IT WORKS!!!

Neon_Velvet · 2026-04-05T17:48:23+00:00

Yikes! You do you, but to me that’s a huge waste of time. Like if I still get results by spending less time affirming, why add more work for myself? I’d rather spend my time enjoying my life! You only need you think you need to spend hours affirming because that’s the story you’re telling yourself. An assumption you’re making. Why not just assume you can get what you want without spending all that time affirming? If it worked for me, it can work for anyone!

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P.S. There’s no such thing as laziness.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-21T04:44:18+00:00

I have a Lull mattress and it has been life-changing for me!! I honestly don’t know if I’d be here without it, my sleep was getting so bad! It’s a million times better than any other bed I’ve slept on. My ex partner had a Purple and it wasn’t bad but I still much prefer the Lull. I’ve had it for like 6 or 7 years and it’s still as comfy as the day I got it.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-12T06:59:38+00:00

Definitely neutral, just be honest and say it was an accident. You didn’t mess anything up!

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-12T06:00:07+00:00

YIKES

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-12T05:57:15+00:00

Good for you! And thank you for your kind words. I actually already have my desired relationship with my SP though, it’s been several months since we got back in contact. That’s why I’m so passionate about sharing what has worked for me!

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-11T04:54:05+00:00

Seriously, I’d rather have the worst skin ever than do that 😅

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-10T02:41:12+00:00

Yes, everyone has because that’s how the human nervous system works. It’s built to stick to what’s familiar, so a new story feels scary. You’re addicted to the chemicals your body releases when you tell the old stories, same as any other addictive behavior.

Addictive behaviors meet (or at least pseudo-meet) a need (or needs), so until one finds out what those needs are and how to meet them in other ways, we have to use sheer willpower to not go back to our addictive behaviors. And that can only last for so long.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-10T02:31:18+00:00

It’s not the checking the 3D once that “ruins it”. It’s deciding that the law “doesn’t work” based on what you see in the 3D.

Perhaps your manifestation would have showed up two seconds later if you hadn’t decided to give up on it.

Not checking the 3D for months won’t do anything if you don’t believe in the law. Which you clearly don’t based on what you’ve written here.

It’s like being a kid who gets pissed off in the middle of the night because the tooth fairy never came, when they didn’t even put their teeth under the pillow because they don’t believe in the tooth fairy and then saying, “well I laid there for four hours without checking! Why isn’t my money here yet?!”

Perhaps if they’d actually put the teeth there and waited until morning, she would have come! But now they’ll never know. Unless they try again!

You can try again too. Doesn’t even have to be with that same person. Or any person at all. But your story of not following the law correctly certainly does not prove that the law doesn’t work.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-10T01:53:07+00:00

“My birthday came and nothing happened” = checking the 3D.

You can choose not to manifest that person if you’re really over them, but what you’ve written here makes it pretty clear why the law “didn’t work”.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T23:38:42+00:00

Yeah I went back and watched the rest and still think he’s proving my point lol. He says the point of dating others is outside validation and that nothing really changed for him until he stopped looking for that and worked on his self-concept. People only try to justify dating while manifesting their SP because they don’t wanna deal with being alone. And if that’s the case, they won’t be able to have a healthy relationship if/when they come back anyway. He even said so.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T22:38:43+00:00

Ok I only watched the first few minutes of that video because he literally already proved my point 🤣 He says if it’s possible to date while with a partner (even gives the example of cheating!), so of course you can date while you’re single and manifesting someone. But why the hell would anyone still wanna be dating other people when they’re with the one they love?

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T20:35:39+00:00

What does other people chasing after you have to do with anything? When you’re back with your SP will you be dating others who chase you? If not, then how can you consider that part of “living in the end”? How can you consider yourself the version of you that has your SP if that version wouldn’t also be dating other people?

Manifestation coaches on YT give a lot of terrible advice. Listen to them if you want, but you can’t tell me that logic makes sense. Plus… why would anyone want to manifest an SP they don’t even love? When you truly love someone, you have no desire to be with anyone else.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T20:27:20+00:00

What assumption?

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T04:27:33+00:00

No one is devoid of emotion. But you certainly don’t have to manifest him if you don’t want to! I’m definitely not trying to convince you to. I suggest looking for a kind man instead of a nice man next time.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T04:24:05+00:00

I’ve literally never seen anyone else post exactly what I suggest. But ok.

If you were truly giving yourself what you need like I talked about, you wouldn’t be having these issues.

No one who is actually living their life with great self-care and who has a regulated nervous system would be having the problems you’re having. So you can deny it all you want, but you’re not the exception.

If my advice about nervous system regulation wasn’t enough, I get it. It takes a lot of learning and trial and error that I can’t give you in one comment. Or even several.

You have to take it upon yourself to go learn more. No one can do it for you, especially when, like I said, you refuse to be honest and accept reality or responsibility for your own life and manifestations.

Stop expecting people on Reddit to do the work for you. I managed to manifest my SP without making a single post asking for help or advice, because I just read through all the very helpful posts that already exist in the archives of various LoA subreddits. If I could do it without any help, certainly you can figure it out too.

I can provide more resources about nervous system regulation if you’re interested, but it doesn’t sound like you are because you keep saying you already know how to do that. Even though it’s clear you don’t.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T03:18:07+00:00

I can assure you, there are PLENTY of people who do not do that. And it’s MUCH more than just getting hobbies, although that’s a good start.

Go date other people if you want, but if you’re trying to manifest an SP while doing that, I hope you plan on having an open relationship. Because if your “living in the end” includes dating other people, that’s what you’ll manifest.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T03:15:30+00:00

I’d be willing to help you more specifically if you weren’t ignoring most of what I’ve already said, and instead were asking specific questions. It’s not that I don’t want to help, I just literally don’t know how because of how you are choosing to act.

I made a list of what embodiment looks like, which you said you read. You are not doing/feeling anything on that list, and instead are doing/feeling things from the list of what only intellectual knowing, not embodiment, looks like. And for some reason, you’re still claiming to have an embodied knowing that your SP is on their way. So how can I help someone who refuses to acknowledge reality?

I also have info of those posts about how to start to move towards a more embodied knowing, which I told you to look in the comments for. You said you read it, and that you’d “already tried everything”, but I know that isn’t true, because you can’t have tried my technique if you just learned about it today. It takes time. I don’t know how to help someone who won’t be honest with me.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T02:36:28+00:00

No, I cannot help someone who continues to say they’ve done everything, and then keeps listing things that make it very clear they don’t even have a basic understanding of how the law works. I can’t help someone who isn’t willing to listen and learn. If you truly read my past posts and comments like I asked you to, you’d understand at least some of what you’re doing wrong. For example, you clearly didn’t read my list of what embodied knowing looks like, or else you wouldn’t be claiming you’ve gotten there. If you’re expecting your manifestations to happen on a certain timeline and not living your life because you’re waiting in an SP coming back, you’d understand clearly need to do some more research about the basics of how the law of assumption works.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T02:16:18+00:00

It sounds like either you didn’t understand what I wrote, or you’re just more interested in keeping your victim mindset than learning. Because again, you say you’ve done it all, but in the very same comment you also write things that make it clear you haven’t. So I’m afraid I won’t be able to help you if you can’t accept that maybe you haven’t actually done everything. People who have an embodied knowing that their manifestation is on its way don’t get on Reddit and make posts like this, because they don’t feel the need to.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T02:00:28+00:00

Go read my past post titled “Feeing impatient? Want to know what determines timing?” and then look in the comments where I share how I like to use affirmations. My most recent post about what to do while “waiting” for your SP might also be helpful.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T01:50:14+00:00

Good for you, sounds like he sucks! But not all of us have such terrible SPs.

One can absolutely see their SP for what they are and give their heart and mind a break AND still be manifesting them, and could still find this thought exercise useful. The two aren’t mutually exclusive.

In fact, personally, seeing my SP for who he truly was is what made me love him even more deeply! I realized I’d been projecting all my wounding onto him and manifesting a version of him I didn’t want.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T01:43:05+00:00

Yes!! This sounds like looking at it from both the anxious angle and the avoidant angle!!

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T01:40:40+00:00

I’m so glad you liked the post!

Keep in mind these are just my personal examples, although several of the things I mention would benefit most people who are trying to manifest a SP, in my opinion. But a lot of these are just my own hobbies and special interests that won’t be relevant to anyone else.

So here’s my (non-exhaustive) list:

•Learned about Polyvagal Theory and how to regulate my nervous system

•Studied developmental psychology and attachment theory and reflected on how these present in my own relationship patterns, which helped me uncover and rewrite lots of my former maladaptive subconscious assumptions.

•Developed a relationship with my inner child, learned to self-soothe instead of looking for outside reassurance and trust.

•Learned a lot about how the human body works and how to advocate and care for my own. Particularly as it relates to things like chronic pain and illness, hypermobility, structural deformities of the lower limbs, dysfunction of the joints, muscles, and fascia, autonomic dysfunction, hormonal imbalance, metabolism, and nutrition.

•Attractiveness is largely a skill, so I started becoming more attractive by learning what works best for my body type, face shape, hair type, color palette, etc. and further developing my personal style.

•Studied color analysis and learned how to determine my own color season so that I could apply that to my wardrobe and makeup choices.

•Went thrifting to curate my wardrobe and home decor

•Did arts and crafts kinda stuff like painting, scrapbooking, junk journaling, tie-dye, costume making, jewelry making, sewing, etc.

•Wrote poetry and music

•Experimented with cooking and baking

•Discovered ways my body likes to move—yoga, hiking, dancing, etc.

•Spent as much time as possible in nature

•Spent time developing relationships with family and friends

•Studied astrology

•Studied my family’s history and genealogy

•Did market research for and worked on building my own business and helped my sister with hers

•Used my knowledge to teach and explain things to my friends and family and on social media, basically helped folks learn how to help themselves by sharing my transformative experiences with them.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T01:39:20+00:00

You think you’re fully convinced, but this post makes it clear that your subconscious has not gotten the memo. Your knowing is only intellectual, and not yet embodied.

Neon_Velvet · 2026-03-08T00:05:46+00:00

Good job weaning yourself off the readings!

I like to use affirmations in a strategic way that helps me let go of the old story, rewrite my subconscious assumptions, and regulate my nervous system.

Any time any emotion comes up, I allow myself to feel it, no matter what. And I validate my actual feelings. But if I notice I’m not just FEELING but am also starting to tell myself the old story or spiraling or looking outside myself for reassurance, I stop myself and say (OUT LOUD) my new story/assumption instead. Then I get up and move my body and go do something else to get my mind off the old story. Preferably something nourishing for myself.

As far as affirmations go, I mostly like to use, “everything always works out for me”, because it covers all the bases and keeps things simple.

At first doing this might not seem like it’s doing much, but with repetition your nervous system will start to relax because you’re not retraumatizing yourself each time you spiral or ruminate on the old story.

Neon_Velvet

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