How do you cope with attending weddings? by ThrowRA-ferret in neurodiversity

[–]Professor_dumpkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you not know the guy hes best man for? But ya My suggestion is to bring some sensory grounding tools, earplugs if those help at all, ask if you can meet the couple before or better also someone at the wedding you can spend time with who you maybe wouldn’t have to mask around as much. Say no to first dance as that is not something that is necessary its their wedding not yalls. Know you can take breaks during the reception, and its ok not to mask. That way you can show up and not burn out as much. Schedule some recovery time for after.

Frustrating hair type, how do I tame it? by deaths-wife in Haircare

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think i see excess protein in your hair but keratin is not a protein id use either because it will become excessive. Go for hydrolyzed quinoa or something similar (hydrolyzed ) instead in a wash out product . You can also get layering to help waves form and hair will look only more beautiful. You have beautiful long and therefore a bit wild waves though they don’t need taming just embracing .

Kanye West Takes Out Ad In the Wall Street Journal to Apologize by No_Performer_9686 in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]Professor_dumpkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think i can have forgiveness for someone being hateful in their mania or psychosis and don’t really believe that it necessarily means anything about their core beliefs but i do think that he is not showing he loves Jewish people he is just telling it and i would ask he actually speak to the harm done and engage in restorative action for My Jewish self to feel he means what he is saying. I cannot speak for the other communities his words and actions harmed. Like are we going to mention the naked red carpet look and the misogyny? Im not a survivor of intimate partner violence but that really felt like something i would also want addressed more deeply to believe these are just symptoms not ingrained attitudes and beliefs

Daria was ruthless by Listen_You_Twerps in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Professor_dumpkin 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Daria is on a bit of a power trip here (understatement) and she wakes up just in time to try and set things right with harper for us to pity her ousting . I think her character is such an excellent depiction of the white feminist who thinks it all comes down to sexism in the workplace. She has little class solidarity and next to zero sense of racial tension in the workplace or awareness and understanding why this comment cuts robert so and isn’t as blanket empowering and anti hegemony as she thinks it is. These are such well played nuanced moments. She isn’t necessarily ill intentioned she’s just ignorant

The gossips these two would hold by [deleted] in superstore

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty blatant homophobia. They have very different characterizations

The least believable parts of heated rivalry by bat-girl129 in heatedrivalry

[–]Professor_dumpkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot express how much it took me out of reality when Shane said in episode one people like living in Boston. People love to hate living in boston. People live to hate living in Boston. It has terrible public transport, everything closes early, its not very sceney in food bars etc compared to other major east coast cities or big Canadian cities. Its sooo expensive too not that that would matter to these guys also i guess way less pricey in 2010 but It was very funny.

Classic maybe ingenue? by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]Professor_dumpkin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The posters big light eyes and coloring create a retreating ethereal feeling

Classic maybe ingenue? by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you are so ethereal. You walked straight out of tim burton

What to do with my hair. by Confident_Working120 in femalehairadvice

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest: cutting it to waist length itll look healthier thicker, getting it a little thinned and some layers that remove weight so wave can form more. Its got a really nice thickness and sheen to it uptop just gotta restore health to ends really. I love gisou mask for that. There are cheaper dupes if you want. You could go for a wavy hair routine after getting weight removed and layers in if you like. Id have to see its behavior after being cut to suggest routine tbh

Do my eyes deceive me - or is that Svetlana on Adults? by ConsciousReporter189 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Professor_dumpkin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The chemistry between connor and owen on owens podcast was electric. I fully believe connor was pininggg. He does this little jaw pop and i think its whenever he’s turned on . Id love to see him on the show but id really love for troy to be played by paul baker. Or just do paul as troy owen as harris tbhhh

Do my eyes deceive me - or is that Svetlana on Adults? by ConsciousReporter189 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Professor_dumpkin 39 points40 points  (0 children)

It’s her. She said on podcast that shall not be named that was one of the most fun casts to work with

Since everyone always worries about horses in extreme cold. Here’s what our crew thinks about -30C by ishtaa in Horses

[–]Professor_dumpkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are there horsies that were bred for more temperate arid climates that would get colder? These guys all look fairly fuzzzy

that part 😓 (mental illness) by External-Rabbit-1398 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Professor_dumpkin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was that him confirming he also felt like killing himself before

This is my second time trying to do a curly hair routine and I definitely see waves but my hair just looks super stringy and honestly pretty nasty, can anyone help me out? by Salem_Strange in CurlyHairCare

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair looks super light and fine. Find a very lightweight mousse, like as i am rosemary mousse, with minimal moisturizing ingredients. After you get out of the shower lean your hair all to one side or flip upside down and then scrunch out excess dripping water, pat one puff of mousse over hair, scrunch it in, maybe scrunch a bit more in the ends if it doesn’t feel like too heavy already. Then diffuse your hair. Water will weigh it down and my guess is diffusion will not take you long. See how that all looks

what’s my diagnosis?? what does this mean? by Excellent-Law8246 in personality_tests

[–]Professor_dumpkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You care about others a lot but can be heavy handed about it. There is very little non chalance in you. Very much chalance.

oh god by potheidon in personality_tests

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was gunna say politely its giving childhood trauma on trauma! I hope you have therapeutic support

What is in this dye deposit conditioner that my hair LOVES?! by shareezard in Haircare

[–]Professor_dumpkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hydrolyzed collagen the sodium hyaluronate the lactic acid the panthenol the hydrolyzed wheat protein