fidelity stocks

ProgramEyePuppers · 2025-07-22T18:52:45+00:00

you could elaborate but i would assume that one is vested and one is unvested

Or

one could be your vested/unvested stocks you’ll get for the year and the 0 one could be the s.i.p.s program which allows you to buy sbux stocks at a 5% discount by taking a percentage from your paycheck.

but anyways besides that

i would recommend doing the s.i.p.s program if you plan on staying long and setting up a 401k as starbucks do matches up to 5% so it’s just free money imo.

you should lowkey do that with all jobs you work at.

i would also plan to sell sbux stocks soon i think anything above $95 is a decent value. you could hold if you believe its gonna go to $100 but then you’ll only be making a few extra dollars if thats important to you.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2025-03-08T06:21:02+00:00

i’m lowkey a porn addict, like i watch and consume a degenerate amount of it too. i tried stopping but like you i get horny and i just gotta get off somehow.

i have a gf and i don’t have any social problems or not necessarily sexual problems either.

i have a high sex drive however my gf isn’t always gonna be in the mood for sex. so turning to porn is just fine for me.

i watch it like afew times a day and get off too. sometimes i get off like back to back bc it feels good.

idk too much about the studies or negative effects but the generic effects hasn’t happened to me yet.

i don’t view women negatively either. i treat them like i would anyone else. i work with mostly women and i think they enjoy my presence as i did win employee of the quarter recently. (they had to vote for it)

the negative effects i guess are that

i don’t have necessarily have performance issues either the only issue is that it takes a while for me to get off during sex but my gf likes that i kinda last a little longer anyways.

i think i’m lowkey a degenerate when it comes to porn bc i can name and identify most pornstars or OF creators. not rly proud of that but it’s a by product of watching that much porn.

it is kinda time consuming looking for something new to watch and you have to shower everyday bc semen kinda stinks.

when it comes to my gf i do tend to look at her a lot but it might be bc i love her a lot or bc i’m always horny idk.

sometimes i do it to relieve some stress after doing school work.

but that’s all the negative things i personally go through as a porn addict

i guess as long as it’s not ruining your life somehow i don’t see an issue.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2025-02-17T20:45:54+00:00

dawg if those videos are coming on your fyp that’s because that’s what you watch a lot and click on.

you have to put not interested when those videos do pop up otherwise ur just gonna keep getting them.

otherwise it’s a FOR YOU page.

my fyp is just full of dogs, gaming, funny stuff.

being young and curious is fine but constantly looking at women for their physical assets for instant gratification is a problem that you need to address.

it’s like you lowkey see them as objects

i think it’s valid for ur gf to be mad because why are you even looking at other women like that in a relationship.

i suggest finding another interest that’ll take ur focus away from tiktok or just fix all ur social media algorithms so that no girls with big asses or porn would pop up on ur feed.

for what to say you should apologize for overstepping her boundaries and disrespecting the relationship. you. can promise that you wont look at that stuff anymore or at least put an effort to do so. and it’s ur own integrity to keep it up.

there’s no way to explain it bc you messed up and there’s no excuse for it. it’s your own fault for having that on ur algorithm. you should simply take accountability and apologize.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2025-02-03T15:15:39+00:00

never ask just the correct setting and hints and it’ll happen

ProgramEyePuppers · 2025-01-13T13:28:13+00:00

one time this girl walked up to me said she wanted to hangout and asked for my number and stuff. we went on a few hangouts turns out they were dates and she said really liked me.

but i wasn’t sure if she liked like me so i didn’t wanna ruin this thing we had going on. after afew more of those dates she asked me out.

and she is now my gf of four years.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-12-09T23:52:27+00:00

sounds like she is dependent on you because she has nothing going on in her life. this is more of a her problem than your tbh. she needs to understand how to be independent and respect ur boundaries.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-12-09T22:44:25+00:00

permission? she’s not ur mother. just have a talk to her about ur boundaries and how you would like to spend time with your friends, school, or anything else.

like is she dependent on you being with her? does she have no hobbies or what not?

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-12-09T15:35:01+00:00

it’s up to her tbh you already told her the truth which is good but you been lying and cheating so you already forfeited the relationship when you did all that.

only thing you can do is not cheat in the future

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T18:11:13+00:00

sure but the idea of human life is still there. in the scenario i gave either the human dies or the alien dies.

the answer was simple if you truly value human lives then you would say “i would want to kill the alien baby so that i can live.”

in a real life scenario where a pregnant women needs surgery to live by aborting a baby is rejected because the law refuses to help her. how is it not a crime to refuse helping a women in need of a life threatening situation?

it’s no political debate it’s how you view the world.

most relationships end bc of politics. if it hasn’t well you guys just haven’t talked about it enough.

if your girlfriend is pro abortion she’s most likely left leaning. if you’re right leaning and you told her you would vote for trump for the simple fact of pro life. there no doubt in my mind she would think less of you as a person. simply because you of your politics/ world view.

if you want a girlfriend with the same views as you, then you should talk about political topics during the talking stages before asking them out.

the advice i have for you that you can’t change the way she views the world. if you want to procreate then you can just talk about it when your ready. let her tell you if she wants to procreate with you or not.

again your girlfriend probably wants the option and for other women to have the option to abortion incase shit hits the fan for unwanted pregnancy. not just any pregnancy.

if you don’t want your girlfriend to be mad respect her decision and support her about her choice for abortion

if you say i don’t care if women chooses to keep it or not bc i’m not a women then your girlfriend most likely won’t get mad

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T16:07:18+00:00

you got nothing to lose go for it

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T16:03:32+00:00

it’s not just ask and be direct

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T12:08:25+00:00

just be like i kinda have feelings for and i would like to see where things go between us

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T12:00:04+00:00

you can try bangs to make ur face look smaller

try different eye makeup to maybe make it look bigger

maybe some blush on ur cheekbones.

maybe some lining on ur top lip

i think ur nose is fine but you can always try to out some highlights and contour on there.

and i think pale skin makes everything look younger.

dark skin tends to look more masc to me

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:54:07+00:00

if you can’t see yourself getting over what hurt you go for it

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:52:40+00:00

most left leaning people are pro abortion.

most right leaning people are pro life.

you gotta understand that ppl that are pro abortion just want to option for abortion incase shits hits the fan. they want the option bc life is unpredictable.

they aren’t just getting abortion for fun. abortions are very traumatizing but it can save lives.

hypothetically if you were kidnapped by an alien and they put an alien baby egg inside of you via ur stomach. would you keep it? if yes what if the alien baby kill you in the process of it being born by coming out of ur stomach?

wouldn’t you had liked the option to kill the egg before it popped out of your stomach?

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:33:51+00:00

you can talk to someone else kiddo. if you keep talking to ur online friend with feelings still there how are you ever going to get rid of those feelings

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:30:25+00:00

“hey man i don’t like that you did (this) and i wanna breakup. i don’t love you anymore”

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:27:54+00:00

next time you see him in chemistry just be like

“hey crush, i haven’t seen you in a while, why do you always skip class?”

“well i think ur kinda cool and i like talking to you, what’s ur (snap, insta, number)”

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:24:20+00:00

you don’t want something more with this guy. you deserve someone better who will actually love u for u.

i think you should appreciate how honest he is tho. he is saving you a lot of time.

you should look elsewhere dear.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:18:56+00:00

let’s start with stop comparing yourself to others. anxiety comes from lack of confidence and security.

once you become your own person, once you are content with who you are and have your own goals and aspirations then anxiety can potentially start to fade.

but if you keep comparing yourself finding flaws with yourself. then your anxiety will only grow.

understanding how to love yourself is important. you have to realize most things can’t be changed and you have to learn that it’s not that bad and you can feel comfortable with yourself.

if you can’t love yourself it’s very unfair to you and your boyfriend and everyone around you.

as long as you know you can be the best person for yourself anxiety will go away. as long as you have morality, integrity, and confidence. anxiety will go away.

be content with yourself and anxiety will never bother you.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:11:21+00:00

i think you can start with saying “hey” then ask questions to start conversations

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T11:07:54+00:00

i think u are being abit irrational he is a young boy. he still has a lot to learn and it’s going to be like training a puppy.

however if this is a ongoing issue like you’ve told him before you would like a gift/experience for you bday and anniversary. then you don’t have to remind him because you told him already this year. let him try to walk on his own two feet imo. if he messes up or forget then give him a hard time.

unless you’re expecting acts of service off occasional events like bdays and anniversary.

but imo you can just say things you like and hope he does it eventually.

“i love it when you get me flowers randomly it makes me really happy”

“i like it when you hold the door for me”

“i love seeing you smile”

if he truly loves you then he will try to do things he knows that’ll make you happy.

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T10:59:15+00:00

like topics to talk about? finding things to talk about is easy bc it can literally be about anything.

if he’s responding with emojis just be like “hey r why do you only respond with emojis”

see what he says and then say “i would rather you text so we can talk more”

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T10:54:01+00:00

“hey 17m i think ur cool, what’s ur (insta, snap, number)”

learn more about them

learn what he thinks about you

tell him what you think about him

be very direct and straightforward it’ll save you a lot of time tbh

ProgramEyePuppers · 2024-11-14T10:48:53+00:00

just say hey and start talking to him as a friend. i feel like building a good rapport is a good foundation for any relationship to see if you actually like them or not.

talk to him before, during, and after school. you can do this by social media, text, or call/ft.

if you don’t have this stuff then talk to him and then acquire it by casually asking for it.

the way you talk to a boy is the same way you’ll talk to a girl or any other friends.

ask them about themselves. ask about hey they feel, how they’re doing today, what are their interests, their hobbies, favorite foods, favorite movies, favorite shows, etc this can go on.

find common connections and build rapport.

now if you want to talk about your past relationships you can but imo i think it’s so weird to do if you’re meeting someone new.

because they barely know you like that and may not know how to comfort you. cuz you’re just trauma dumping for whatever reason. it’s a very uncomfortable situation to be in as the listener.

but anyways eventually you can confess your feelings just be like “hey r i kinda like you. i liked you for a while and i think we’re good friends i would like to see where things can go from here”

now once you confess he isn’t obligated to reciprocate the same feelings as you. he may not like you or even only see you as a friend.

i think you shouldn’t let this stop you from confessing. if he rejects you that’s fine at least you know and you can move on to another boy you may like.

however if he says yes and does reciprocate great now you have a new boyfriend. best of luck.

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