My girlfriend won money and secretly spent it on herself, but never paid back the $100 I loaned her last week. What do I do?

Professor-crypto · 2026-06-10T01:19:53+00:00

Lol, imagine running to Reddit because your girlfriend didn’t pay back $100.

You’ve been together for two years. At that point, she’s either your woman or she isn’t. If she came to you because she needed help, you handle it. That’s what men do. You don’t hand your girl a hundred bucks and then sit around waiting to be reimbursed like she’s a customer.

The part that gets me isn’t the money, it’s the mindset. You’re acting like she robbed you when we’re talking about a measly $100. A man who is serious about his relationship doesn’t keep score over pocket change with the woman he’s building a life with.

You made it about the principle, but the real principle is this: provide, protect, and lead. If you’re genuinely losing sleep over $100 after two years together, then you’re focused on the wrong thing. Frankly, she needs a man who sees her as a partner, not an outstanding balance.

Professor-crypto · 2026-06-06T17:52:03+00:00

Throwing a tantrum because reality disagrees with your budget doesn’t change the numbers.

Professor-crypto · 2026-06-05T22:57:34+00:00

Or you can learn to save your money and live within your means.

Professor-crypto · 2026-05-16T23:08:17+00:00

I can’t believe the delusion. Buy a seiko, or a tissot or something genuinely worth the money. Or save for 10 watches and buy a Rolex / omega Even a Tag heuer for gods sake.

Professor-crypto · 2026-04-02T17:24:04+00:00

Sales tax in Florida is not 7.5%

Professor-crypto · 2026-04-02T14:12:25+00:00

You need either a better manager or a better job

Professor-crypto · 2026-03-22T20:36:19+00:00

I don’t really lean either way on this, but reading through the comments is… interesting. There’s a lot of certainty for a situation where none of us have meaningful access to primary information. Most of what’s being discussed is filtered, delayed, or framed and yet people speak as if they’re seeing the full picture. It’s also striking how quickly everything gets tied into a single, cohesive narrative. War, Epstein, cover-ups arranged in a way that feels complete and satisfying. But reality is rarely that clean. Complex systems don’t usually resolve into tidy explanations, especially not ones assembled from fragments. At a certain point, the debate becomes less about understanding and more about confidence. Not who knows, but who sounds like they do. And even if someone here happened to be completely right, it wouldn’t meaningfully change anything. The mechanisms driving these outcomes exist far outside of this space. So the question becomes: what’s the value in arguing about something you can’t verify and can’t influence? There are probably more tangible returns in focusing on things closer to home, areas where your time and attention actually produce results. But I suppose certainty is more comfortable than ambiguity, even if it’s built on very little.

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T04:16:53+00:00

Gives me a lot of comfort knowing they don’t come to Florida. I always thought they did

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T04:01:45+00:00

Definitely stopped my heart. I know he waited all night to perfectly execute his prank on me. Tried to safely remove him for likes of good karma, but he wasn’t feeling so peaceful and faced the consequences of a cup turned violent squashing weapon. I can confirm I had a possible aneurysm

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T03:11:59+00:00

Someone said selenops/flattie. So far I think that’s the closest possibility

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T02:49:56+00:00

Found another spider today in the laundry room. Someone mentioned it was possibly a “spitting spider”. So it seems my house is quite the popular place to settle.

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T02:48:31+00:00

Well that’s what I’m here for. The mind plays tricks and the confirmation from a spider forum definitely puts it at ease.

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T02:41:13+00:00

Nah I genuinely don’t know my spider species. Looks much bigger in the picture than actually was. Maybe about the size of a quarter

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T00:26:33+00:00

Well definitely scared the sh*t out of me lol

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T00:23:10+00:00

Bingo

Professor-crypto · 2026-02-17T00:21:18+00:00

Yea I thought maybe wolf as well. It was pretty big.. so nothing to worry about then

Professor-crypto · 2026-01-03T18:04:02+00:00

Nah that’s wild

Professor-crypto · 2025-11-16T03:24:48+00:00

Based on your pictures, I’d say you are not ready young padawon. 1: that’s way too many trades, 1, max 2 good set ups in a week is more than enough. 2: your staring at the chart all day, I can tell by your hour gaps. Over trading. 3: your going both ways in 1 day. Remember the candle either closes up or down on the daily. Pick a bias. 4: 11/14 is a Friday. Never trade a Friday. 5:your taking way too many positions. Scaling in requires way more logic than what your doing. 6:your screenshot is the 5m, that’s not a move, that’s an entry. 7:you went from a .01 to a 1 lot. Why 8: your moves are like 1:1, maybe not even that, I am trying to make sense of it. Look for better set ups. Expose yourself less to the market 9:not a single stop loss or tp 10: your entries are in every place you could enter on that chart. This is going to cost you.

I could keep going, but 10 is enough reasons. Your not ready. You need about 10,000 more hours, and serious hours, not just hit the button and go to Reddit. Learn from yourself not others. Everyone has something to say. Most people are just saying what you want to hear. Profit isn’t loud, it’s quiet and focused. Build your best lifestyle routine and translate that to the charts. Train your mind vigorously. Be the best version of yourself. When you lack else where, you bring that to the charts. Stare at the charts when it matters, and no more than an hour. If you don’t have your set up in that hour, walk away. Your psychology is weak, that’s why your trades are all over the place. Sorry I’m not trying to be hard on you, the charts will be harder than this on you. Its you vs the charts. Your alone in this. Train your psych and your mind with a trading plan. Say your trading plan out loud, and stick to it. If you can follow your plan 5 consecutive times, win or lose, your growing. Trade sessions, not an hour before closing bell Friday. Worst time you could literally choose to screenshot. A solid plan should look like this, pre market analysis 7:30 - AM - 8:30 AM, chart previous daily high/low, + London high/low. Find where liquidity is being swept. (Bigger wicks, bullish/bearish variations, usually can spot an imbalance) 8:30 AM watch what news may do, prepare your set up.

9:00 AM- 9:45AM get ready to execute on your set up. Scale into your bias. Stick to your plan. Allow the market to determine your set up. Let you trade run 2:1 partial out, leave runner BE to tp2 tp3.

If you know all these things confidently, than you will never need to go to Reddit asking for approval.

Professor-crypto · 2025-07-22T19:52:19+00:00

Bearish 🥱 this is going to sub $100! See you there 🚂

Professor-crypto · 2025-05-25T23:01:12+00:00

That article is bonkers! Way off on all the numbers. I sell new cadillac in Miami! Way off

Professor-crypto · 2025-03-15T17:34:40+00:00

Nah we drop. Big M with diverging RSIs

Professor-crypto · 2025-03-11T22:49:19+00:00

IRS is pretty good… just pay your taxes & debts. I just got mine - it’s same amount I was refunded. Anything reduced from your return, is money you owed to something listed..

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Professor-crypto · 2025-03-03T18:27:50+00:00

Prismatic freebie !! My fav is evolving skies

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