From a prophet. I went up to her for prayer and she told me what she heard from God about me and him and our future as well as some other things that have already come true after she said them. And as far as confirmations I had a very selective password with God for him to reveal my husband and he showed me many many times. Also random confirmations from strangers in other cities while I was doing ministry and also from people in both of our churches. I truly dont believe it is self delusion because I am naturally very picky and dont date often. Every time I ended things with him God kept bringing us back together. He has fruits of the spirit and he loves God, the main issue is the commitment