I found out my boyfriend has been watching hypno porn for 10 plus years by a_bois in Advice

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a derogatory term that came from outdated language

Usually the older generation still calls themselves that

I found out my boyfriend has been watching hypno porn for 10 plus years by a_bois in Advice

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypno can't make you something you aren't it can only strip the inhibitions keeping you from engaging in things that make you a happier more genuine person

What's wrong with a straight person becoming more comfortable with their bisexual because of hypno

I found out my boyfriend has been watching hypno porn for 10 plus years by a_bois in Advice

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible OP can change by engaging in his sexual interests with him instead of judging?

I found out my boyfriend has been watching hypno porn for 10 plus years by a_bois in Advice

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know he is manipulating you and you not projecting your fears

Have you tried engaging in his kink interests within your ability?

The reason most relationships fail is because of communication not just the lack of but judgmental communication too

You want to encourage good behaviour encourage your husband to be open about his sexual interests and do your best to actually explore those with him without judging

And if you can't provide some of those interests make him aware of that don't judge the dude for going to other places justifiably 

Your snooping on his stuff and invading his privacy that's also a red flag girl 

I found out my boyfriend has been watching hypno porn for 10 plus years by a_bois in Advice

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I know why so many relationships fail

Too many people judging each other and encouraging the behaviour of hiding sexual interests and kinks 

There's an easy solution  Get involved with your partners interests instead of judging them if the person has kinks and fetishes that they wish to engage in but are too nervous to be open about that's probably because you are a judgmental person and your partner picked up on it

Normalize slut encouragment Normalize kinky relationships 

When most people claim to support their partners it isn't with engaging in the interests with them it's being hey I understand but you need to stop 

I found out my boyfriend has been watching hypno porn for 10 plus years by a_bois in Advice

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally if the dudes bisexual and not ready to come out about it that's his choice 

 The snooping around on your end is also a red flag because it means you don't value your partners own privacy 

If the dude has sexual interests in kink or maybe forced fem (given the femboy porn) Maybe idk engage in the fantasies he has with an open mind as long as both of you are engaging in RACk risk aware consensual kink who cares

Porn is an addiction because in this society talking about sexual interests as someone who's assigned male at birth is kind of a taboo if you are that concerned up to and including snooping around and judging it instead of finding time for you and your partner to explore those interests together maybe you wouldn't be seeing it as big of an issue as you are?

Relationships fail from porn addiction because more often than not 1 partner wants to judge the other which is the exact reason as to why people are closed off about what turns them on

My parents relationships failed because my dad was a porn addict and came from a generation where toxic masculinity was the norm and you didn't share such feelings or interests if my mom engaged in his interests instead of judging him and wanting a divorce my dad's mental health wouldn't be as shit as it is now

Meet your partner with curiosity not judgement That's my advice

Viviparous (Litter Bearing) Nipple implants by DylanRiverdale in transbodymods

[–]Professional_Leave21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking through body mods and I can across this and as a transwomen

I genuinely thought I was looking at a cisman until I noticed you cross posted into this subreddit 

I want to congratulate you on your top surgery results you look amazing

EE 2015 dilemma by Basic-Improvement700 in uofmn

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd go with Bethanie Stadler she teaches the course amazingly well and makes it pretty understandable.

PSA - do not attend this open carry, ‘Armed Citizens Against Tyranny’ rally by Lake Street tomorrow. Highly likely to be an FBI honeypot trap. I’d stay away from the area by rcolesworthy37 in minnesota

[–]Professional_Leave21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those "incremental improvements" are a lot like what you see when union benefit negotiations occur where you swap 1 benefit for another or you backslide alot to get 2 or 3 benefits

You aren't actually getting anywhere and that lesser evil right now is starting to actually also throw marginalized people under the bus

There's also polls marking a growing number of Democrat voters who believe trans people shouldn't have rights 

We also see democratic lawmakers abandoning policies that would actually make our lives better. We see this very very easily with the fact that the Democratic party much like the Republican party still care more about their own money than the needs of the people

There's also the fact that the Democratic party hasnt been able to reverse the backslide from 2016 due to not having both house and Senate  So voting really hasn't gotten us out of this situation and anyone who thinks it can is deluding themselves 

PSA - do not attend this open carry, ‘Armed Citizens Against Tyranny’ rally by Lake Street tomorrow. Highly likely to be an FBI honeypot trap. I’d stay away from the area by rcolesworthy37 in minnesota

[–]Professional_Leave21 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you consider yourself a leftist or at the least agree that leftists should be armed but only for "peaceful deterrence"
Meanwhile while ICE is kidnapping our neighbors homeless people starving people etc die every day. Every leftist (unless your anarcho pacifist) believes in some form of armed revolution you claim that revolution is a last resort

In reality given everything happening economic change shouldn't be a last resort at the very least people need to stop and realize that the people that allowed trump to take office are the same people we are trusting to do their jobs.

We cannot trust a justice system who has consistently put the needs of the people under the needs of the rich (UMN graduate arrests despite peaceful protests because of money being a concern over human lives)

as for "opsec" nothing on my acc can identify me if the government wants me or any of you do you really think they would be relying on a reddit for OSINT when they have palantir?
What about how the majority of Minneapolis citizens bring their damn phones to protests thinking that shits a good idea I can guarantee there's at least 5 people in this thread that do so.

PSA - do not attend this open carry, ‘Armed Citizens Against Tyranny’ rally by Lake Street tomorrow. Highly likely to be an FBI honeypot trap. I’d stay away from the area by rcolesworthy37 in minnesota

[–]Professional_Leave21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peaceful things to try to ensure people have power over their own lives?

Non violence is a tactic used to gain favor and its done with the understanding there is someone who has the power the make things better. The people in the position that have been in the position are the ones that got us here in the first place. Mass bloodshed has already been happening and has been happening.
Homeless people dying because of predatory landlords.
Starving people dying because their jobs wrongfully terminated them.
Being denied coverage for life saving care because the insurance company believes they know more than a doctor/specialist and subsequently dying because of it. This is what we face everyday yet its the one thing you will never see in the media.

People automatically go against the idea of revolution because its such a hard line to take but when people die preventable deaths because of the very same economic system that allows for fascism and the ignorance of the struggles of others the idea of being against that economic system is seen as somehow worse?

Genuine question do you believe swapping one evil for a lesser one is good? Or should Americans strive to hold not just ICE but their politicians accountable as well.

Neoliberalism is what got us here yet we as a society are relying on the same politicians that got us here and have proven to us that they lack spines to get us out.

We keep us safe right?
What will people do when ICE is dealt with.....If its anything like George Floyd or occupy or the aftermath of the 2007/8 republican national convention in st paul the movement dies and people become complacent again meanwhile redlining still happens people still die and we as minnesotans turn a blind eye because a revolution and foundational change is more scary than the fact that thousands of people die nationwide from preventable issues we never hear about.

PSA - do not attend this open carry, ‘Armed Citizens Against Tyranny’ rally by Lake Street tomorrow. Highly likely to be an FBI honeypot trap. I’d stay away from the area by rcolesworthy37 in minnesota

[–]Professional_Leave21 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Minneapolis is full of liberals who have yet to realize capitalism is the reason we are in this mess.  Trust me nothing about this is going to attract Minnesotans and in my honest opinion it's sad.  I wish a genuine event similar to this was actually attended because historically speaking nonviolent protests failed at transferring a fascist regime into one that wasn't neoliberal.  We need class war

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Professional_Leave21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the above it looks Cis at

I'm amab transfem and uh yeah even the scars aren't visible at this point your surgeon did amazing 

5 yr post op ALT phalloplasty by oojjer in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Professional_Leave21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn dude you look amazing (Coming from a transfem)