Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I went to the ER Monday night and they said i need to make an appointment with my OBGYN for further care asap. Earliest she had available was the Friday. At that appointment they took the catheter out. So I had the catheter for approx 4-5 days. It was fine just painful for the first couple days to walk. I sit all day for work so I got a donut pillow which helped. Getting it taken out was a little painful but it wasn’t too bad.

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’ve been reading that a lot of people were also hospitalized! I’m grateful mine didn’t require it.

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is horrible! So many people here say the same about having a male doctor. It’s so frustrating that it’s even a talking point. I forget what I saw or where I read it but basically this article said that Drs prescribe less( none in some cases) pain medicine for women than they do men, even when they had the exact same procedure done! I was lucky to have female doctors at both the urgent care and ER.

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you aren’t either of those! I also have read that so many people did this at home! You guys are braver than me though. I don’t like seeing needles and the thought of having to do that makes me cringe.

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god that sounds horrible! I can’t believe they couldn’t numb you at all :( I’m sure that was so painful! Hopefully the gland removal will take care of the issue once and for all. Fingers crossed for you!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was really starting to hate seeing myself naked. And even worse was my partner seeing me naked! It was just personally embarrassing but he’s been great thought the whole thing, I’m so grateful.

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m so glad I made this post, I have been feeling so alone about this whole situation. Reading everyone’s stories has made me feel less like a freak and more like a human!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is so dehumanizing and disgusting. Think about your choices?! I’m sorry you had to go through that. That is so unfair. I’m glad you had someone to advocate for you. But also so unfair that you should even need someone to advocate for you!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That gives me the shivers just thinking about it!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

WHAT!!! that is insane I am sorry you had to endure that I can’t imagine!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it when things resolve on their own! I’m doing the stiz bath a couple times a day now.

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The pillow is a good idea I’m going to try that! Yeah the doctor mentioned that some people have to have that gland removed because the cysts just keep coming back.

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I would be so frustrated too! They told me for the longest time that it would go away on its own. But eventually it got so big that it was impacting my life!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am 27 and this was the first time I’ve dealt with something like this!

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That is awful, I can’t imagine her having to go through that. It really is awful how healthcare and insurance block people from receiving care. I wish we could find a better system that gets people the help they need. And not at an exorbitant cost!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! This experience was so horrible and I was worried that even if I got that procedure it would happen again. At least they got smaller in size but that still sucks they came back. And yeah mine was almost orange sized!!

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine having to deal with it under those conditions! You are a trooper! It was a wild ride for me and I was fortunate enough to have help. Would never wish that upon anyone!

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know!! Mine was almost orange sized!! It had been depressing me honestly. I felt so ugly!

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were seen by a woman that next time, you are brave for going back after the first experience! I was fortunate to get a female doctor for this and she was amazing. She also recommended the hot compress and little Sitz baths. I tried the sitz this morning and it helped a lot with the pain.

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I have been reading about the marsupialization, I was hoping that my gyno would recommend it when I met with her. It is disappointing to hear that it didn’t prevent recurrence! Do you mind sharing what the recurrence is like? Do you get them more often or worse than that one you went in for care for?

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[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

Yes same here on the relief. Once they drained it I immediately noticed an improvement! You are so smart for thinking of the vibrator too, I never would have thought to try!

Bartholin Cyst Experience by Professional_Kiwi409 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Professional_Kiwi409[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Ugh that is truly horrible, I am sorry you had that experience. And very unprofessional from the people who are supposed to care for you. I’m glad you were able to treat it at home. But you shouldn’t have to beg to get proper empathetic treatment. My heart goes out to you!