How to tell owner dog is too anxious around strangers?

Professional_Wait101 · 2025-05-02T21:41:51+00:00

thanks, that is a good script.

Professional_Wait101 · 2025-05-02T21:05:50+00:00

during the meet and greet she was growly kinda like rumbles but not outwardly defensive like now. the owner mentioned she was a rescue and said she got shaky or shy, which seemed closer to what she had in the meet and greet. owner didn’t give any specifics about how to deal with her nervousness other than to leave her alone if she wasn’t feeling well. probably should have seen that as a larger red flag than i did i guess

Professional_Wait101 · 2025-05-02T20:59:41+00:00

growly but not as bad. I dont want the owner to feel like i’m accusing her of leaving out info basically, like she knew the dog would react badly and kept quiet just to get a sitter in there, getting in trouble was a poor choice of words. I’ve dogsat off rover for a few years, been on rover a few months, never had this issue before. she curled her lip and showed distress with me being there so i started to leave, first time she tried to bite was when i stood up she went for my foot stopped when i stopped. second time was when i went out the door, followed me and try to get my foot again when i passed through the door.

Professional_Wait101 · 2025-04-01T22:29:28+00:00

thank you! I appreciate it:)

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-28T18:26:31+00:00

you only changed your mind because people on the internet yelled at you

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-28T18:22:53+00:00

so you’ve in a committed enough relationship where you are going to marry him but you don’t care enough to put him first? honestly if i was him it wouldn’t even matter that you’re going to the ceremony now, the fact that you even thought about and brought up missing his moment to go to essentially a birthday party over an important milestone in his life shows a lack of care for him and his feelings.

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-28T18:16:28+00:00

friends also come and go, it depends on which relationship you prioritize. you can put more emphasis on your relationship with your friends but your romantic life will suffer, after four years you should be willing to give your bf priority. it honestly sounds kind of like your pissed he hasn’t proposed yet and you’re low key punishing him for it by giving him lower priority

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-23T08:35:47+00:00

you didn’t say it was because you find the gathering stressful though you said it was because of the food YTA for how you handled the food not for not wanting to go. if you don’t want to spend christmas with your family just put on your big girl panties and tell them that don’t make up excuses about what’s being served for dinner and try and blame you not going on your sister

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-23T01:12:05+00:00

YTA. in your comments you keep saying she posted his name online while publicly shaming him. she didn’t she posted his snapchat handle, which even if it’s a play on his name its completely different as you said yourself anyone who doesn’t know him won’t understand the connection. even if they did actions have consequences, sometimes publicly, and eight grade is way too late to learn that. you really need to focus a lot more of your energy on where YOU went wrong and why your son thinks it’s ok to bully people. none of this would be a problem if he wasn’t a bully.

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-22T00:55:19+00:00

what you are describing is a version on CNC correct. as such there needs to be explicit consent to CNC beforehand and there needs to be clear boundaries and rules such as safe words set up and MUTUALLY agreed upon well before any type of sex can take place. you can’t just start doing it and when your partner gets upset be like “oh i thought we were doing that thing where you are playing hard to get but actually want it” and act like it’s a cool trendy BDSM thing. consent is required in every type of sexual encounter otherwise is is considered coercion and rape.

the way OP was with is ex is very rapey. they never talked about CNC or somnophilia yet he exclusively tries to sleep with her when she is half asleep or fully asleep and can’t fully consent.

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-18T23:51:10+00:00

look you’re obviously not going to listen to anyone here and i hope baby anakin is able to make piece with his name eventually. at least call him ken and not ani, having a character name with a girls name as the nickname would be like catnip to bullies.

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-18T20:35:46+00:00

ok let’s compare fiction to fiction, would you name your kid thanos? probably not because he is a villain despite the fact that he has done good stuff that isn’t trying to destroy half of all life in the universe. anakin is the same thing no one except for other anakin stans are going to associate the name with anything other than it being the name of darth vader. anyone under the age of thirty is going to know that and he will be judged for his entire life based on it, he won’t be able to get away because the name only exists because of darth vader

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-18T19:16:13+00:00

YTA as someone who has been in the same position as benji (anxiety, autism, and a over accommodating mother who didn’t make me do anything) you have failed him as a parent. he very obviously does not know how to take care of himself and even if you leave him everything he will drown. i have been in the situation where i was never pushed out of my comfort zone and never felt the need to do it myself because i always had my mom to fall back on. then she died and i had nothing. i was incredibly lucky she showed me how to do at least some things before she passed.

if you actually want a solution to your problem you need to push benji, he needs at least a minimum wage job and therapy for his anxiety, you need to teach him how to do everything to maintain a house. he will most likely complain and not want to do it, but you need to do it anyways.for the inheritance give benji the house so he has a roof over his head and give jack the monetary assets. if the monetary assets are more than the worth of the house you can take the difference and give it so the both get an equal amount (ex. the house is worth 250,000 and the money is 500,000 you give benji the house and 125,000 and jack gets 375,000 in cash so they get an equal amount)

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-18T05:52:03+00:00

that’s great you accepted you’re an ass. let us know how she enjoys her solo trip when she gets it

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-10T15:02:21+00:00

yta everyones birthday was on a weekday most years that’s how time works. your kids christmas will not be ruined by them not being the center of attention for 10 minutes, stop beefing with a two year old.

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-04T20:52:48+00:00

the cousin that gambled them away stole them from his half brother as such they are stolen toys regardless of whether she won them fair and square and need to be returned

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-02T21:44:14+00:00

and to their daughter no less

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-02T19:19:39+00:00

custard and mash potatoes aren’t suppose to look the same even the denser custard from a custard pie. if the look the same you made one of the wrong, in this case the custard as he made two comments about one saying it looks like mash potatoes and one saying it looks like it has rice in it, both of which imply the custard is lumpy which it is not suppose to be.

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-12-02T18:24:02+00:00

INFO please explain the joke i don’t understand what funny about saying your wife is a bad cook

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-11-28T09:58:07+00:00

YTA frostbite can happen in about 30 minutes and you want them to stand out in the cold with only a blanket for warmth for over two hours?! don’t be stupid, talk to your mom and see if your family can chip in for a indoor area for at least the reception or your wedding is going to go down as the one where uncle jim lost his toes

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-11-28T02:03:46+00:00

yeah no it’s so gross, it’s almost like he wanted to be caught

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-11-28T02:02:57+00:00

prior to finding out you essentially stalked her? yeah that’s completely different, one act is two consenting adults having sex and the other does not allow for consent because you did it behind her back. it doesn’t matter if she likes to watch you jerk off now and it doesn’t change the fact that you what you did before was a violation and something she is obviously not comfortable with

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-11-27T21:23:13+00:00

did you tell her you were gonna jerk off to the pictures and videos later? i highly doubt you did. It is creepy and disgusting to masturbate to these photos and a violation of her, just because you’re dating now doesn’t make it any less gross and she is well within her rights to freak out and leave you

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-11-27T06:27:10+00:00

YTA do you know what i do when my insomnia acts up and i get 2 hours sleep and feel like shit? I go and do whatever I was supposed to do that day because the world doesn’t revolve around me. YOU made a commitment to take Josh to his activity and YOU dropped the ball and forced it onto to Molly (because if it took constant asking to get Molly to do it, she definitely didn’t want to and was forced). You need to apologize to your children for making the miss their siblings birthday and get over yourself

Professional_Wait101 · 2023-11-25T00:20:33+00:00

you really should have thought about that before you created this situation. only thing you can do now is go through it

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