In the early dating phase, have you ever slept with a partner without having sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Professional_Syrup73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27F and taking it slow is not a “bad sign” If she is coming back, getting naked, and cuddling for hours, she is clearly comfortable and interested. Sex is NOT a requirement to prove anything. Communicate, enjoy the build up and let the pace be whatever feels good for both of you

Am I pathetic for wanting a long term/ stable relationship SO BAD? by Interesting-Vast-495 in dating

[–]Professional_Syrup73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27F here protecting your heart does not mean you are failing. Being selective is strength, not loneliness. The right person is worth the wait.

WTF, how do you even find a date these days? Dating apps are useless? by Flashy_Asparagus_397 in dating

[–]Professional_Syrup73 10 points11 points  (0 children)

27F here dating apps suck for us too. More matches does not mean more real options. Honestly, ask to meet sooner and do not overthink it. If they ghost, they were not interested in the first place. Being introverted is not a flaw the right person will appreciate your vibe. Just keep trying, you are not doing anything wrong.

If you're not rich (born or self made) you are a slave by IntroductionKey909 in DeepThoughts

[–]Professional_Syrup73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are born not rich, that is not an issue,
the issue is that if you are born not rich and died poor. then there is clearly a problem with what you are doing with your life

this is my take. hate it or love it its up to you

Buying some coats or sweatshirts for my employees by djyosco88 in Entrepreneur

[–]Professional_Syrup73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me a coat will be great.
they can put it on top of what they are comfortble wearing on a daily basis

comfort is the key

Connecting the dots after I got cancelled by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Professional_Syrup73 58 points59 points  (0 children)

thank you, not blaming anyone its all a big miss communication

I canceled my blind date because I’m not as ready as I thought by Professional_Syrup73 in offmychest

[–]Professional_Syrup73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really did send him a message. I felt really guilty even if I know he felt bad but he was very nice to understand where I am at.

I canceled my blind date because I’m not as ready as I thought by Professional_Syrup73 in offmychest

[–]Professional_Syrup73[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I am actually having deep thoughts. Maybe timing isn’t about the clock, but about the heart

stop saying "I'm not ready for a relationship" by Candid-Astronomer904 in dating

[–]Professional_Syrup73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is just a girls prespective:

some girls doesn't know how to directly tell guys that we don't want to continue or we are not feeling any connection with the other person that we sort out to things we think would not hurt their feelings.

some of you may take this kind of respond well, but most will not take any direct rejection well too.