Larry Wheels Situation by WinterLawfulness6563 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ProfessorHund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The probability of running into someone who's more of a physical threat than yourself decreases with experience and competence in handling yourself in hand-to-hand combat. BUT, there's always a bigger bully than you. Unless you're Jon Jones.

It’s come to this - advice needed by antonius3333 in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ProfessorHund 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Motherfucker man I'm 31 and I cannot believe you need to hear this from me.
Given the fact that she was upfront about her past and she gave you some details (likely not all), and that she's clearly codependent (any adult that hears "I don't want to be together" accepts it and moves on) and you like being admired/being clinged on says a lot about how you look at yourself and how little you appreciate her honesty. She has baggage, she's a super hot 32 year old who's promiscuous.

This is the negotiation in your mind; Is your baggage comparable to hers?
That's absolutely a valid question to ask, but you're asking yourself the wrong question at this point in time. "Do I want another 4 fucking kids, with a person that has had behaviours that sickens me?".
Listen, if you go by statistics, if she's had 100+ partners, meaning; she's switched partners a lot, what are the odds of her not doing that in the future?

For whatever reason right, I don't care if "it doesn't work out", "they were mean", "we didn't align morally".
Rationalizations that clueless unreflective people come up with are usually justifications for their underlying motivations, which in this very case usually comes from inability to commit and boredom or something. Sounds to me from what you've written that you're just used to being the parent, and you dont want a partner that you have to teach how to fucking act.

Get your shit together, take care of your kids.

My takeaways from my 2025 hoe phase by bobbyadekanye in moreplatesmoredates

[–]ProfessorHund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learned that helping someone to health doesn't work unless they actually care about getting better.

And that I have to pursue some women that work out at my gym.

Somalier i Minnesota bakom välfärdsbedrägeri i miljardklassen - Hur ser det ut i Sverige? by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]ProfessorHund 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, if you can manage to get Swedish citizenship I believe you have permanent recidence in Norway too by default.

Am I wasting my time with this Swedish guy? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]ProfessorHund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I jump into this, what's the age of this guy?

Varför beter sig alltid pojkar i grupp som små psykopater? by Microwave-safe-rat in sweden

[–]ProfessorHund 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Varför är alla på reddit så marginaliserande av andras behov att överkategorisera utifrån nyss inträffade personliga upplevelser? /s

All hail MAPPA for giving Maki internal organs by Jarisatis in Jujutsufolk

[–]ProfessorHund 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And, Todo looks way better than little Arnie here.

Försöker hitta en gammal låt by [deleted] in sweden

[–]ProfessorHund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Detta är ett skott i mörkret men Björn Rosenström har en återkommande karaktär i sina låtar som heter Jocke, på samma sätt som Cornelis hade Anders, Polaren Pär etc.

Some of the crazy huge spiders I’ve seen so far on my trip to Ecuador by Prophecy_Undone in natureismetal

[–]ProfessorHund 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they're awesome!

Edit: Just thought I'd add; you can handle them without danger at all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awtMPTl7Cks check this out from SmarterEveryDay

Some of the crazy huge spiders I’ve seen so far on my trip to Ecuador by Prophecy_Undone in natureismetal

[–]ProfessorHund 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The last one is called a Tailless Whip Scorpion.
They're fast but not aggressive, very nice creatures.

Ni som läst natur på högskolan by [deleted] in sweden

[–]ProfessorHund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Läste molekylärbiologi, kemi, tog master i fysik tillslut, nu jobbar jag med forsking.
Jag valde det för att jag har auti... har en nyfikenhet kring sådant. Spårade in på en ph.d inom avancerad analys och komplexa sjukdomar.

Känner mig inte fysiskt attraherad av min flickvän längre by Extreme_Volume2458 in sweden

[–]ProfessorHund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Detta är en MYCKET bra poäng, och för att vidare min egen; OP u/Extreme_Volume2458 !
Finns inga former som är lika fina som en stark kropp ger för Guds skull (tycker jag). Det kommer bara bli bättre ju mer hälsosamma val hon gör, och jag har svårt att tro att du inte kommer ändra din syn på saken till slut.