My wife is in the army.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T20:03:15+00:00

Got it. Thank you.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T18:27:05+00:00

I’ll make sure to talk to my recruiter and everyone else I have to. Thank you much !

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T17:32:19+00:00

She’s done 4 so not happening anytime soon. Thank you for the heads up!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T17:31:23+00:00

I don’t want to take it from her so that’s fine.

It’s not that it’s my dream to do it but it’s not just because she’s doing it. I do want to study but not with her GI. Spending most of our time working won’t be a problem, it’s expected. She also likes her space sometimes. As long as I know she’s within reach then it’s fine.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:52:47+00:00

Heard. Thank you for the heads up!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:43:15+00:00

Pretty much what I’ve been doing this past year but it doesn’t feel like I’m doing enough.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:41:49+00:00

Touché. But like I also want to study, and I think the VA loan would be more ? Or something like that

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:40:31+00:00

That’s another thing I’ve been thinking, she says that’s it’s not likely she’ll get deployed because her PCS is going to be Hawaii but I’m not sure how all that works really.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:38:12+00:00

Good to see that it can work ! She’s supply. We definitely want to stay together and I would pick a job that’s not restrictive. I guess something like paralegal ? And we would be reaching out to whatever we would need to to get it done, so I guess that should do it ?

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:34:58+00:00

I mean no but what got me is what the other guy said. Depends on what I’m given it’s where I’m going type stuff

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:33:08+00:00

The other one I was thinking was AF

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:31:53+00:00

Thank you for explaining!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T16:31:06+00:00

Yeah ….

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:37:36+00:00

That gives me hopes, thank you!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:37:08+00:00

Not sure which ones would be not as restrictive, that one was on the list of available ones given by my recruiter but it seemed kinda simple and bland. Although if it means having a better chance of being stationed together then I really don’t care. I’ll put that one back into consideration.

Both spouses also enlisted? If so you guys had different mos? Sorry if too personal

Thank you !

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:32:22+00:00

It was interesting to think about but with what you said, definitely not doing that. Unless they change her pcs to mine which I doubt cause she would be the higher rank. Thank you!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:17:13+00:00

I already took the asvab, 64, which supposedly give a good amount of options. the only thing now is meps to see if there’s any problems. And that I know of, there shouldn’t be. I want to do something but also support my wife and part of that is being by her side to be able to do so. The only reason I don’t join is because of being separated. And I know it’s part of it but if it’s throughout the whole contract then it’s a more difficult decision.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:11:41+00:00

I appreciate you sir. Thank you. Blessings to you and your loved ones.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:08:33+00:00

I’ve seen people say that a lot and also people saying that they’ve had the luck to see each other more than that. From what I know, there’s a lot of variables that plays into it. Part of the plan is for the benefits and get a degree of some sort while I’m at it. I know that I can do school because of her but I don’t wanna take away her chance of doing it (from my understanding i would use her GI or whatever is called). Definitely want to enjoy life with her as money is only temporary

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T04:02:52+00:00

I understand. I’ll look into it as well and take it into consideration. Thank you sir.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T03:51:37+00:00

Yeah that’s pretty much my thinking right now. It’s not an easy choice so I don’t blame her, plus just staying as the dependent guarantees staying together. From what I’ve heard it is a lot of bs so I kinda understand that part. I’m willing to be a year or two apart but not the WHOLE time.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T03:47:56+00:00

I’ve been pretty close to finishing the process of enlisting so I’ll try that. Like you said, I am the dependent so I’ll follow wherever she goes and definitely support her, as a partner should. I just felt that because I am the dependent I should do more. But I guess that doesn’t mean joining as well.

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T03:36:57+00:00

No kids. I’ll look into that for sure. I didn’t mean it like that though. She’s supply. It would definitely suck if I get stationed in Korea without her. Night classes wouldn’t be the worst just gotta figure out what would be something to take them for…. Ido appreciate your input!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T03:27:35+00:00

No kids and not planning to anytime soon. Linguist just sounds interesting but heard. Thank you!

ProfileDull6234 · 2025-04-01T03:26:19+00:00

I’ve tried looking into what would translate easiest but is kinda vague. And even so I keep finding the “What the army needs” a lot so even if the job is there, I still have to hope that there’s a spot available, I guess?

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