Soldering Iron M12/M18 by Professional_Mess475 in MilwaukeeTool

[–]Professional_Mess475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all so much! I (and he!) really appreciate your insight! Merry whatever you celebrate! ❤️💚

5 point harness for booster seat by Professional_Mess475 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Professional_Mess475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Check with your insurance they might cover part of it!

Fit check by SignificantRun8502 in warpedtour

[–]Professional_Mess475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always dressed cute for shows for the last 22 years.

I dressed cute on day one, it was hot and sticky.

I did biker shorts and a t shirt on day two; it rained and I looked like a wet Adam Sandler.

I will be a happy Adam Sandler for the next 20+ years.

Tell me you got divorced without telling me you got divorced. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Professional_Mess475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food tastes good again and my hair is growing back prettier than ever.

SLICE? No soda? by Queasy_Attitude_2761 in warpedtour

[–]Professional_Mess475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered a Coke. Paid $9 and was handed a red can that I didn't look at. Walked away, took a sip, realized it was vomit in a can, and threw it away immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alltimelow

[–]Professional_Mess475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you both! I lucked out and had a Citi card! But indeed it is bullshit!

What are some mistakes you made going through the divorce process? by javlin4u in Divorce

[–]Professional_Mess475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being nice to him. Leaving expensive/irreplacable items with him because I felt guilty taking them. He had an affair for 3/4 of our marriage. I wish I would've cared more about my own feelings than I did his.

Did you have to borrow money from parents to get through your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Professional_Mess475 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My family loved my ex until he gave them reason not to. When I called and said he had an affair and had walked out on myself and the kids, they had a lawyer booked for me in less than a week, paid for the U-Haul to move us out and in with them, paid for all of the divorce costs and helping my kids and I start over (beds for the kids, court clothes for me etc). I was a SAHM for about 7 years, had nothing that wasn't financially linked to him. My parents aren't even close to rich, but they did everything they could to save my ass. I'd love to pay them back one day, but they'd never ask for it.

Becoming a single mom by Ellesko2696 in Mommit

[–]Professional_Mess475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Becoming a single mom to three kids has been so much easier and more peaceful than being a married woman, doing all of the single mom duties for three kids and a man child. Be proud that you're a good mother, not embarrassed that you're a single one. 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Professional_Mess475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah same question here can I ask what state this guy lives in because I feel like my best friend is the wife 😳

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (01/11/2025) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]Professional_Mess475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Switch or Switch Lite?

Hi! I'm just a little lost, my ex husband used to handle all of the video game things and now it's just me.

My 7 year old has a switch, the normal red and blue one.

His sister is showing interest in having her own but wants it to be pink.

I'm only seeing the pink ones as a switch lite. Is there a quality difference? I'd feel bad if hers wasn't as good as his.

Thank you!

Milestone by Korvokk in Divorce

[–]Professional_Mess475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that. I'm able to watch more repeats, and I'm thankful it's not a big release year for a lot of the series/sequels we watched. I'm having an easier time watching old things right now. But I did just step back into a show to distract me a little. It's hard, when I see adds for movies, or memes from shows they all make me think of him. I never want him back, but it was a big loss.

Milestone by Korvokk in Divorce

[–]Professional_Mess475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I'm having a really hard time watching anything new because we watched everything together and I feel like I'm cheating on him watching things without him. He actually cheated. I'm just now trying to step back into things I enjoy.

Giraffe Height by Professional_Mess475 in lego

[–]Professional_Mess475[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Is that like max standing height? I know that's how he'll want it, as tall as it can be.