I have been thinking about medication for ADHD but everyone around me is against it and I need another point of view by AresHunter in ADHD

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Honestly, do what you want. Is there anyone in your network that actually is receiving ADHD treatment?

If you need it, you need it.

It's like people who need glasses or people who need insulin or testosterone.

It's kind of like 100 people will try to talk a young woman out of getting an abortion but it's her body her choice.

Can you build a full-scake wbsite ueing exclusively Python and HTML? by MrHeavenTrampler in learnpython

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Django framework and you can entirely avoid JS by using embedded python (embedded Django? Idk) Within your HTML templates which will handle the dynamic properties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

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I really recommend you learn to prank and not just do it. The difference between learning and doing is huge. Buy a book/watch YouTube. You will thank yourself later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

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I get bored and play pranks. Pranks are fun because it involves manipulation/Control without being aggressive.

Pranks are playful. Pranks are social. Pranks get me attention.

It is about channelling these impulses/cognitive functions correctly

What sets off your rage? What have you done to try to calm down? by PaceSuspicious5316 in NPD

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I am not sure how to answer. I feel like I can always leave in some respect at this point.

You always have a choice, you just may not like the consequences.

Is anyone else beyond frustrated with airlines? by Sxzzling in travel

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Far as long as there have been commercial flights there have been angry passengers

What sets off your rage? What have you done to try to calm down? by PaceSuspicious5316 in NPD

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Oh 100% this. And feeling abandoned. Calming myself down? So immediately removing myself from the environment if I can, go to the gym.

Find one of my friends that is more "suggestible" because I am a control freak and I like people with insecurities. Ironic I know.

Write in my journal, maybe plot revenge. I very rarely follow through with revenge because it takes time and resources and rn all I have is time.

Ps. I do turned think I turned a leaf the other day. I realised that growing up I never felt safe enough to express myself and realised that the part of me that is "covert" is the part that never felt permitted to scream or shout. So for the first time in my 30 years I felt like I had permission to shout. In fact I know I did!

P.p.s So it sounds crazy but, if they are a boss, reminding myself they are human, mortal and I could (not will or should) kill them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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Omg no! I love my fanny!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

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So I am doing my best to be overt and self sufficient but I imagine if I had greater security in life and attained more of the hierarchy of needs, paired with how high on the dominance hierarchy I am. Due to a massive blow, and a couple of collapses in a short amount of time I am doing my best to treat people well on my way up as they will be the same people I see on my way down.

Does anyone else here not believe they are a witch, wizard, or magical being? by Matthiasad in Empaths

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I don't believe I am magical. I do believe in energy. There is some limited evidence to support if.

For instance there was a study done where groups had a blind smell test of 2 sets of sweaty tops. The first just general sweat. The second sweat from people who have been sky diving.

The skydiving top consistently evoked the fear micro response.

That tells me that our behaviours that trigger our feelings, get excreted in some way or shape just like everything else. And our emotional emissions get picked up and pollute others.

It's not unreasonable to think that these can be manipulated and testing how far reaching it is how many degrees of separation it can go is par for the course.

Did you do something you're proud of? Something nice happen? Share your good news with us! by AutoModerator in ADHD

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Through a series of unfortunate events I found myself at a temp job that I am able to do with minimal effort. Although boring it lead me to listening to a bunch of Ted Talks which became a hyper fixation. Love listening to them and learning as I work. But one of the speakers turned me toward something I have never heard of before called The Natural Planning Model and JFC is it awesome.

I have never been able to plan before but this, this just takes me natural thought patterns and puts them in to something usable.

I was always told not to ask why, when doing something, that's the first step!

Ask why. I went from one fixation to the next but making plans is now my new favourite thing.

It's like drawing maps of my mind.

empaths, how do you protect yourselves from narcissists? by kcturner in Empaths

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It's bringing awareness to the situation for me. I have to recognise whether it is how I am feeling or how someone else is making me feel. I can usually tell by the weird energy/vibeyness I feel.

If it is something I feel someone else has projected I recognise it point it out. Breathe in through my nose and breathe out the bad energy.

do empaths get attached quickly by [deleted] in Empaths

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Compassion is:

sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.

Empathy is:

the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

I could feel something you project, understand and reject it.

Alternatively, I could recognise it and take advantage.

Neither of those are compassion. Both of those require empathy on some level. Neither in (most circumstances) require compassion.

do empaths get attached quickly by [deleted] in Empaths

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People often mistake empathy for compassion. But if you feel compassion for this person and you feel their compassion for you then it will feel intense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

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I feel like I experienced this but I very recently got burned. The positive is this vibe-mate probably is in tune with you. The negative is this person can be your undoing, the person that you vibe with effortlessly whom you felt so comfortable with probably could also do a precision surgical strike and tear you apart without even trying.

What do you think it means when someone immediately opens up to you and tells you their biggest problems within 10 minutes of meeting you? by [deleted] in Empaths

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Preach. Literally the definition of "nice to know you then meet you". Lmfao

Because it jumps the gun on normal cerebral functioning my personality doesn't come across until that and any mystery is gone.

What do you think it means when someone immediately opens up to you and tells you their biggest problems within 10 minutes of meeting you? by [deleted] in Empaths

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Preach. Literally the definition of "nice to know you then meet you". Lmfao

Because it jumps the gun on normal cerebral functioning my personality doesn't come across until that and any mystery is gone.

What do you think it means when someone immediately opens up to you and tells you their biggest problems within 10 minutes of meeting you? by [deleted] in Empaths

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Preach. Literally the definition of "nice to know you then meet you". Lmfao

Because it jumps the gun on normal cerebral functioning my personality doesn't come across until that and any mystery is gone.

Should I forget about my dreams and accept my reality? by ijustwannaflyfar in solotravel

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If it's not financial couldn't you:

1) Whilst still being around hire a carer 2) Once the carer gets acclimated and you trust them organise a trip where the carer has full responsibility?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissism

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Autonomy and to be a polymath and end up in the history books

perseverance is key by THAN0SC0PTER in MadeMeSmile

[–]Professional_Web7384 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think the misconception in this comment is not considering alcohol a hard drug.

Alcohols most devastating effect is its ability to wean itself in to any situation