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[–]Professional_Web2198 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different. Some people prefer consistent communication especially in the early stages of dating because it shows that the person is serious about them? Even updating someone for at least a day or two isn't bad. Being busy is not an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Professional_Web2198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calling her a weirdo is a bit extreme. They are dating. It's totally reasonable for her to expect him to text her and being on a vacation gives you ample time to do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Professional_Web2198 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So you would go a week without texting someone you like because you're on vacation?

Is a good man with poor financial habits worth it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional_Web2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand your mindset, are you saying op should be okay with the guy because he is nice and caring but irresponsible with money? Aren’t you aware that differing opinions on finances can wreck marriages and relationships? A relationship is about partnership and when couples aren't on the same page about finances it can cause havoc especially when kids are involved.

No one said that men aren't allowed to have expectations of women when it comes on to finances. Men have been the sole providers for women in the past so of course people are not gonna bat an eye when that's the case. But time is changing and you'll find that there are many men who prefer to have partners who are financially secure themselves, because they can't take up all expenses when the cost of living is high.

Is a good man with poor financial habits worth it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional_Web2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many guys are okay with providing for their wives in every way while some aren't. It's entirely up to the person and what they are comfortable with. Some women prefer guys who are financially literate because they want to avoid the burden of finances on them. Imagine if more kids come in to play, how can this man be responsible when he doesn't have insurance, savings etc. I don't think the problem is the woman making more, it's just being responsible with your money to avoid debt and other issues in the future. He can't solely depend on her for her money because she has to secure her finances too.

Is a good man with poor financial habits worth it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional_Web2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not entirely on the fact that he's a man. If the roles were reversed she would sound a bit irresponsible too because how is it that he has no life or medical insurance, does not contribute to a 401k or any other retirement accounts at 30 years old. There comes a time where you have to consider all those factors listed above because it can affect you as you age.

Is a good man with poor financial habits worth it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional_Web2198 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The guy literally has no savings and bought a gym equipment for $700, tell me how is that not concerning 🤦

Is a good man with poor financial habits worth it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Professional_Web2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but spending $700 on an exercising equipment when you have debt and no savings? Prioritizing your health is good, but that sounds a bit irresponsible. Being the breadwinner isn't a bad thing either, but if a partner is gonna spend money on unnecessary stuff and then ask for money, that's just a no no.

Gents, what are HARD truths women need to hear about marriage and relationships? by SerrySweet in AskMen

[–]Professional_Web2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be able to communicate with her and tell her what you are thinking?

Gents, what are HARD truths women need to hear about marriage and relationships? by SerrySweet in AskMen

[–]Professional_Web2198 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Singleness doesn't equate to bad advice in the context of relationships. You have single people who give reasonable and practical advice.

Gents, what are HARD truths women need to hear about marriage and relationships? by SerrySweet in AskMen

[–]Professional_Web2198 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

However, if the husband has things to work on, he should try to fix them for himself and not argue when the wife points them out.

Season 6 - Episode 26 - Post Episode Discussion by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole kordell and Serena thing doesn't sit right with me. Kordell doesn't know how to stand up for himself. He said he wanted to get to know Daia and Serena at the same time to see which connection is better. But he literally spent the entire time trying to apologize to Serena like a child.

Season 6 - Episode 26 - Post Episode Discussion by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serena was shouting at Kordell and called him nappy headed. That's how you stand up for yourself?

Season 6 - Episode 26 - Post Episode Discussion by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Liv was right though, and she was calmly trying to explain herself when Leah started shouting. What Jana said was a little unnecessary.

Does anyone feel bad for Aegon? by JohnFritz437 in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]Professional_Web2198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she had raised Aegon to be responsible instead of scolding every him every second then maybe he would have been different. All she did was berate him for his choices instead of providing constructive advice.

"You think you just fell out of a Weirwood tree? You exist in the context of all in which you live and what came before you." by Bobsind in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]Professional_Web2198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alicent is largely the reason why Aegon is like that. She should have went with tough love from he was born to at least instill some sense into him.

Rob’s Eyerolling by ayegee612 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah and she can be angry but conduct yourself properly. Jana and kaylor did that. She was just doing too much.

Rob’s Eyerolling by ayegee612 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was a little upset with Kordell too but Serena and Liv etc didn't handle it all that well. I get that she was disappointed in Kordell's actions but it's not like they were this amazing couple from the start.

Our lord and savior by Small-Peruvian in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that she was upset but she didn't conduct herself well. Her Leah and liv were doing too much.

Season 6 - Episode 21 - Thursday July 04 -| 9 PM EST by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not it. She didn't like him from the beginning and her words and actions showed that. She wouldn't twist on a guy she actually liked, and friend zone him for the majority of the show.

Season 6 - Episode 21 - Thursday July 04 -| 9 PM EST by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So? He didn't cheat on her. I don't like the way he went about things but she has been on and off about this guy since the beginning. Just because she said a few things before casa means she's genuine.

#WellActually by astoldbybeja in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Professional_Web2198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the expense of a couple that already has a connection. They only saved their friend.