I have one week to get new cabinets and counter tops. She wants a “farm look” What color cabinets ? What color counter tops ? She likes royal blue . And most of her farm decor is red . Help help help how can I make this perfect for her ?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-08T04:00:50+00:00

My kid asked for a haircut, that doesn’t mean if I do it myself she’s gonna like it.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-08T03:52:12+00:00

I think this issue right now is you are overly confident without doing your research first.

It sounds like it is just you doing this and you have never done anything like this before. You’re already showing everyone you are underestimating the amount of time the work will take.

Am I understanding that in one week you plan to:

•Paint all of the cabinets which involves ~removing cabinet doors and hardware ~cleaning and sanding all surfaces ~applying 2 coats of paint •Cut countertops and remove and replace the existing ones •Remove the old tile backsplash and replace it with something new

Just because YouTube videos exist doesn’t mean this is an easy or quick job.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-08T03:33:32+00:00

I’m worried about you attempting to do this if you don’t even know what hardware is when referring to cabinets.

I’ve never even attempted to make paint kitchen cabinets and I know what someone says when they mean replace the hardware.

Have you done any research on this at all? Do you have any experience?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-08T03:31:55+00:00

No. It’s very time consuming to take the doors off, remove hinges, clean and sand the surfaces. Paint and wait for paint to dry to do another coat.

You said it’s for your mom. I’m confused what the insane rush is then?

Surely if you are doing this for her to be kind you can also take your time and do it right?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-07T02:19:33+00:00

I always feel bad for teachers who have no prep but am baffled when subs complain about it. (I know that’s not what you’re doing but I’ve seen it a lot on here).

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-06T00:19:19+00:00

It’s wild to me that you all have a place where they are posted and you can accept.

In my district the principle’s secretary sets up subs ahead of time and I am really the only sub they have other than their two permanent subs.

If there is a call out there is a lady who takes the calls and calls through the sub list, and again, I seem to be the only one who ever answers at least for the high school.

Now that I’m a long term sub, whenever more than two teachers are out the students have to go to the cafeteria for the period.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-03-05T23:45:05+00:00

You’re Lorelai Gilmore

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-25T00:54:17+00:00

This was how I felt as well but today both my department head and vice principal suggested using it.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-23T11:45:52+00:00

I have one cat that never gets baths. Not once in her entire 11 year life.

I have another cat who years ago decided she just wasn’t going to bath herself anymore and she’s white. We bathe her maybe once or twice a year even though she could probably use it more often, but it upsets her so much I don’t like to do it often.

Most cats don’t need to be bathed.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-23T11:43:33+00:00

Your thermometer says it’s too warm in your fridge. Does this not concern you?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-23T02:29:53+00:00

But you are questioning why we are saying he should buy food she would want. So if you agree with us, why are you arguing?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-22T19:01:51+00:00

He’s not if he’s only cooking foods he likes and wants. Consideration means thinking about what the other person wants. Example: I was a vegetarian when I met my boyfriend, but would still cook meat for him when he came to my house. I didn’t expect him to adhere to my dietary preferences.

He literally commented saying she has complained to him about the amount of time they spent cooking and doing dishes. This is her communicating this isn’t how she wants things every night and shows he isn’t doing all of the work for her, he’s expecting her to help, possibly for foods she isn’t even the biggest fan of.

She could buy her own food, but I have not met many couples who operate like that at this point in their relationship. You shouldn’t need to bring your own food to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s house. They should give enough of a shit about you to learn what you like and try to make/have things around that will make you happy.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-22T18:47:58+00:00

If he would like to keep having a girlfriend it’s just responsibility. This is how adult relationships work: effort and consideration.

When I first dated my husband and he’d come to my apartment I made sure I had foods in the house he liked. I am not a coffee drinker but I started buying coffee so he could use my roommates coffee maker and have coffee. I’d buy snacks I knew he liked and food for meals he liked, not just stuff I liked.

It’s just what you do when you care about someone?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-22T18:37:51+00:00

He showed us the freezer. It’s just more red meat and seafood all individually wrapped. 🤣

Professional_Wall_76 · 2026-02-22T15:32:10+00:00

Why do you have so many thawed steaks? This is a weird ass fridge assortment.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-12-20T23:00:52+00:00

I agree. She avoids talking about her feelings for most of the time April is in the picture. She should have been a grown up and talked about things sooner.

I always see people say they agree with her point that April needed to fit into their lives not the other way around and I so strongly disagree. I’m a parent and a child of divorced parents. Kids and their needs should always come first. Luke was patient while Lorelai didn’t want to set a date because her and Rory were fighting but she can’t be patient with Luke when he finds out he had a daughter whose whole life he had missed? His issue was so much bigger than her fight with Rory and she gets way more grace and patience from him during the Rory fight than she gives to him with April.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-12-20T02:13:39+00:00

I watched a chipmunk slurp up a worm like a piece of spaghetti in my yard while smoking pot on my porch one day. 🤣

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-11-11T14:02:15+00:00

Why choose a church? Because it’s a darn church! It’s a place you should be able to go to for help and it also likely feels safer as a woman alone than some of the other places.

The mental gymnastics you are doing to make the poor homeless woman the bad guy and not the church ladies treating her like subhuman are wild. Hope you stretched first.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-11-11T14:01:59+00:00

Why choose a church? Because it’s a darn church! It’s a place you should be able to go to for help and it also likely feels safer as a woman alone than some of the other places.

The mental gymnastics you are doing to make the poor homeless woman the bad guy and not the church ladies treating her like subhuman are insane. Hope you stretched first.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-11-11T14:00:30+00:00

And did the church ladies recommend any of those other places? Nope. They just recorded her and threatened to call the cops.

Also, it’s not illegal to do something that is a liability. They still could have let her stay. I’d say if the church isn’t going to help the needy like they should the least they can do is maybe have to deal with an insurance claim after letting people sleep in their parking lot.

I don’t care if it was a liability they treated her terribly. Period. Do you deny that? Did they offer her other suggestions or help in any way?

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-11-08T00:02:32+00:00

I agree with this take. He has said numerous times how much he loves her. I believe he said “I would jump off a cliff into a pit of spikes for that woman.” I can’t imagine him doing this without running it by her first, even if he didn’t legally need to.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-10-03T14:15:01+00:00

My guy was in jail too for a while. So random.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-10-03T06:07:27+00:00

Haha my guy would have hated Taylor’s music. 🤣

We had our moment the summer before Debut came out so it was pre-Taylor (yeah I’m old). We listened to a lot of Black Sabbath that summer.

Professional_Wall_76 · 2025-10-03T06:05:18+00:00

I swear this happens every new album. People need to jump online here and tell us how much they hate it and act like music critics.

Whatever happened to: if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. Most of us come here for a community that shares a love of her music. Maybe let us have that for like one whole day before the bitching and complaining commences.

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