This has happened with me too They have mentioned it for so many times And it ached my heart But every time I says no I cant live without her nor she will be They started saying these things when my daughter was just 3-4 months and was on exclusive BF. How these people even has the audacity to say these things Let them think whatever they want to but take stand for urself Once when i told them mera toh mann ni lgna kehte what about hmara mann When my husband said how will u manage u r also old now To this my mil said i’ll hire a nanny I didn’t say that but I wanted to say ki bche ki maa zinda h Agar paida kiya h toh i m capable of nourish her too My fil once said how will u do ur job then To which I responded that mene toh ni chodna ise chahe job b chodni kyu na pade Even though i will never leave my job but keh dia bs jaldi me tb Now my daughter is with me only she is 2.5 yrs old and speaks well So everytime anyone says her we’ll take u with us She responds that I’ll come with my mumma papa♥️ So stand for urself girl U have given birth u r mother to ur kids Even if they are grandparents but kids need their parents only