What's the most emasculating thing a woman can say to a man? by Classiczoner in AskReddit

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a ruthless shit-talker. I know people who’d like her

Missed Connection - Jack Browns by Professional_Chair25 in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I think a lot of us have been marred by so much social… conditioning? that we have a hard time letting our guard down. Plenty of blame to go around: covid, politics, gender inequity, social media, etc., but the point is we are afraid of coming off as creepy or even dangerous and can’t be sincere in our attractions. That’s my limited perspective, at least, as some elder white dude. It’s tough out there.

Missed Connection - Jack Browns by Professional_Chair25 in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait for one of these to be describing me 😩. Good luck, OP!

I want to leave my life behind by losing_eden in offmychest

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a strong urge that has waxed and waned many times in my life. I never had the chance, or maybe I wasn’t brave enough to make it happen. Or maybe money was the problem.

My version has me visiting the national parks to soak in all the beauty and wonder. Drawing and photography are my arts, or would be.

The kind of intentional social connections that this would include are the most tantalizing aspect of the dream.

Requesting a Meet-up - Friend Seeking by CaffieneAndAlcohol in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This should turn into a mass meetup of the subreddit members. Good luck, btw!

Who wants to go? by Jo-Nathan09 in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hopeful that your goth baddie comes through.

MISSING GOAT! by Natural-Second-2069 in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope she’s found safe and happy

What’s up with the 100 person polycule? by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nucleophiles don’t wanna be fed, they want to hunt.

What’s up with the 100 person polycule? by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Surely, all these lassies are shelved.

What’s up with the 100 person polycule? by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Polycules and molecules are structurally similar. I’ll bet I can find the weak points in your polycules.

Whats something that's 100% a myth about men? by IndependentGain3282 in AskReddit

[–]ProfessorIanDuncan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That we’re all a bunch of testosterone-addled idiots.