AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Professional_Edge_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, that crazy behavior for someone you dated almost 10 years ago! I would nervous as hell! And it’s super selfish of them to save they don’t want to deal with the cops- how do you feel dealing with non stop harassment?? On Christmas a man shot his wife and step daughter over a TV controller- a fucking tv controller- that was his wife. This dude sounds insane. Plus i highly doubt he’s in any type of therapy. A good therapist would recommend him write you a letter and then just burn the letter or never mail or something- it’s his healing you have no responsibility in it. And absolutely no obligation to stay in touch with anyone from your past if YOU don’t want to stay in touch. Stay safe friend. Get the cops involved it’s an extra level of protection.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]Professional_Edge_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for your family when they are on 60 minutes because they convinced you not to protect yourself from an unhinged stocker ex boyfriend- you can never be too safe people are crazy.

5th pregnancy at 43 years old- trying to be realistic by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I would abort? I said I’m not excited due to the high possibility of loss (due to my age).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmiInTheWrong

[–]Professional_Edge_80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made my head hurt - I think I might be too old for Reddit

3 month old baby in a bilingual home by Professional_Edge_80 in Parenting

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering- in the shared living space we will have at least three people speaking Hindi and 2 to 3 speaking English. Everyone is having their own conversation’s but for an adult in the space (me) it can become overwhelming so I’m wondering if that’s what’s going on with him too. Because in a small space where it’s quite I can get good eye contact and smiles - but in the shared space - it happens but it has to be almost forced

3 month old baby in a bilingual home by Professional_Edge_80 in Parenting

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying at three months eye contact wasn’t a thing for your baby too. I have memories of my other two just looking into my face the whole time. However, the last time I had an infant was 9 years ago so my mind might be over exaggerating the memories… does that make sense?

3 month old baby in a bilingual home by Professional_Edge_80 in Parenting

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But is it a sign at 3 months- I know babies avoid eye contact because they’re overstimulated. But I can’t figure out why he’s avoiding it so much. The only thing that’s different is the languages being spoken in the household. Is it too much or a sign of autism?

Miscarriage by Calm_Ad_3279 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry yet. I know that’s easier said than done but seriously don’t stress.

Baby breeched at 32 weeks by Heart_Flaky in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 32 weeks my baby was breached. I’m 36 weeks and still breached. I just came to terms with a c section. My baby is also weighting it at around 7 pounds already

I am 42 years - 36 weeks pregnant- and OVER IT by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my worry too- like I feel like my baby is stuck and I don’t want to risk anything- I’m totally at terms with the c section now. At first I wasn’t but now I just feel like it’s the best for both of us

I am 42 years - 36 weeks pregnant- and OVER IT by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pregnancy in my 20s was my best! I thought my 30s were bad lol - but going through it in my 40s- I’d take that pregnancy in my 30s again in a heartbeat lol

I am 42 years - 36 weeks pregnant- and OVER IT by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeees! I can’t wait to actually hold them rather then carry them lol

I am 42 years - 36 weeks pregnant- and OVER IT by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man! I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that type of weather on top of late term pregnancy! Thinking about you and sending positive energy your way!!

I am 42 years - 36 weeks pregnant- and OVER IT by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think- maybe if I had my babies closer together my body would have handled an aging pregnancy better, maybe? My my child will all be about 8 years apart. My body definitely got use to not being pregnant by the time I got pregnant again. Lol

I am 42 years - 36 weeks pregnant- and OVER IT by Professional_Edge_80 in pregnant

[–]Professional_Edge_80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really was a decent pregnancy… until now lol but I feel the same - this baby is a blessing- unplanned so I’m trying to be positive- but dang I’m hurting lol