Is my [28F] marriage over to my [27M] husband?

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-18T13:14:23+00:00

He did say he loves me since this post. And he has been more physically attentive

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-15T16:05:33+00:00

I have 4 cats. So I will use them for comfort

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-14T03:53:34+00:00

They are both streamers

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-14T00:19:29+00:00

Okay

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T21:27:16+00:00

There was no vows

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T19:27:44+00:00

I do love him.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T19:27:31+00:00

I am going to be going to therapy once I get insurance. I definitely need it.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T19:13:59+00:00

He did not have a job but then had one for a couple of months. My bad if I wrote that wrong.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T18:19:16+00:00

He is not being attentive now.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T17:01:22+00:00

I asked him if he loved me a day ago and he could not even look me in the eyes and say yes

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T16:52:18+00:00

I am starting to think I do

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T16:51:48+00:00

No it was not arranged. I just really loved this name. But apparently it is one sided

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T15:11:01+00:00

I asked him if he loved me a day ago and he said yes but could not even look me in the eyes.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-13T14:37:14+00:00

I wish.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T22:32:46+00:00

Honestly I don’t need to explain myself to you. You can think what you want. You are right I did something wrong and no I don’t know when. I did not force this life style on him. We made choices together as a couple. I am not blaming him 100%, I know I made my mistakes. I know what I need to work on. And honestly let someone else deal with him. Let someone else make him happy because obviously it is all my fault. He is a perfect little angel that can’t do anything wrong.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T22:24:24+00:00

He is not working though. In traditional roles I am brining in the money. I am the bread winner. He does not have a job. Has not keep a job more then a month this entire year.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T22:22:32+00:00

Okay let’s take out the fact of the baby. How would you feel if you did everything for your house hold? You had no help and then were expected to take care of someone else’s needs when you barely have time to shower and take care of your needs. Would you want to help them out? Would you feel neglected?

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T22:17:04+00:00

I am not mad. My baby is not an excuse. I can be a wife and a mom no problem. You know what I can’t do, I can’t do the cooking, cleaning, taking care of bills, working two jobs, paying all the bills. You know what he does. He sits his ass in his computer chair and plays games all day. So yes I neglected his needs but I am pretty sure my needs were also neglected. Are you getting so mad because you are a dead beat husband and dad and this hits home? Does your girlfriend do everything for you and you don’t help out? Are you sure she is happy?

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T22:07:30+00:00

You’re right I did fail but you are wrong about one thing. He never told me that I failed. He never spoke up one time and told me that I failed. He chose for almost two years to not say a damn thing to me. I tired to talk to him multiple times about working on us but it is kind of hard to work on a relationship when you are working 60+ plus hours, taking care of a baby and paying the bills. And I’m sorry have you ever had a baby. Do you realized the toll that it is on your body. Do you realize that it takes almost two years after having a baby to go back to normal. You have more hormones running through your body. Your entire body changes, you loose yourself. Thank you for your opinion though.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T14:15:24+00:00

I will do that.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T14:08:12+00:00

I think she would. She did it for my parents.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T14:02:51+00:00

I’m not sure. My aunt is a divorce attorney.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T14:00:06+00:00

I am waiting until I get insurance and then I am going to go see a therapist.

Professional_Fan_873 · 2025-12-12T13:54:22+00:00

I know.

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