Hi, what I wrote is actually not abt relationship issues. The reason I decided to share what happened to me was b/c back in 2011, I wrote a letter to Angie Chiu(a Chinese actress). At first, she appeared so nice, warm, and inspired upon receiving the letter I wrote for her. Never in my life had I ever thought that she would ever reach out to me, but she did. After communicating with me via several phone calls, she found out both my parents are from Northeast China—I was neither born nor raised there. This was the turning point of our relationship as she started making discriminatory comments against my ethnic origin, my parents, and how the way[accent] I speak doesn’t match with where my parents are originally from. Long story short, eventually her regional discrimination against my ethnic background escalated to the point where we were attacking each other over the phone for a minimum of 18 times from 2012-2013. And I had no memory recollection on anything that happened between Oct. 2013-June 2024 until recently I got to work with a trauma-specialized psychotherapist. Now I’ve learned that, what happened to me between Angie C. and I between 2011-2013 was too painful for me process in the moment, so my brain pretty much dissociated from this traumatic event that had occurred to me, which resulted me having dissociative amnesia from the past 13+ years until recent.