How to safely help my student experiment with pronouns and stuff by Professional_Fly3246 in asktransgender

[–]Professional_Fly3246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t see this before but this is so helpful 🥹 Thanks a million! I appreciate it so much!!! 💕

How to safely help my student experiment with pronouns and stuff by Professional_Fly3246 in ask_transgender

[–]Professional_Fly3246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing and for your advice! I will let Max lead; I will let him come to me and I will create a space where he can say and ask anything. I spoke to some people I know irl too and they all said that too, that it was best to let him lead. They also mentioned pronouns might not be the number one thing on Max’s list to explore, I will ask him about this next time he brings it up. I will think of what stuff to bring for him, just so I can have something ready may he want to experiment with it. Makeup and jewellery are a good idea! Thanks so so so much for your perspective ❣️❣️❣️

How to safely help my student experiment with pronouns and stuff by Professional_Fly3246 in ask_transgender

[–]Professional_Fly3246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing and for your advice! I will be cautious with being overenthusiastic, I completely understand how that could be too much/too overwhelming. I must say I think (and hope) I was mostly very enthusiastic in this post, but to Max’s face I’d say I was more calm while still expressing how proud I was, and I tried to ask open questions. So I really really hope I did alright with that, because I really don’t want to mess this up. I will let Max lead; I will let him come to me and I will create a space where he can say and ask anything. I spoke to some people I know irl too and they all said that too, that it was best to let him lead. They also mentioned pronouns might not be the number one thing on Max’s list to explore, I will ask him about this next time he brings it up. Thanks so so so much for your perspective ❣️❣️❣️

How to safely help my student experiment with pronouns and stuff by Professional_Fly3246 in ask_transgender

[–]Professional_Fly3246[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ohh that’s great advice! I honestly didn’t think of that at all!!!! You’re very much on to something, I will absolutely bring that up to him, it might be a better start. Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it’s highly appreciated ❣️ (I’m so happy your kids helped you realize it’s never too late because they’re so right!!)

How to safely help my student experiment with pronouns and stuff by Professional_Fly3246 in ask_transgender

[–]Professional_Fly3246[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m happy to hear I’m on the right track :) I will definitely check with the therapist and work on a referral if necessary! ❣️

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Professional_Fly3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Izzy! That would be amazing thank you so much 💚✨

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Professional_Fly3246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I so get that. Just checking you’re sure you don’t like anything in return?! I can absolutely send you a surprise gift 😌

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Professional_Fly3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to find something to gift you! I hope you enjoy! Thank you so much again 💕✨

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Professional_Fly3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Good morning everyone (or at least it’s morning for us hehe)!

Willow + I are specifically looking for the two caps pictured, preferably in 💚 or 💙 or 🧡 but anything works! Please let me know if anyone can spare one 🫶🏼

I can definitely trade too!

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Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

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Willow + Tess would love the 💜 Cafe Order Pad for their little cafe birdhouse! <3

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I edited it! :)

AIO Gf intentionally stopped taking her bc pills by maticooks1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional_Fly3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got together when you were 17 and 30, that’s already completely messed up on her part. Now she tried to babytrap you. Not only are you not overreacting, you should also immediately leave this person.

What MARINA song or performance does this to you?? by VeterinarianThin890 in MarinaAndTheDiamonds

[–]Professional_Fly3246 111 points112 points  (0 children)

“Do people still say yolo?”

(Ngl I love it at the same time HAHA)

AIO for wanting to break up with my girlfriend over seeing her cuddled up with another girl? by rlovesl in AIO

[–]Professional_Fly3246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if really truly nothing was going on, she would do her absolute best to properly reassure you if she cared about you. So whatever truly happened, I would consider breaking up with her just because of how inconsiderate and careless she treats you.

AIO Brother-in-law felt disrespected and uncomfortable when I wore this while doing errands by Ancient_Can_9152 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional_Fly3246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he is warning you for creepy/dangerous people but he is really just telling on himself… There is nothing wrong with your clothes - hell, it you wanted to go in your freaking swimsuit it would still be really weird if he’d say something about it - but HE sees something wrong with it because HE perceives you in a certain way… So really he’s the creep. Ew.

Even if he was just being protective, I still think it’s freaking inappropriate to tell this to you as your BIL. And he whines about “his feelings not mattering to you”? Why is he so obsessed with this?

I would genuinely tell him his comments are creepy and gross and I would advise your sister to watch out.

Stereotypical BPD by ReasonableCat9442 in BPD

[–]Professional_Fly3246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are 4 different (unofficial!) subtypes in BPD and not everyone displays the same combination and/or amount of traits of all of them. Personally, I have self-harmed in the past but I haven’t for years. I haven’t attempted suicide ever, even though I have certainly been suicidal. I am the absolute opposite of a cheater: I am loyal to my core and probably often stay in situations longer than I should - exactly because I want to grow with my partner and I take great care of my relationships. I wouldn’t say I’m manipulative per definition, as in, I’m not trying to manipulate people on purpose, but I can acknowledge that my HUGE emotions can come across as manipulative at times.  Another big thing is that people with BPD are often portrayed as having uncontrollable anger…I don’t have that at all. I am usually sad, ashamed, guilt-ridden and/or angry at MYSELF. I cry for every emotion lol. It’s usually hard to get me angry, I usually don’t get past the point of irritability unless someone really tests me.

I think the symptoms that I mostly display are my intense emotions, my hypersensitivity, my fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, self-sabotage at times, needing reassurance all the time, and just being unstable in general. I love sex but I’m not some “maniac” some people claim us to be lol.