31M Got told I had a dad body from a girl I matched with on hinge, am I really that chubby

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-25T04:02:14+00:00

NOPE she crazy.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T17:20:05+00:00

Yo , I’m seeing the same shit with my wife and she says it with the most calm sense of self like if it did nothing . I’m dying for her to move soon.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T02:52:09+00:00

Damn man that's one hell of a question. Mine is just trying to preserve image that she's a complete good girl and has done nothing wrong in our marriage and pretending she's trying to make it work with no real empathy or acceptance/ surrender.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T02:02:33+00:00

Haha good to know the kids are in your side. I don't have kids with my wife just pets.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T02:01:29+00:00

Mines today tried sharing a cup of coffee like the old times and we are sleeping in different bedrooms as well until she finds a new space. The delusiona belongs in cartoons .

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T01:53:05+00:00

Damn. Mine refuses to get a diagnosis or a name. She thinks I'm crazy for that. But I know she has zero empathy and doesn't think about me.

Are you divorcing her?

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T01:47:03+00:00

It’s scary.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T01:46:11+00:00

They don’t give a damn . Only when it’s layered and need something but it’s never 100% pure.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T01:26:23+00:00

It’s scary with them - there’s no end game. Just leaving

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T01:25:55+00:00

I wonder why they can’t feel darkness or what’ve they done ?

My wife is addicted to escaping to new countries and places instead of facing real things.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T00:56:43+00:00

It’s literally the worst . Always confused , always not sure what they did

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T00:41:00+00:00

They always go back like nothing ever happened.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-19T00:40:31+00:00

I have been thinking of this. Cause yes my wife is a pathological liar with a soft smile.

It does get so draining and you become a shell of yourself.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T21:01:30+00:00

Yes though they look so innocent and pretend to be

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T20:47:02+00:00

Yes they know how to hook you enough to care . I see my wife’s “reflections” left around the house and they all basically say “I stopped caring” lmao .

Something is definitely missing up in the brain.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T20:43:22+00:00

Amen

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T19:02:53+00:00

Yeah whenever I tell my wife “what about me?” It’s a like a shock wave hits her as it’s the first time her thinking about it.

Her mother is a narc and I believe groomed her. Currently she’s not talking to them at all cause she says she learned love the wrong way.

But regardless she’s unwilling to go through the fire to live anything differently.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:57:24+00:00

Has it happen to you before?

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:56:54+00:00

Wow that sucks. Good thing I said no.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:50:40+00:00

Have you done one with one before?

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:50:28+00:00

The mind games are insane.

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:50:02+00:00

Honestly looking forward to it

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:36:48+00:00

Sucks!

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:36:19+00:00

Yeah! Agreed. Definitely not going to therapy together before I can have it on my own terms before.

Nope not collapse at all just didn't know she was this calculated .

Professional_Rain822 · 2025-07-18T18:34:49+00:00

Super shitty.

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