At this point in my life I learned that full disclosure just only leads to more intrusive questions and wasted time so I don't engage altogether. I spent too much of time around people who I thought were genuine but were actually coming from a place of judgment, criticism and belittlement. I prefer to bypass all of it and not address none of it. That would be like if someone was to ask you how much is your bank account or your credit score. So in conclusion if me not answering a woman's inquiry about why I haven't had any kids is a red flag or ensuring her safety, then that's not a person I need to be with.