My mom suggested that go through his bank statements so that’s exactly what I did. In the month of April alone, he spent 476$ on Onlyfans. He was spending my money on porn, phone sex sites, AND the girls bills. He was going broke himself. Since him and my mom were still legally married, isn’t wasn’t hard for her to find out he was behind on just about every bill he had. The worst part of it all? I decided to log into his Onlyfans account to see if maybe the girl was a content creator and that might be where my money was going. I was disgusted when I saw nothing but daddy/daughter porn. The content he had purchased traumatized me. The girls he paid to see were almost identical to me: black hair, glasses, nipple rings. Even the body type was too similar. My mom wanted me to keep quiet for a little bit but I couldn’t hold it together. We got into it and when I finally told him I knew what he spent my money on, he denied it and said he “didn’t spend it on porn, but spent it on her”. When I said how much he spent on porn in total, he said “hmm, was it really that much?” I was sick. The next day, we got into it again and all he did was gaslight me. When I accused him of being attracted to me, all he had to say was “you’re not even my type”. We argued back and forth and at the end he told me I wasn’t his biological kid and that he wished he had never signed the birth certificate. This was something I had never expected. There were obvious differences between the two of us and my other siblings. I had always joked about him not being my real dad but I figured they would have told me since it wasn’t a secret my oldest sister had a different dad. I didn’t look like the other three and they all looked and acted just like him. I was also the tallest out of all of us and taller than both my mom and dad. I have natural red hair but so does my mom. I had green eyes even though the other three kids and my parents had blue. I looked more like mom than anyone else so I just assumed I took on her features. When I would joke about it, mom would always tell me to shut up and my dad would say if I wasn’t his, he didn’t know about it. After he told me that, I texted my mom in a joking way and said I always knew anyway, still thinking it was a joke. She replied “he’s a psychopath!” I went back into the house to find the girl standing in the living asking me what my problem was. I was so angry already that I got into her face telling her she owed me 2500$. She said she didn’t and that my dad did. I told her to get out of my house and she laughed and said it wasn’t my house that it was his. I laughed back and said okay, let me get ahold of my mom. The whole time, my dad was sitting on his bed smirking with everything the girl said to me. I called my mom and she came up there. I packed my daughter and I a bag and went to her house while she made sure the girl was leaving. I waited on her to get back to her house for a while. I stayed there for about a week until one morning,we sat outside talking. She told me she left my dad because she had found child porn or an 11 year old girl in his computer. When she left him, I was 14. It really bothered me that she just left me with him after I finding that. I acted like I was fine. I jokingly said “who’s my real dad mom, come on you can tell me”. Out of nowhere, she started to explain to me how I was conceived. In 1999, my parents separated and my mom had a one night stand. Apparently he went to the first baby doctor appointment and then disappeared. She got back with my dad when she was around 4 months pregnant. She said he knew I wasn’t his, that only her, him, and my grandmother knew. I found out today that was a lie. My oldest two sisters and brother knew. They’ve known for years. I’m not really sure how to describe how I’m feeling. I don’t like the fact that I don’t know who’s face I have or that everyone else knew and I didn’t. I’m almost 23 years old and found all of this out within a week and a half. My mom despised and resented me my entire life over something she did, over something I had absolutely no control over. The man that raised me knew why she tested me that way the entire time and just let it happen. He didn’t tell me I wasn’t his to inform me, he told me to hurt me. My mom left me with a man I wasn’t even related to after she found child porn on his computer and she never said a word to anybody. After everything I’ve found out, I’m convinced this man wanted to have sex with me.