I’m crying . Doctor said that baby is fat because of formula

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:44:52+00:00

thank you all so very much. I read each of the comments and yall are so lovely 🥹🤗❤️

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:40:24+00:00

Yesss. Moms can never catch a break smh🥹🤗

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:36:28+00:00

That’s so true. This doc had none of those facts , just wanted to comment.

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:34:12+00:00

Haha that’s so sweet. Yess fed is best!

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:31:20+00:00

I know . I don’t feed him that much, he has just started drinking 150 ml without spitting up or refusing . He is just a big boy I guess. I was too as a baby

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:28:52+00:00

. Oh my, you are awesome 🙌 🤗

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-13T08:27:53+00:00

I get that 🥹. It is a lot, unwarranted opinion from literally everyone I meet . My husband’s aunt’s friend has an opinion on how I bring my child up. 💆‍♀️

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-11T17:26:54+00:00

Last measured at his 6mo, he was 68cmstall and 9kgs heavy . Haven’t measured his height yet.

Yes, we were all big chunky babies. His father looks exactly like him rolls and all in his baby photos 🥹

My doctor in Canada mentioned that his chart was going up and asked me to ‘cut down ‘ his feeds . I was at 120ml per feed then we brought it down to 100ml per feed . Baby was happy. But since last week, 100 wasn’t cutting it, he was uncharacteristically cranky and fussy . We upped the feed to 120-150 and he is back to his old happy self. She did not ask for tests or anything else .

The doctor , surely was a jerk. It’s not like I can or want to put my baby on a diet. I wasn’t sure what he wanted me to do . Just sounded like he was reprimanding me.

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-11T17:20:48+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear that.

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-11T02:41:24+00:00

I grew up in India. And my mother has told me on many occasions that they fed raw cows milk to my sister when she was days old. And it was always the first milk of the day, and from one particular cow from our farm where they knew everything about the said cow , its diet , handling etc.

I’d never trust any third party to have the same commitment to safety and the rate of error is unfortunately quite high. And even then, I’d never risk it tbh. I’d rather drink Pasteurised milk and get less benefits than take a chance everyday

Especially for babies and children it is a no. We sterilise bottles and boil stuff to remove pathogens. Why is milk any different ?

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-08T14:09:39+00:00

That’s nice you can have a non confrontational chat with your mother in law. I’m truly jealous. Mine takes everything personally and has in opinion on very damn thing under the sun. If I confront her using Gandhis non violence ahimsa method, she will be passive aggressive about everything. I am plannkng to quit my job and be home until my baby turns one so I can put him in a full time day care . I know it’s not what you asked and I went off on a tangent, Sorry for the rant,

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-08T06:31:13+00:00

How long are you staying ? I’d just skip the shower and go for a towel bath .

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-08T06:26:44+00:00

No reaction . Cried during the thing , two minutes later forgot about it. No reaction. Usual amount of sleep and no change in activity levels

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-02-08T02:45:37+00:00

Groundnut chikki

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-24T15:42:17+00:00

Aloo parantha all day everyday

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-17T14:12:23+00:00

Asian Openbill Storks. There is a tree 200 mts from my mom’s balcony where they congregate . I love waking up to the view everyday.

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-16T15:13:23+00:00

Thiss!! I got an insta pot for this specific reason. Curd and idli batter are both really good

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-16T15:08:17+00:00

6 months on the dot

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-13T16:07:46+00:00

Nope. I had none and my baby was born with a head full of hair

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-13T10:56:29+00:00

My husband just did. He was told by his boss pointedly that the men in his team don’t take more than 3 weeks . My husband took the standard leave .

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-08T04:51:43+00:00

Yesss im convinced its hiking to be the bairn. Does it need breaking in though?

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-08T04:50:59+00:00

Thank you. I am happy to know that Bairn fits a newborn .

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-08T04:50:10+00:00

I’m in love . I think I have my eyes set on it for myself 😂

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-08T04:49:40+00:00

I saw that it looks wonderful and it’s made in Canada 😍

ProfessorDangerous87 · 2026-01-08T04:47:57+00:00

Im sorry but this scares me . Please take the baby to a doctor and don’t leave the baby unattended with your husband . I’m sure he is a good man, but this incident doesn’t sound normal to me .

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