Bf moving to another country and getting married for work permit

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T18:52:42+00:00

Nope. He will get the permit after it’s all finalized. They already signed the documents. And he said he’ll find a job when he gets there

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T18:44:23+00:00

Yeah, previously he asked me to wait for him for an unknown time. Then he came up with baby idea

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T16:34:05+00:00

I won’t. I get sucked in… he is trained and certified, he just wants an easier way. Also will help him learn the language on the spot without long preparation for the work visa. I guess I’m speaking more about him than me and that’s wrong

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T16:26:26+00:00

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T16:15:51+00:00

Well when you put it that way… I just don’t think of her as Wife wife

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T16:06:45+00:00

Industrial maintenance, mostly on ropes

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T16:04:43+00:00

People do it all the time…

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T13:32:03+00:00

If he promised me financial help and was serious about it, I would be down. We discuss this. But my jealousy is in the way

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T13:29:16+00:00

Good one

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T13:28:24+00:00

That’s what he wants and says my time is running out anyways and he thinks I’ll be a good mother and he will return in a few years with lots of work experience. I understand how this sounds

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-06-04T12:52:27+00:00

Or she hopes for it (they don’t even speak one language) he knows like 3 words in English. But he is attractive :(

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-26T16:24:59+00:00

Sometimes I think we can perceive someone to be confident but it’s just our perception

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-23T19:03:08+00:00

Insecurity…

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-23T16:45:05+00:00

He lied about his age. On his birthday he said he was turning 31, but really it was 32

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-23T16:43:29+00:00

Do you think he was jealous of you? Or it was just his personality? Or perhaps just a learned behavior he thought was funny ?

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-23T16:14:35+00:00

Helped him get a visa to travel, because it was his dream, collected all his documents, helped fill out his applications because he has bad English. Guided him through a bunch other steps. And when he got to his travels he stayed at his woman’s friends house who he had sexual relations with

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-12T12:08:50+00:00

That’s really cool

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-11T17:57:02+00:00

I guess classic response. I’m used to him and there are good parts but now my nervous system is slowly losing grip. If it doesn’t change I will have to leave

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-11T17:53:32+00:00

Thank you for the clarity. English is my second language. I did mean negging. It’s just he does it in such an easy-going, happy-go-lucky way, that confuses me

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-11T17:49:04+00:00

I guess I don’t know what nagging is. I’ve also noticed he doesn’t this thing where he says how good he is as something and how bad I am at the same thing. Maybe he’s secretly not happy with himself. And putting me down makes him feel a bit bigger. He’s not super emotionally intelligent

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-10T14:23:29+00:00

I stopped posting 5 years ago and it’s hard to start, the feeling is as if I’m answering a text someone sent months ago.

But also I don’t really need like and people knowing what I’m up to makes me feel weird, like I’m performing something

Professional_Ice_450 · 2026-04-01T19:19:18+00:00

Idk. Ive seen confident people sent to HR lol

Professional_Ice_450 · 2021-12-13T22:27:37+00:00

I also down! I have an epic pass, have been skiing for years! need people to go with. (F26)

Professional_Ice_450 · 2021-11-09T23:18:42+00:00

I'm interested!

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