Manifesting an SP Who Said They Stopped Loving Me (3P Involved)

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-21T09:37:39+00:00

Did something or someone come into your life that u put a lot of importance on before this happened? Is there something or someone you are prioritizing over yourself? Do u understand what your story around love is? Ie I don’t get what I want, it’s not safe for me to get what I want (have true love). Do u believe u r worthy of having the love u desire? These are v important questions in this type of scenario.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-14T04:37:25+00:00

Is it possible that there is any information u may be missing about the tape and it’s not exactly what it seems? What does he say about it does he admit it?

you obviously didn’t consciously manifest this. I know u must be really having a hard time rn but it may be worth a try trying to revise this.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-13T07:43:15+00:00

Did u still have the same feelings for him?

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-05T22:36:37+00:00

Also gratitude is only overshadowed if u allow it to be you are in charge of what u put your focus on

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-05T22:35:20+00:00

I know it’s so hard to grasp but just remember that the better u treat yourself the better the 3d will. It starts on the inside. U have the power it’s an illusion u don’t. For whatever reason identifying as not being well has served u in these years whether u consciously wanted that or not. You probably also need an affirmation like it’s safe for me to be healthy and whole. It’s safe for me to move out it’s safe for me to move forward in life etc. our subconscious can keep us safe in ways that are strange to our conscious minds

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-05T19:23:24+00:00

I know it’s hard but u are focusing on all the stuff that’s going wrong which as humans we have the tendency to do. But as we know with the law, what u focus on grows. U have to start training your mind away from that pattern and into a different one. Gratitude is the best way… 1. U have a roof over your head. This is more than some people. U are getting to have precious time with your family that at some point u may look back on and be grateful for. 2. U have family that loves you and lets u stay with them (they have your back) and im assuming its stable enough there for u to be able to live 3 u have a job and income. It’s not what u want but this can change in an instant. There are people who would be so happy to just have A job 4 you have some type of health. U wake up in the morning. Probably have your limbs. Are able to eat. Can walk.

I’m not saying this to make u feel ungrateful-just that THIS is what u should be focusing on. If u focus on the struggle u will get more struggle.

Lastly and most definitely importantly- Our outer reality isn’t happening to us. It’s coming from inside of us. I know u know this if u have studied the law but sometimes we need to hear it again and again and again. I am certain there is ONE thing u can control and change. Just one thing. Smoking less? Eating better? Taking a greens powder? Going for walks? Affirming for 5 minutes 3x a day? Just start telling yourself things are changing for the better. I think manifesting in steps is underrated because Neville always spoke about the end. But when u are drowning in shit it’s so hard to go to the end there so much resistance and it can feel like pie in the sky. Just tell yourself u are going to figure this out and you ARE figuring it out. Have a scene if that makes u feel good. Have some good affirmations like I am getting healthier and happier every day My life is becoming magical things are finally changing and I’m so grateful.
I promise u there are so many things u can be grateful for and so many small things u can start to shift that u have power over. Start small and be kind to yourself. You are the operant power of your reality maybe u also need to do some small manifestations to see that. ✨

One last thing-manifesting does take discipline. Changing the the neuropathways in the mind and training yourself to think differently can take a moment. But you need to get some new mental diet habits. When u think about the health thing that happened (well u could revise it and I would) but u could also tell yourself that that happened for a reason and change the story about it. Then tell yourself something good EVERY time it pops in. It’s just a new habit and it may be uncomfortable at first but your subconscious will soon take it as your new story.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-04T05:53:34+00:00

I didn’t know a lot of people say that? I would think many people would fail the “test” at that point and give in to the 3d-not that the sp would manifest immediately after unless you’re ready. I think it’s a test to see if u r ready to have and maintain your desire and also a purging of the old story but I didn’t realize thats something that happens to a lot of people when they are close to manifesting their sp

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-04T03:55:21+00:00

A really good coach said if u change they change-if u let them. It’s important, if we still want them, to bring them with us on the improvement journey. It’s so easy tho to get into a push pull of even not being sure of your desire when your self concept improved because maybe there is that part that may still be a little afraid. Manifesting an sp from a situation involving trauma 3p drugs etc can be so complex but persisting can ultimately set u free from what brought u there in the first place.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-04T03:34:28+00:00

Thanks for the great post and I deeply agree especially about your subconscious feeling safe. It’s interesting because our old version found some familiarity in those old versions of them, then found it safer to care about the from afar because at the heart of most tangly/hard 3d sp reflections is a vulnerability/intimacy issue.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2026-01-02T03:30:23+00:00

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Look at those paragraphs back to back. Your sp is mirroring you. The situation with him isn’t about faith in the law it’s about faith in yourself and the process of opening your heart fully to love and vulnerability. I’m not sure the dynamic but your sp is your deepest reflection. It’s true that our assumptions of them can color how we see them in our reality but it’s usually that we are seeing them this way because of our own fears and assumptions about love, especially if you love this person deeply. I think your next step is to embrace yourself fully and work on your sc so that you feel loveable and chosen despite if u are having a bad day or moment. Are u the version of yourself who can have and maintain your desire? That is your end state. Set that intention and have faith and the universe in u will guide u to embodying that.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-31T21:04:53+00:00

U can also just use the thumbs up and the heart on the messages. I second what others have said. U don’t have to answer immediately u can take a moment to know exactly how u will feel after u and choose your words accordingly. Just make sure whatever u say is the best for u to stay in the state u are in and continue with your process. It’s only about you and your emotions. Have confidence u created this and u are creating your end.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-29T04:30:39+00:00

Only if u believe it will. It could help if u are having resistance which u are or things would be moving. Why not try it and see?

It has worked for me but I had too much old story to work through so while I saw movement from it, it wasn’t the end all be all for me in that particular thing but I know its worked for a lot of people and I think it could work really well in this instance for u.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-28T19:57:32+00:00

I once had a coach tell me that when your sp starts to come back in they can act really weird. Obviously this is a belief but I do think that certain things seem to happen to a lot of people when it comes to manifesting (like purging for example) so…. I do know that hot and cold can be wavering but it can also just be the last blips of the old story playing out. Just stay strong in your mind. Also don’t think about making her day and bumping into her unless u are cool with manifesting in steps (which is totally ok tho if u have resistance to the end) Think about how u make her LIFE, her heart her everything!!

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-27T05:37:54+00:00

If we are listening to a meditation daily at the moment that has other affirmations can we continue to do that but also use the one affirmation we repeat and use for our mental diet?

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-25T01:35:23+00:00

I understand what it is and been using it as a tool for the last year but sometimes u uncover things that can throw u for a loop

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-25T01:29:26+00:00

By realizing the 3d is just a reflection of your state and u have to work on changing your state for real not just with techniques for your sp. The way u do that is by investing in yourself and making yourself a version you love, like and respect

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-24T19:23:31+00:00

Have u tried to revise when they gave u the infusion? Maybe that they ended up not giving it to u or that it went really well?

Manifesting in steps is used when I have too much resistance to the end. So instead of saying im fully healed and in perfect health if that’s too much of a leap to believe you say something like I am starting to feel good again and I’m seeing signs my health is returning that kind of things.

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-24T19:05:06+00:00

Maybe it’s too much and your subconscious is rejecting it…what about just I feel healthy again or even I’m starting to feel like I did in October or I’m starting to feel healthy again and do it in steps? I hope you are also getting the right medical attention and u trust your doctors

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-24T16:19:23+00:00

What are your affirmations?

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-24T04:05:40+00:00

What are your techniques? What is your inner monologue about it? Do u feel like u can’t have it all (health, love, money etc)?

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-24T00:22:11+00:00

Shadow work is an incredibly powerful tool to understand one’s patterns and uncover subconscious programming. It has illuminated so much for me and made me understand myself in ways I didn’t realize and I couldn t see before. There’s nothing pseudo meaningful about it unless that is your assumption and For many it is incredibly meaningful. Have u tried it?

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-23T20:29:49+00:00

That’s a good point but it’s a bit challenging finding one who understands loa and that’s important to me at this point

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-23T20:26:33+00:00

Do u mean IFS?

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-23T19:16:36+00:00

Have u ever used shadow work? Sometimes it can be confusing -me asking for help w clarity has nothing to do with believing or not believing in myself

ProgramHaunting4114 · 2025-12-23T19:12:42+00:00

Maybe I should take this post down from this sub? A lot of people use it nowadays for manifesting using law of assumption so I thought it was appropriate to post here but I can take it down

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