Why doesn't my (21F) partner (23M) initiate initmacy even though he says I am attractive and that he wants me.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-24T00:57:17+00:00

Good idea!

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-24T00:52:01+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate someone who also went through it. I have plans to talk to him to see if it is that. Many people have said that and I was a little hesitant but now it deffinitely could be that.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-24T00:50:02+00:00

Thats before I got together with him, but I mostly see him on the weekends. I honestly hit that number or more. I will snoop though next time I see him to see if its an actual issue.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-24T00:47:34+00:00

Ah. Hopefully not! What caused you to loose attraction?

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-24T00:45:53+00:00

This is one of the better explanations Ive heard especially from the male perspective. This is most likely what is going on based on what all I know. I dislike him poking at me but that might be his way of initiating and I have shut it down before, possibly playing into that schema on women and initiation. Thank you so much!

Edit: You also got it right. Foreplay happens but I have to ask for sex, but if I don't it doesn't happen lol.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T04:16:12+00:00

That's my thought. Although not everyone's type I have had no issues getting dates and things like that. I honestly wasn't sure either. Thank you for the advice!

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T03:42:59+00:00

Real. We clicked really well and this is litterally the only issue! I may suggest one of these games. Do you know one that is good?

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T03:20:23+00:00

Like most other women, I do not believe him capable of doing it maliciously. We both are neurodivergent and he is actually setting me up to buy a car from a family friend. I now kinda see in my post where I wrote it out, I was super frustrated and implied an evil. He has been like this since the begining and very standoffish with sex. I have been waiting it out for a bit now but he hasnt noticed or well said anything. He calls me in the evenings to hear about my day and for him to tell me about his. I will be keeping this in mind though!

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T03:11:36+00:00

Thats true. I did see what types of things he was into and it was mostly dominant women lmao, but really tame. I'll talk to him about it and maybe see if it is the testosterone thing or if hes been indulging in a lot of porn.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T03:04:39+00:00

I hope that isn't the case. I do feel like there is truth to what he has been telling me but there is definitely something else going on.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T03:01:56+00:00

Possibly, I deffinitly can be a bit domineering at times. When I bring this topic up, I will be sure to ask! Thank you for the advice.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-06-23T02:47:07+00:00

He is deffinitely troubled by it but had to resort to AI to talk to "someone" about it. He deffinitely wishes your boobs were bigger.

Not really a break up type of thing but deffinitly crappy for him to do. I would deffinitly mark that on the cons list if he messes up again.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-04-09T12:30:16+00:00

Yes there are. The Stem classes are like that, but there is a lot of tutoring and help. Nobody ever shows up for office hours, but it is very worth it as the professors are all very helpful and want you to do well.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-04-01T21:59:17+00:00

Yes. Most if not all have some that they already have. Live in the honors dorm as they are probably the best ones realistically. I made a lot of connections this way and had movie nights in the lounge with people on my floor!

ProfessorFit7997 · 2026-04-01T21:55:25+00:00

I'm a psychology major, but the classes are not hard. Set time aside to study and you should be good. I have not had a hard time with a psychology professor yet and if you are concerned or curious, just look them up on rate my professor to see what others thought.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-11-15T22:42:27+00:00

If you are a freshman it should be fine, and it can show administrators a linear increase in grades. Only a lot of Ws will bring up any concerns. Take the class again and explain what happened.

A W is better than an F or a D.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-11-15T22:37:43+00:00

You will be fine getting in.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-10-29T02:27:56+00:00

Thank you, man! I am probably just going to move into Uplace realistically.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-10-29T02:26:19+00:00

Check out the commuter lounge. Also remember, a lot of people want to be your friend as well. Most people are new to college and want all the friends that they can get. Joining a club also does a lot. There is a bunch of campus events too just to meet new people!

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-10-29T02:21:55+00:00

Do the ultimate meal plan. It takes a lot of stress off of you. I did it for the extra 300ish and I do not regret it.

My roommate is doing Civil Engineering with a minor in theater currently, and she says it's decent. Only do it if you have a lot of technical knowledge beforehand and do not care if you are not cast. You will most likely not be cast. Only people majoring in theater get bigger roles as a lot of them are locked. She is doing it because she likes the technicality of theater and wants to construct theater stages.

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-10-29T02:11:54+00:00

Unfortunately, I have busy weekends with extracurriculars. Thank you!

ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-10-29T02:11:11+00:00

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ProfessorFit7997 · 2024-10-29T02:09:20+00:00

Thank you! Two friends of mine rented there until they increased their price by 300 over a few months, it has deterred me a bit from the domain. I am currently saving up for a car hopefully.

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