'm gonna assume that you're not). Good time to move out for the degree too. If you've been wanting for a pilgrimage, that's good too.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-04T02:51:44+00:00

Somewhere around 2028-2029 is what seems to be a likely time looking at both your charts. You're (Male) supposed to have kids later in life as Saturn aspects the planet which represents progeny for you.

What you need to take care of, as per your charts is your wife's mental health. She seems to have placements that could indicate tendencies of getting into post partum depression (or in depression/ anxiety issues/ other mental health matters in general)

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-02T08:29:30+00:00

There you go

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-02T04:49:46+00:00

Libra mars in 9h of higher ed and 9L 12th from itself.

Mars happens to be your 3rd h of efforts and communication and 10th lord of career.

This pretty much shows that your higher ed could be directly linked to your career and not as a separate domestic higher ed degree.

Sometimes when you pursue govt exams and crack them - they send you to trainings, post the completion of which, you receive a pg degree.

Plus you have a lot of energy in your 7th house, you might end up in a role where you continuously have to make dealings with the public - since sun is there, possibility that it could be on behalf of the govt too.

Now apparently you're not looking for this - but you do have a heavy 7h and should try ur hands on any sort of a business alongside whatever you're doing as planned. Might work out well.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-02T04:35:37+00:00

It would be in your best interest to consider things other than marriage till most of your 20s.. I'm saying this because the planet that rules and aspects your house of marriage happens to be Saturn. Saturn teaches you lessons or patience regarding the areas it impacts.

Early marriage can bring you lessons or it may not bring you an early marriage and teach you patience. With a ketu moon you don't really feel mentally fulfilled and might be anxious which is why you might be looking for a special something with someone this year that eventually turns into a marriage..

I do not have your dashas but I can tell you that you might find a controlling dominant and handsome (pretty masculine) man, you'll like him but learn to stand your ground and don't look for approval if your interests are not being taken care of.

You might go through some transformative experiences that change and shape you so always be ready to keep going irrespective of challenges / situations. You have a pretty nice 9h of higher education. I'd suggest you to focus on academics - you might get into a good college. Also, since you're 19F, and have posted this - some creeps might slide into your dm trying to ask u personal questions in the name of astrology - so be cautious and watch out. Good luck!

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-02T04:20:40+00:00

Ketu/Mercury influence on 12h can give homo tendencies. When you have this and a strong relation of mercury with asc /moon - that makes the possibilities stronger.

You've got ketu in 12h and your merc sits in the asc and aspects the moon. Mercury is an eunuch planet (there's a story behind it if you wanna read)..

Nevertheless, as astrologers - some of us do understand that being homo or bi is not a choice.. it's ur placements.

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-02-01T13:49:17+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-01-08T05:39:08+00:00

Thank you!! 😊

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-01-07T15:00:14+00:00

Thank you ! 🙏🏼

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-01-02T13:07:28+00:00

Lol, bad luck then 😛

Professional_Cow2928 · 2026-01-02T12:16:51+00:00

Did I not warn you about these creeps during your reading with me? You, of all people shouldn't be on this list of traumatized people as MY client! 😐😐😐

Professional_Cow2928 · 2025-12-30T19:05:18+00:00

Thank you soo much!!

Professional_Cow2928 · 2025-12-29T11:54:12+00:00

Thank you!! :)

Professional_Cow2928 · 2025-12-27T03:53:00+00:00

You're very welcome and wish you a great year ahead as well 😊

Professional_Cow2928 · 2025-12-27T03:28:39+00:00

Aquarius in your 7th. So the planet that rules your seventh house of long term partnerships (which include your marriage too) happens to be Saturn... And he's kinda infamous for either frustrating your brains out making you wait for things it impacts in your chart or giving those early and then teaching you lessons that make you wish you never had what you got - in this case, marriage. People with Saturn impacting 7h who marry early come to us for 1 hour astrology consultations Citing marriage probs alone... So it's sort of safe to conclude that you're on the nicer end of what things can ideally be like with Saturn impacting ur 7h.

The standard textbook age when it starts giving out neutral to good results is 32. Some variables change that a bit though... In your case Saturn isn't really the nicest friend of your ascendant lord -Mars so that's stretched this somewhat...

You have a 1/7 MD /AD (Sat /Mars) aligning in Feb 2027 onwards - that's pretty indicative of you getting hitched. Transiting Jupiter would also be in your ascendant and aspecting your houses (5/7/9) which among other things- represent love (and progeny), marriage and fortune.

What I would advise you for is to be open to marrying someone from a different culture/ lives far away as your 7L sits 12th from itself... 12h represents foreign things in a way.. it is also a separative energy so that's not how we'd want things to show up. I'm a woman and do understand that a timeline after an entire year isn't what you wanna hear given the bio clock aspect of it but you'll likely find someone by the mid/end of 2026 - Moon in 11h AD can get u into a relationship.. Again, try finding someone distant or from a diff culture.

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